Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had a second date with this chick on thursday. She wanted me to make her dinner. I thought we were going to make it together especially since she wanted me to wait till she got to my place before I started cooking. Keep in mind I told her I never made meatballs, mash potatoes (from scratch) and zucchini. She got to my place and started spazzing about my kitchen counter and that the kitchen cabinet doors were open.

The food wasn't good but she didn't offer to help. These Hinge dates are garbage


Don’t make her dinner til after you smash :yeshrug:
 

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Your response here is good. There’s a dude on here who gave the perfect response for these types of situations. I gotta find that post. The gist of it was, u reply in a way that has her feeling absolutely stupid without actually saying anything negative. I gotta find that post.

EDIT:

found the post. That dude I was talking about was you lol. This is what u said in response to another girl pulling some fuccksh1t:

“Alright, no hard feelings. Do what’s best for you. Get well soon.”

this is bound to have her feeling some type of way considering the reason she’s even telling you about her indecision is based solely on egotistical reasons.


just like men brag about having a harem of b2tches. Don’t be one of the guys a b1tch feels she has in the bag. Your quoted message above is perfect.

She is playing a game to see if you would cave in after she pulled away. It’s childish more than anything because her little speech told her everything you needed to know.

Literally Block and ignore her because she will come back to be “friendly” when things inevitably don’t work out.
 
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Your response here is good. There’s a dude on here who gave the perfect response for these types of situations. I gotta find that post. The gist of it was, u reply in a way that has her feeling absolutely stupid without actually saying anything negative. I gotta find that post.

EDIT:

found the post. That dude I was talking about was you lol. This is what u said in response to another girl pulling some fuccksh1t:

“Alright, no hard feelings. Do what’s best for you. Get well soon.”

this is bound to have her feeling some type of way considering the reason she’s even telling you about her indecision is based solely on egotistical reasons.


just like men brag about having a harem of b2tches. Don’t be one of the guys a b1tch feels she has in the bag. Your quoted message above is perfect.

:russ: I took my own advice on this one. But yea that’s the best. She literally just texted me again on her new canadian number telling me she just needed a break from her stress and asking me how have i been and what have I been up to:gucci:
 

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:russ: I took my own advice on this one. But yea that’s the best. She literally just texted me again on her new canadian number telling me she just needed a break from her stress and asking me how have i been and what have I been up to:gucci:
Don’t let that confuse you or give you any false hope. It’s a guilty conscience. She Knows what she did was wrong (She fuccked her ex) but wanted to let u down easy. Gauge how mad you are.
 

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Man, man, man.....I swear I’m gonna be single for a long ass time.

So i found out a month back that my ex cheated on me while we were together and I was crushed. Mind you I was going through a deep depression at the time from losing my auntee, amongst other shyt so her excuse was that I wasn’t making love to her enough and wasn’t giving her the attention she wanted. She made it seem like that it was a major issue compared to what I was going through.

Cheated on me with one of her ex’s at the fukking truck stop on 3 different occasions

Too add insult to injury she broke up with me during that time I was depressed.

From then to now, I been keeping my distance while recovering from everything and I’ll say that I’m definitely in a better head space now. I’m still hurt but at the same time I moved on. I’ve already began talking to other girls.

She keeps on trying to get my attention of trying to make things right. she been harassing, stalking and even broke into my crib while I was working one day, stole my Bulls hoodie and sent a picture to me of her wearing it but she claim I left it behind knowing damn well I didn’t.

all this because I refuse to take her ass back.

Promising that she will change, buy me this, do that, etc...

Nah man...fukk that bytch. It finally clicked with her that I’m moving on after I last conversation and she’s burning things I left behind.

But you know what...I feel at peace and I’m glad that bytch is out of my life.
 

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What’s y’all experience with sex therapists? I’m considering seeing one cuz I’m tired of always thinking of sex like I’m 16 :mjcry:. I’m 20 now and sooner I put an end to this the better, for my future self, I know sht ain’t natural. Can’t even hit the supermarket without looking at booty:mjcry:. Give me some input brehs:wow:
Breh you're 20 and you're male, looking at female booty is natural. Men four times your age still look at booty but can't do anything about it. You can.

As long as sex and the pursuit of sex doesn't get in the way of achieving your full potential as a man, you'll be fine.
 

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Finna to meet a chick on Thursday night. She offered nudes through snapchat, but I declined in hopes that she knows I'm trying to go for the grand prize:mjlit:, not concellations.

Anyone else not fukking with nudes before actual fukking?

I'd just rather not get sucked into the whole Snapchat orbiter simp, sext bullshyt girls love. If we're gonna get sexual, let's get sexual in person. I'm not trying to sit around with blue balls.
 

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Finna to meet a chick on Thursday night. She offered nudes through snapchat, but I declined in hopes that she knows I'm trying to go for the grand prize:mjlit:, not concellations.

Anyone else not fukking with nudes before actual fukking?

I'd just rather not get sucked into the whole Snapchat orbiter simp, sext bullshyt girls love. If we're gonna get sexual, let's get sexual in person. I'm not trying to sit around with blue balls.

Yeah I don't want nudes from women I haven't met. I've found women who do all that are very,very flaky.

The sort of chicks who tell you how good their sex game is then go quiet when you tell them to come though and show you.

In my experience quieter chicks who dont have to do all that are better. And things happen naturally.
 

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met a cute 22 y/o mixed ting off Hinge... hung out at the park for a few hrs just talking and chilling... said she was free later that nite, came over... one min we watching Netflix, the next min she in the doggy position yelling @ me to fukk her... :whew:


literally spent $0.00 on this date lmao :whew:

don't come off as uptight or judgmental and these chicks become much more spontaneous :mjlit:
 

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Don't let these attention seeking clout chasing broads set you up. :snoop:

Just been reading that thread on some Kevin Samuels dude who went on some dinner with that fake hotep chick. :snoop:

I would have seen her b.s. from a mile away. Clearly she planned to roast dude from jump.

Oh yeah and when you're with chicks, stop looking and acting all goofy like you playing with your 5 year old nieces and nephews. :mjlol:
 
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