Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Curious, how many of y’all get the p*ssy without dates or any bullshyt?:patrice:

Yes. Without dating, without approaching , without calling her, without complimenting or validating her. I wanna know too
too.

Some cats make it like soon as they pull up at a bar, Return of the Mack is blasting and women are flocking. :mjlol:
 

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Curious, how many of y’all get the p*ssy without dates or any bullshyt?:patrice:

Usually depends...

I never used to take any girl out on dates until I was passed 25 :bryan:Chicks were just down for the house visit.

My approach has had to change a bit as I got older as some women aren't going for that anymore, but usually you can gauge from conversation which ones are down a Netflix & Chill/House date.
 

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Curious, how many of y’all get the p*ssy without dates or any bullshyt?:patrice:

Lol you need a bit of the bullshyt. I like to have one date or meetup beforehand to see if the chemistry is there. And I'm usually able to have a first meet hookup.

Any woman who wants to meet without any of the bullshyt. I'm suspicious of.
 

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Lol you need a bit of the bullshyt. I like to have one date or meetup beforehand to see if the chemistry is there. And I'm usually able to have a first meet hookup.

Any woman who wants to meet without any of the bullshyt. I'm suspicious of.

Standard procedure for me is a meet-up in a neutral zone. Shoot the shyt for an hour or two and then bounce to my place. You need a little romance/ bullshyt thrown in before sex, various reasons

1.To make sure she's not setting you up for something nefarious
2. To get more comfortable around you
3. Start preliminary landing actions (foreplay starts outside of the bedroom)
 

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I'm having a bit of a "monsoon season" right now. Two dates last weekend( one lead to sex, didn't have time as I met up too late and she had shyt to do) and two/three more potentially set up for later in the week.
 

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And ironically, look what your actions yielded? Her coming back.

If you had pestered her for “her love” like she wanted you to, i guarantee she woulda been laughing at you with her homegirls and just be overall disgusted with you. All she wanted was to see you in a weak position so that she could reject you and walk away on a euphoric high or string you along with false hope while she already fukkin wit a next dude/dudes.

This is real life not Disney. There is no such thing as “fighting for love”. Once a woman emotionally checks out, she is completely gone and so is the relationship. The only way she’ll get that emotional spark back is by the man moving on and becoming a greater man than he was when he was with her. But at that point, why would the greater man go backwards?

I kno that can suck for folks who were attached/liked/in love with the girl, but these modern day broads find it difficult to remain grounded. They always on flight mode. And until a woman shows you otherwise...and i mean...REALLY shows you...dudes just gotta do they own thing.

Fukk what society or your friends say :yeshrug:


A lot of men are clueless about women emotionally checking out. And they don't see the now very obvious signs of her now looking at you with a mix of pity and disgust. Especially if you begging.

I used to think you could win a woman back by doing all the fantasy shyt we've been taught as boys growing up. But once you sit back and think of the cold hard realism of her no longer feeling you. It all comes together.

I've had to learn this lesson too many times. Now it's hard-wired into me. No chasing, no pleading, I'm friendly and cordial if I see them or they message me, but they won't be getting my emotions going at all.
straight up drives a woman crazy when she sees what she thought was her power over me be nothing.
 
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Why do they do that? Is that some type of manipulation game for you to prove your love and for them to get control of you?

She asked me for a "break" due to her depression & stress, so I gave it to her. She sent me an angry text the next day about feeling alone and like I don't care for her. She also asked me to take her on a date, even cook for me, and still calls me "babes". I'm confused asf lol.

She know what she's doing :pachaha::pachaha:

Anytime that language is mentioned, whether she's got a man or not.... :pachaha::pachaha:
 

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Standard procedure for me is a meet-up in a neutral zone. Shoot the shyt for an hour or two and then bounce to my place. You need a little romance/ bullshyt thrown in before sex, various reasons

1.To make sure she's not setting you up for something nefarious
2. To get more comfortable around you
3. Start preliminary landing actions (foreplay starts outside of the bedroom)

Exactly my MO.

I've done the go straight round to her place hookup and its always been disappointing and awkward. Neither of us are 100% comfortable.

Much prefer we both meet and talk in person and build up the attraction and get her comfortable. As we all know how someone acts online can be completely different face to face, especially when it comes to actual chemistry.

Doing the match on Tinder/Bumble and be round her place within the hour kind of hookup was dicey. Nothing worst than fukking a chick and being like she's attractive but this shyt is wack and she's uptight. No chemistry, no real idea of what she likes to do.

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A lot of men are clueless about women emotionally checking out. And they don't see the now very obvious signs of her now looking at you with a mix of pity and disgust. Especially if you begging.

I used to think you could win a woman back by doing all the fantasy shyt we've been taught as boys growing up. But once you sit back and think of the cold hard realism of her no longer feeling you. It all comes together.

I've had to learn this lesson too many times. Now it's hard-wired into me. No chasing, no pleading, I'm friendly and cordial if I see them or they message me, but they won't be getting my emotions going at all.
straight up drives a woman crazy when she sees what she thought was her power over me be nothing.

Men don’t realize the artillery they have against women.

Indifference.

Not anger, swear words, yelling or any other type of emotion. Just straight up “yeah”, “cool” “ah” indifference.

She wants to argue? Indifference

Manipulation? Indifference

Play games? Indifference/move on

End the relationship? Indifference & move on

That is the Hiroshima and Nagasaki to women.

Harness that shyt brehs.
 
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