Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The Radiant One]

Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

 

[Marci-Senpai]

Just deleted all my dating apps accounts...fukk em...I rather get it naturally

 

[noumena]

What would you guys suggest?

To put it simply, I lack sexual experience, and I'm turning 37 in a couple weeks.

I've been with a couple of females (never paid), had a couple gfs, but they were all lackluster to say the least. I can't even honestly say I've been "turned out" so to speak.

I already know how most women are about inexperienced men; for some reason its a real turn off for them.

I feel like once they figure out I'm sort of green, they'll be turned off and ghost my ass.

I've kind of gotten myself in this odd predicament, and have no clue what to do about it. Perhaps maybe get myself a casual gf? Make some sort of arrangement with an escort? I really have no idea of the best route....

Don't talk about it. Other breh suggested lying but I wouldn't do that. You'd be surprised how bad most dudes are at sex. If you can last like 5 minutes you're better than most dudes she's ever been with if she has experience. True story I had this one chick I hooked up with, lost my virginity to her and she said I was great (she was more experienced). Later on a year or so after we hooked up again and she stopped while we were fooling around to tell me how good I am. Messaged me later saying she likes our sex a lot. Breh I'm not lying when I'm saying I wasn't even that into it and just wanted it to end. fukked her for maybe 10-20 mins and just showed her a little affection and touched her body a bit. Most of these dudes hop on em and cum in like 2 seconds so if you show even the slightest bit of swag and effort you're at the top of the list. Trust me breh I've asked around and this is the general consensus whether it's hoes or good girls. Most guys are utter trash at this shyt so if you have a bit of foreplay and some good moves and can last a bit they won't be able to tell the difference. My word of advice is find a good woman to commit to though sex is better that way. fukk all that escort noise though

 

[The Radiant One]

Just deleted all my dating apps accounts...fukk em...I rather get it naturally

A lot of these dating apps just have decision paralysis do you think you have all the options in the world but it turns out you have none

 

[CW_1991]

Got a bit of a dilemma. There's a chick I've been dealing with on-and-off kind of for some years. Real cool, not perfect, but cool. Loyal. Got personality. Few years younger than me (I'm 29). No kids

Can be a little intense at times but, only if you do her dirty. She also hung up on this disloyal, bunny type dude who she also has history with. They're not together but she is sort of hung up on him (and me)

Anyway, I'm a kind of dude who likes to stay in shape at the gym, constantly improving etc. Whereas she's not. She pretty much has the whole package more or less other than being a little on the chunky side. Not overly so, definitely could make drastic changes in a few months if she applied herself. But the motivation / drive is just to not there. And at times I have trouble trying to convey that. I try to subliminally let her know best I can and everything but, it doesn't really seem to hit home. And I don't want to hurt any feelings.

I'm a fairly a decent looking dude, and I don't want the contrast between the two of us to be lopsided. I would like for it to be relatively even. Someone you're not embarrassed to take around out and about. I know that's a little fukked up but that's just how I feel. If you're going to try to work and build with somebody in a serious capacity, it ought to be as close to your ideal as possible i think (for both parties).

 

[sfgiants]

Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

you making 250 in Atlanta, 6 foot and not eating?
I was in Atlanta for business in jan/feb, GANG of successful bytches there with their own house, masters degrees, no kids. Down to earth normal bytches. corona shutting shyt dine has made it harder to meet hos but I was real impressed with the quality of women during my short time there

Got a bit of a dilemma. There's a chick I've been dealing with on-and-off kind of for some years. Real cool, not perfect, but cool. Loyal. Got personality. Few years younger than me (I'm 29). No kids

Can be a little intense at times but, only if you do her dirty. She also hung up on this disloyal, bunny type dude who she also has history with. They're not together but she is sort of hung up on him (and me)

Anyway, I'm a kind of dude who likes to stay in shape at the gym, constantly improving etc. Whereas she's not. She pretty much has the whole package more or less other than being a little on the chunky side. Not overly so, definitely could make drastic changes in a few months if she applied herself. But the motivation / drive is just to not there. And at times I have trouble trying to convey that. I try to subliminally let her know best I can and everything but, it doesn't really seem to hit home. And I don't want to hurt any feelings.

I'm a fairly a decent looking dude, and I don't want the contrast between the two of us to be lopsided. I would like for it to be relatively even. Someone you're not embarrassed to take around out and about. I know that's a little fukked up but that's just how I feel. If you're going to try to work and build with somebody in a serious capacity, it ought to be as close to your ideal as possible i think (for both parties).

Been here before with a gorgeous ass bytch who was a little flabby (not a pig, but could’ve lost 15 lbs)
The worst case will be that she has plenty of time and just doesn’t give a fukk and loves fast food. But sometimes bytches have hectic schedules and it makes it hard to find time or energy to exercise
If it’s the latter then I’d play the long game and be persistent with having her exercise with me, if she’s just a lazy dog ass bytch then bush cuz those fat ass habits won’t break

 

[TRUEST]

Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

I was tempted to ignore this out of laziness but I think it’ll be unfair to not put out the warning.

if you’re making 250k, you have no business dating anyone making less than 100k. I know that may cut down ur dating prospects but honestly think ahead for a lil bit, how would u feel if she ends up pregnant and starts taking a chunk of money out of ur paycheck?? You worked hard to get where you are. Don’t squander it looking for love.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ok Coli brehs I met with the Tawkify match maker over zoom.

Basics I tell her what I want she states she will interview these women and in a week she will send me the match.


I live in Atlanta
Who am I?
33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.
I work 14 days a month
I have a wealth building philosophy


I gave my preference (black) but open to other races.
What am I looking for? Long term relationship with marriage as a possibility wants children.
Age range 21-30 I'm 33 don't see the point of expanding my age range
Must be fit, feminine and friendly
Preference to Christian religion
No less than 5 feet tall
No less than 40-50k salary
Must be goal oriented
Must have a college degree. (I gave leeway saying no high college debt)
Deal breakers
No kids
No cigarette smoking


Interview questions she will ask them

1. Where do you see yourself in 1 to 5 years? Getting married? When is your ideal marriage time?
2. What should a man bring to a relationship? What do you bring to a relationship?

When she asked me what I liked I said well I find East african women to be beautiful as a phenotype.

She will screen and conduct the interview with these women and let me know when she finds a match.

33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.

why the hell do you need a match making service , you're just giving away money

you're literally in the top 1% of all black men worldwide

 

[The Radiant One]

33 year old black physician never married
1 child but lives with the mother and mother won't let me see kid due to legal child support being low
No pets
6 foot
250k+ salary
Weigh 215 lbs work out 5 times a week.

why the hell do you need a match making service , you're just giving away money

you're literally in the top 1% of all black men worldwide

breh the dating on Hinge and CMB is wack tried cold approaching bytches be looking at me crazy so this is where it leaves me

 

[BeeGoinCrazy]

Reading my old messages with my ex from like 2016 and nikka Wtf was I on back then

 

[MikelArteta]

breh the dating on Hinge and CMB is wack tried cold approaching bytches be looking at me crazy so this is where it leaves me

breh these same women will be on that match making service
I remember years ago back in the POF days i was like and signed up for a free eharmony/match
the same chicks from pof were on there.

It's like applying for a job these recruiters will reach out to people on linkedin but will also post the jobs on indeed etc.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Reading my old messages with my ex from like 2016 and nikka Wtf was I on back then

I know EVERY nikka can relate to this at one stage of their life

It's all a learning experience though breh

 

[VertigoKnight]

Reading my old messages with my ex from like 2016 and nikka Wtf was I on back then

Got a new phone and was reinstalling some numbers from the cloud backup. It brought along some deleted text messages and man oh man.

Just reading how I was acting towards a certain chick I was seeing was



I was damn near pleading to her to let me know if we'd be talking again, as she had dumped my ass.

I'm going to leave that message on my phone as a reminder to myself.

 

[The Radiant One]

breh these same women will be on that match making service
I remember years ago back in the POF days i was like and signed up for a free eharmony/match
the same chicks from pof were on there.

It's like applying for a job these recruiters will reach out to people on linkedin but will also post the jobs on indeed etc.

True well see I’ll be letting people know if it’s worth it. These women are interviewed by the match maker and they have a lot more info to go by

 

[MikelArteta]

Got a new phone and was reinstalling some numbers from the cloud backup. It brought along some deleted text messages and man oh man.

Just reading how I was acting towards a certain chick I was seeing was



I was damn near pleading to her to let me know if we'd be talking again, as she had dumped my ass.

I'm going to leave that message on my phone as a reminder to myself.

We’ve all been there
I remember going on dates with chicks and then waiting around for a text and ish. Begging an ex to give me another chance and ish