Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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For so long I’ve been casual with ladies and have become extremely comfortable being the one pursued for commitment.

One of my current situations involves a long time friend I have feelings for and ended up smashing a couple of times when I was in town.

Really feeling her and she knows that and is open to build a relationship, but we’re long distance for now.

Me actively pursuing someone relationship wise coupled with the long distance has got me feeling like I’m in unfamiliar territory. It’s far from my typical dynamics but I’ll try to make it work esp if I see she is too.

Even if it doesn’t work out or it just seems like it’s too much, I know I’ll be happy with myself for trying it out. I feel she’s worth the effort.

Any tips on the whole ldr dating thing?

don’t do it
 

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Need some tips for a side.

Are you brehs more straight forward with it? Or sneaky?

I already have in my mind:

Google number
Creating duplicate socials
Not bringing to my crib
Etc.


Let me know if I’m missing anything else.
Whats the purpose of all this sneaking around? Are you living with a woman? If so then you already lost.
 

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For so long I’ve been casual with ladies and have become extremely comfortable being the one pursued for commitment.

One of my current situations involves a long time friend I have feelings for and ended up smashing a couple of times when I was in town.

Really feeling her and she knows that and is open to build a relationship, but we’re long distance for now.

Me actively pursuing someone relationship wise coupled with the long distance has got me feeling like I’m in unfamiliar territory. It’s far from my typical dynamics but I’ll try to make it work esp if I see she is too.

Even if it doesn’t work out or it just seems like it’s too much, I know I’ll be happy with myself for trying it out. I feel she’s worth the effort.

Any tips on the whole ldr dating thing?



Any one who's been following my story from the beginning of the year until Halloween (when i got dumped), saw me chronically a journey of a woman i dated this year.


Cliff noted: we met locally, she left for school but we didn't build a solid enough foundation and my insecurities took over.


So that ended before I could salvage it.



For you? You're starting off long distance; that might not be so bad if you're still whatever about the girl.



End game is: do i recommend it? Of course. If y'all two mentally healthy people who can trust one another. I say it's worth it.



Would I do it again? Funny thing is... no. But i want that old thang back and I want to make it work.


So obviously, that's why my stance on LDR is so strong. Cuz I haven't let go yet.



:ohlawd:



A fella gets emotional err fukkin' day.



K-Ci & JoJo - How Could You (Official Video) - YouTube




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Even Kinetic Kentray didn’t give up and eventually got some pink wet box and an eager mouth to shove his meat into
If an autistic 5’1 110 pound weirdo can get his beak wet and you out here literally saying you’re gona be a eunuch :hhh:
I'm not sure what Kent has to do with me and my particular situation but I wish him the best of luck.

The decision was already made for me by women.

I'm just glad I'm coming to this realization before it's too late.
 

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Oh nah. I just don’t want girl knowing where I live. These hoes are crazy and get real comfortable once they find out your place looks good.
Stop dealing with hood rats and deal with a higher quality of women. Chicks that are educated with careers and benefits and shyt don’t do all that. If she got her own nice crib why would she trip over yours?
 

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I'm not sure what Kent has to do with me and my particular situation but I wish him the best of luck.

The decision was already made for me by women.

I'm just glad I'm coming to this realization before it's too late.

you in a thread with men exchanging advice on how to handle relationships with women and getting p*ssy, posting depressing loser shyt about how you gave up on women.
Like going into a thread about exercise
Tips saying “I give up I just wana be a fat slob” over and over
shyts weird and GAY. Shut the fukk up already :hhh:
 

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you in a thread with men exchanging advice on how to handle relationships with women and getting p*ssy, posting depressing loser shyt about how you gave up on women.
Like going into a thread about exercise
Tips saying “I give up I just wana be a fat slob” over and over
shyts weird and GAY. Shut the fukk up already :hhh:
Spend time with the women in your life.

You'll find more joy out of that than going back and forth with me.
 

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Editing the post down to say simply, just get you a chick who is about you and only YOU don't deal with indecisive time wasters

its just that simple
Brehs just invest way to much and get nothing in return.


Majority of all these women are transient here today gone tomorrow. If a woman wants to be in your life she will
If she doesn’t she won’t
 

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She's broke and crying... I wanna pay her rent and her car note for December, I know I'm simping but I HATE women crying on me.... What would you guys do?
 
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She's broke and crying... I wanna lay her rent and her car note for December, I know I'm simping but I HATE women crying on me.... What would you guys do?

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