Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man he did a lot of dumb shyt. It was embarrassing and I actually liked his content. I can't fukk with him anymore after he exposed his true self.

post the vid if you can, I thought dude was gay anyway
 

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Can’t lie, I LOVE when a chick im talking to will flake or try some fukkery now. Cause all I need is one time for it to happen and now I can be on the same shyt, except im 10x worse:bryan:

Between my career, my business, reselling, starting this second business, etc. I literally couldn’t care less if I ever see they ass again :camby:


That’s the way it should be. Many men give women way way to much Opportunities
 

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That’s the way it should be. Many men give women way way to much Opportunities

Yep. No more. Last one that tried it. She came back saying she really wanted to see me. She setup a day to meet. The morning of the date she messages me saying she thinks she has a cough and maybe covid symptoms and she should probably stay in...Told her I hope she feels better soon and good luck. And deleted her message and number.

3 weeks later who do I see on Bumble with a brand new profile.

:francis:

I used to continue to chase the bullshytters and excuse their excuses because I wanted to hit.

This same chick messaged me again recently asking me how I was. Didn't even reply. She'll never get my energy or attention again. Even if she was throwing the p*ssy my way.
 

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Yep. No more. Last one that tried it. She came back saying she really wanted to see me. She setup a day to meet. The morning of the date she messages me saying she thinks she has a cough and maybe covid symptoms and she should probably stay in...Told her I hope she feels better soon and good luck. And deleted her message and number.

3 weeks later who do I see on Bumble with a brand new profile.

:francis:

I used to continue to chase the bullshytters and excuse their excuses because I wanted to hit.

This same chick messaged me again recently asking me how I was. Didn't even reply. She'll never get my energy or attention again. Even if she was throwing the p*ssy my way.


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lol that same ish happened to me. Was supposed to meet up with a chick but she said she wasn't feeling well and I said cool no worries let me know when you feel better just let me know. I deleted her number and yep haven't heard from her since. I know how it goes.


and thats the way to do it be stern
 

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and now the difference was also suppose to meet up with a chick last Sunday she wasn’t able to, but See the difference when a chick wants to meet up with you?

I’m the blue iMessage font
 

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and now the difference was also suppose to meet up with a chick last Sunday she wasn’t able to, but See the difference when a chick wants to meet up with you?

I’m the blue iMessage font

Yep the energy and enthusiasm is night and day when a woman wants to actually meet in person to see if there is chemistry. Matched with the chick late Tuesday night on Bumble and this morning after a few messages, she asked me when can we meet up?

Gave her my availability let her choose what works for her and we go from there. No hesitation or bullshyt.

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Yep the energy and enthusiasm is night and day when a woman wants to actually meet in person to see if there is chemistry. Matched with the chick late Tuesday night on Bumble and this morning after a few messages, she asked me when can we meet up?

Gave her my availability let her choose what works for her and we go from there. No hesitation or bullshyt.

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yup no excuses, i guess Asian from that emoji
you like bumble better than hinge?
 

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Yep. No more. Last one that tried it. She came back saying she really wanted to see me. She setup a day to meet. The morning of the date she messages me saying she thinks she has a cough and maybe covid symptoms and she should probably stay in...Told her I hope she feels better soon and good luck. And deleted her message and number.

3 weeks later who do I see on Bumble with a brand new profile.

:francis:

I used to continue to chase the bullshytters and excuse their excuses because I wanted to hit.


This same chick messaged me again recently asking me how I was. Didn't even reply. She'll never get my energy or attention again. Even if she was throwing the p*ssy my way.

Good to see you got rid of the sunk cost mentality. Used to have the same issue after consuming PUA shyt. I've come to the point where women who want you will make it easy as hell to bag them. Anything that needs to be forced or "worked on" is 100% going to fail.
 

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Had some hot Bosnian chick from Hinge turnout to be a dud, last night. She came off super serious, awkward, and unwilling to play ball/non compliant.

Shyt, she was more interested in the damn pizza than the conversation :mjlol:

I paid for my drink and bounced.

Takeaways

  • Value your time. I've had enough dates to know when shyt is gonna be smooth sailing. 15 minutes in I knew it was a wrap. Stayed another 30 minutes cause her pizza came and I would have felt like a dikk if I left her by herself to eat in solitude.

  • Observation I've been noticing, any first date I have when a girl starts inquiring about getting food at anytime goes south. Majority of successful dates that led to fukking, the girl was didn't give a shyt about anything passed the preliminary coffee/drink.


Chick I was texting for a meetup tonight was blowing up my phone at 3 in the morning, microanalyzing our text conversation the last few days. Had to put my phone on Do Not Disturb mode to get some sleep. I was gonna try to pipe her, but my instincts are telling me to bail. Left her on read.

Not to mention she started mentioning "being in a suuuuuper weird and messy phase in life".

Yeah, uh time to eject.:whoa:

Takeaways
  • People let you know who they are. Trust your sixth sense. If something feels off, GTFO. If bytches start talking about mental health issues in even the slightest way, run.
 

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My girl won’t shut the fukk up.

Im sure I want to marry this woman and have kids with this woman. I just have no idea when nor do I really want to put a date on it because I’m going through a career change that requires my full financial and mental focus. So yeah that marriage shyt gotta wait for the next 8-9 months at least which she should understand because I’ve told her but that’s not the issue.

Where I fukked up is TELLING her I want to have kids, I’m looking at engagement rings, I want to marry her, and I need to meet her parents and talk about marriage.

This girl won’t stfu. Every other day she talkin about getting pregnant, the type of rings she likes, how she can’t wait. Conversation isn’t even regular anymore. That part is annoying but it’s minor. She’s a woman and I know she wants this with me and that’s fine but last night she did some dumb shyt.

She called her pops and told that man my boyfriend wants to marry me but he wants to be meet you first. Why in the hell would you do that dude.. idk if I’m overreacting but I definitely didn’t ask her to do that at all. Now I’m like wtf. It won’t even be a natural meet up. Completely ruined the shyt
Sounds like she wants a wedding more than a marriage.

I hate when they treat things like this like a checklist. I understand they have a body clock to abide by, and they lose viable eggs by the multitude, but damn let things go organically for a bit instead of trying to fit it into a timeline like a train conductor.
 
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