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Vinny Lupton

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What's some good phrases to deflect the "what are you looking for" type questions on the apps? Told one flat out I'm staying single and that didn't go over well
 

Vinny Lupton

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“Looking for someone I can grow and vibe with and lead to something of substance.”
I dont even feel like leading nobody on. Some of these girls have no chance of it leading to anything. Not saying I wanna just show up at their house and put my dikk on their forehead but I dont want anyone to have any expectations of me
 

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I dont even feel like leading nobody on. Some of these girls have no chance of it leading to anything. Not saying I wanna just show up at their house and put my dikk on their forehead but I dont want anyone to have any expectations of me
This savage life aint for you then. Just be upfront with them and let them know what it is. Some women will respect the honesty.
 

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This savage life aint for you then. Just be upfront with them and let them know what it is. Some women will respect the honesty.
Last time I was on the apps heavy I was on a rampage, don't get me wrong. But none of them asked me that dumb ass question
 

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Covid causing me and my girl to go long distance. I'm moving back home to Atlanta and she going back to her family in seattle to save money. :mjcry:

Anyone do long distance successfully and got any tips? We've been together for about a year now



"All Bad..."



In one right now.



Key word: TRUST.



Toughest thing i'll ever deal with. She ain't even in school for a month yet and I already sabotaged the shiit out of it.



What you have is a year, verses a couple months for me.



So if y'all already established enough and this separation is temporary (verses mines, three years).... y'all should be straight.



Keep communicating, stay faithful and enjoy the fact that... and this is big:



Y'all found love in such extremely precarious times.



That is MASSIVE.



Love is the greatest souvenir of all time. Hang on to this one and cherish it while you have it. Cuz it could be gone tomorrow.



Wish you two luck. I really fukkin' do.



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Even better for you. That shows a lack of experience.

Mold her into whatever r you want and she will be your toy , at your pleasure/mercy all the time.
I here this so much an it’s BS if u don’t have the patience. Some of the fun of sex is seeing way the other person got I hate teaching chicks that know nothing it’s boring as hell, just give me a hoe
 

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What's some good phrases to deflect the "what are you looking for" type questions on the apps? Told one flat out I'm staying single and that didn't go over well

I’ve said it before on here but going forward YOU ask that question first.
I always ask that question before they do.
When they ask me, I always respond with something along the lines of “to delete this app :manny:
99.99% of the time bytches are like “lol yea me too”
From there you can either change the subject OR you can add detail about how youre “too busy” to be on that app and how you “don’t have time” to be meeting multiple bytches. This works so well because 1) they think ur not tryna fukk a bunch of randoms 2) makes you look like you got ur shyt together and you’re busy with your career etc

bytches eat it up. Assuming you’re not fat and a lame, you can tell them whatever the fukk you want and if you’re smart keep steering the Convo to where it’s clear you aren’t looking to settle down but you don’t flat out say “I just want sex” even tho they’ll know you really just tryna chill at the crib and cum :shaq::dame:
 

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I asked this chick how she’s doing abs she responded with “hi”. And then I made up some shyt about how I’m bored inside and asked how she’s handling the whole COVID situation. All she said was, “Also inside with my granny.”

:stopitslime:
 

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I asked this chick how she’s doing abs she responded with “hi”. And then I made up some shyt about how I’m bored inside and asked how she’s handling the whole COVID situation. All she said was, “Also inside with my granny.”

:stopitslime:
I’m confused as to what you’re looking for. Stop going for small talk. Tell her why you’re hitting her up and have her answer yes or no to your plans
 
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