Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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To add on which is why experience is sometimes the greatest learner. All those simp moments etc. You know it got you nowhere

All those should I text and you do and get back k or convo dries up

All those begging and nothing happens
 

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Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

Your social circle must be hella trash. :mjlol:

I got a thick ass nurse I curved last year and a chick with 10K plus Instagram followers I curve every time she in town. That's just off the top of my head.

You should be beating women off with a stick in Atlanta. :snoop:
 

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We’ve all been there
I remember going on dates with chicks and then waiting around for a text and ish. Begging an ex to give me another chance and ish :picard:


Facebook messenger keeps all your messages throughout the years. I was in college when Facebook came out. I was reading messages from 2007 and I’m so ashamed of myself I damn near considered starting a whole new account,
 

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So this chick whom I known for years every 2 days would contact me. Never had to chase. Was supposed to go out Sunday but she kept having excuses that we was going. So I finally told her " hit me up when you aint busy and we can go out". I put her stories on ig on mute. Whereas I would normally peep once in a while.

Should I totally block her. Or is that being over emotional. Or just keep it the way it is and don't initiate contact.
 

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So this chick whom I known for years every 2 days would contact me. Never had to chase. Was supposed to go out Sunday but she kept having excuses that we was going. So I finally told her " hit me up when you aint busy and we can go out". I put her stories on ig on mute. Whereas I would normally peep once in a while.

Should I totally block her. Or is that being over emotional. Or just keep it the way it is and don't initiate contact.

Don’t block her. You already put the ball in her court so it’s up to her to decide the next course of action. Best thing you can do is go on about your daily life and not focus on her. If she wants you, she’ll make the effort.
 

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If you live in a city or town and dating is consistently trash for you, if you have the means do it then do yourself a favor and move to another city :camby: There's no point in subjecting yourself to that sort of shyt especially when you're in the prime of your life :damn: All that holding out for the imaginary compatible woman who won't show up :sadcam::snoop: Your homies might be like "oh you moving to Dreamville just to chase some bytches :bryan::heh::umad:" Nah man, you're moving to give yourself a chance to reach your potential in life :beli::ld:
 

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If you live in a city or town and dating is consistently trash for you, if you have the means do it then do yourself a favor and move to another city :camby: There's no point in subjecting yourself to that sort of shyt especially when you're in the prime of your life :damn: All that holding out for the imaginary compatible woman who won't show up :sadcam::snoop: Your homies might be like "oh you moving to Dreamville just to chase some bytches :bryan::heh::umad:" Nah man, you're moving to give yourself a chance to reach your potential in life :beli::ld:

Military life can suck when dating if you get stationed in shytshow, nowhere. I think when i get out id like to try living in DC. Everytime i visited i seen great looking women. And it seems like a cool place to live but ive never been there longer than 3 weeks so.:yeshrug:
 

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Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

My nikka if you missing with those stats, the man in the mirror is the problem...
You got to be doing something wrong that rubs women the wrong way...

Anti social:mjcry:
Simping etc
 

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My nikka if you missing with those stats, the man in the mirror is the problem...
You got to be doing something wrong that rubs women the wrong way...

Anti social:mjcry:
Simping etc

I get plenty of dates and matches when I use Hinge but I’m around a lot of Covid people plus women be flaky and I don’t like to do a bunch of social activivites if ultimately I’m doing it just for p*ssy
 

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Well fellas...i might have shot the club up

She been having spotty(blood) before her period(which should be wends next week)..i literally see her take BC pills..she took a test and it said not prego(i googled and since its 4/5 days before her period it says the test is only probably 33% accurate rn)

I dont have any kids
 

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33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.

why the hell do you need a match making service :dahell:,:mjtf: you're just giving away money:gucci:

you're literally in the top 1% of all black men worldwide
unless bruh lives in bubblefukk, nowhere USA I don't see why it's necessary unless...he's a socially awkward simp :yeshrug:

Or ugly :yeshrug:

Cause to live in Atlanta where the ratio heavily favors black men and not be able to find anything is a little worrying :jbhmm: especially since Atlanta never closed so there's no "nothing's open due to corona to meet women" excuse.

Bruh probably just needs confidence and maybe a sense of style or something. Cause he should be eating swell in the A :eat:
 
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