Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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My experience:

Cold approaching is the real deal. It's just way easier to game women in person than online. I learned that rejection is based on how you approach. Too eager is too much.


Online I get matches but honestly jumping through hoops just to get a response can be exhausting.

Im just looking for a chick I can vibe and be intimate with.

You should have no problems. They are choosing heavy right now due to covid. I got quite a few text and “check ins” on thanksgiving.

Between Christmas to Valentine’s Day, the thirst will be even heavier. Especially with every woman around them becoming pregnant around this time.

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Brehs I just lied to a girl and said I was looking for something serious too. I feel like a scumbag cuz I never lied to a woman before. But it’s been dry for a breh outchea, not gonna lie:mjcry:

Ima be honest with you. The times I’ve been honest with women, it didn’t go well. Some “respected” it, but others just fell off.

At the end of the day, if it ain’t you, best believe it’s someone else who is in those guts.
 
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I'm not meant to attract women, but I'm coming to terms with it now more than ever.

It frees me of frustration and anger.

Sorry breh, I just saw your post and read some of the other ones. I’m curious.

Are you “ugly”? Do you need to lose weight? Are you mentally ill or something? There are many reasons women don’t respond to men, in the ways that we’d like. There are ways around such barriers and there are solutions to such problems. What’s the issue that you think is holding you back? Why do you think you’re not normal?
 

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What’s with this self defeating talk? You got to work on your self esteem and self image.
What you label "self defeat" I label an understanding and freeing of mental frustrations.

Instead of constantly going to sources that continue to make me feel angry and depressed I need to understand that it's not for me.

I feel like I understand what I'm good at, and I need to continue to work on my craft, instead of wasting any energy on women.

All of my feelings of anger and sorrow are surrounded by women.

Whenever I'm creating art I don't feel this way.

In fact, I feel the exact opposite.

For me, porn is a temporary "good feeling" and the idea of women felt like they could make me feel better.

I fail with women, get frustrated and go back to porn in a never ending cycle.

I need to stop fantasizing about this idea of me being with a woman because it's not going to happen.

What I need to do is continue to work on my art and find my happiness in that.

I'm not wasting time on Instagram looking at women I'm never going to have sex with.

I'll watch porn when I need to.

Meaning I'm sure I'll get the urge to and I won't fight it, as opposed to spending all my free time looking for porn.

It's unhealthy. And I'm not using that as a means to "get women" I just need to occupy my time with something else.

Whenever I start to reflect, I see how toxic and detrimental I've allowed women to be in my life, and I've never even been in a relationship with them.

The sooner I let them go, the sooner I will find my happiness.
 

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Sorry breh, I just saw your post and read some of the other ones. I’m curious.

Are you “ugly”? Do you need to lose weight? Are you mentally ill or something? There are many reasons women don’t respond to men, in the ways that we’d like. There are ways around such barriers and there are solutions to such problems. What’s the issue that you think is holding you back? Why do you think you’re not normal?
The more time I dwell on "why" the more I find myself in a circle of depression and anger.

I don't need to spent any more time on women.
 

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I hate matching with cute brehettes and they don’t say nothing. Some I have doubled text like a clown. I wish I could do life over again or not be born.
Did you say something different to the girls you got off tinder than the others? What you say when you got those?
 

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For so long I’ve been casual with ladies and have become extremely comfortable being the one pursued for commitment.

One of my current situations involves a long time friend I have feelings for and ended up smashing a couple of times when I was in town.

Really feeling her and she knows that and is open to build a relationship, but we’re long distance for now.

Me actively pursuing someone relationship wise coupled with the long distance has got me feeling like I’m in unfamiliar territory. It’s far from my typical dynamics but I’ll try to make it work esp if I see she is too.

Even if it doesn’t work out or it just seems like it’s too much, I know I’ll be happy with myself for trying it out. I feel she’s worth the effort.

Any tips on the whole ldr dating thing?
 
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What you label "self defeat" I label an understanding and freeing of mental frustrations.

Instead of constantly going to sources that continue to make me feel angry and depressed I need to understand that it's not for me.

I feel like I understand what I'm good at, and I need to continue to work on my craft, instead of wasting any energy on women.

All of my feelings of anger and sorrow are surrounded by women.

Whenever I'm creating art I don't feel this way.

In fact, I feel the exact opposite.

For me, porn is a temporary "good feeling" and the idea of women felt like they could make me feel better.

I fail with women, get frustrated and go back to porn in a never ending cycle.

I need to stop fantasizing about this idea of me being with a woman because it's not going to happen.

What I need to do is continue to work on my art and find my happiness in that.

I'm not wasting time on Instagram looking at women I'm never going to have sex with.

I'll watch porn when I need to.

Meaning I'm sure I'll get the urge to and I won't fight it, as opposed to spending all my free time looking for porn.

It's unhealthy. And I'm not using that as a means to "get women" I just need to occupy my time with something else.

Whenever I start to reflect, I see how toxic and detrimental I've allowed women to be in my life, and I've never even been in a relationship with them.

The sooner I let them go, the sooner I will find my happiness.

Even Kinetic Kentray didn’t give up and eventually got some pink wet box and an eager mouth to shove his meat into
If an autistic 5’1 110 pound weirdo can get his beak wet and you out here literally saying you’re gona be a eunuch :hhh:
 
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