I usually do a couple of messages of intro small talk to get a feel for the girl. If we can’t have a brief conversation through text how is it going to work in person?I’m confused as to what you’re looking for. Stop going for small talk. Tell her why you’re hitting her up and have her answer yes or no to your plans
edit: I told her she should at least get out a little getting stuck inside all day. And she says she can’t afford to go out because of her granny.