Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Should ask your boy but you should already have a feeling for what type of dude he is. Don't do it if you be on some player shyt and your boy knows though. I did this earlier this year, I asked my boy and he said it was cool, then we was all out at dinner one time and he kinda went off on her. I couldn't tell if he was serious or not. We came to the conclusion that we would just end it if he was. She ended up ghosting me though, that was March. She got engaged last month. :skip:
I think they know I’m a good person but like what you explaining it can get awkward if things go south.
 

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Spent the day at the beach with the flight attendant, the way her ass swallowed her thong :wow:
I talked to her on the phone for two hours last night and got a date lined up on Tuesday. Out of nowhere my ex started texting me talking about she misses me but I’m not falling for that.
 

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Spoiler - I was watching that movie Queen & Slim the other day.

A dude should end it when a broad is acting funky right off the bat for no reason at all. Dude was cheesing being all nice while the chick is just nit picking everything, not bothering to make a good first impression and being moody and combative with him cos she had a "shytty day" and acting like she's doing him a favor just by being there. Then when they get pulled over, dude is telling her to chill and calm down while he's dealing with the racist cop and she's still running her mouth and escalating the whole thing until it turned tragic and they both lost their lives in the end.

If he ended it on the spot, that later encounter with the racist cop wouldn't have happened at all cos she would have had to get an uber or something. I would have been like, you know what, let's just end it right here. :hubie: Literally. The older I get, the less I fukk around.

I mentioned earlier that people know not to arrive late for a job interview, well they also know not to have an attitude for the same reason. The red flags get ignored until it becomes a headache later on down the line. If you can't come correct, I'm not gonna ride it out and do mental gymnastics as to why I should give you a second chance. It's just a small prelude as to what you're gonna face later on.
 

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These women flake so much its fukking crazy :ohhh:

i damn near had an experiment this week where i set up plans with a bunch of chicks knowing that a few were going to flake... and it definitely happened :mjlol: i only linked with a couple of them

one girl even lied and said she wasnt feeling well because of leftovers and then 30 mins later texted back and said she was psyching herself out and is nervous but still wants to meet

they so full of shyt i hope u brehs aint putting all your eggs in one basket:francis: stay on your purpose
 

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These women flake so much its fukking crazy :ohhh:

i damn near had an experiment this week where i set up plans with a bunch of chicks knowing that a few were going to flake... and it definitely happened :mjlol: i only linked with a couple of them

one girl even lied and said she wasnt feeling well because of leftovers and then 30 mins later texted back and said she was psyching herself out and is nervous but still wants to meet

they so full of shyt i hope u brehs aint putting all your eggs in one basket:francis:

:pachaha: I literally do this every time I finally get round to trying to link a chick now. I book about 3 knowing that at least one will come up with an excuse :win:
 

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:pachaha: I literally do this every time I finally get round to trying to link a chick now. I book about 3 knowing that at least one will come up with an excuse :win:
Bro! u got to... i used to think i was doing something when i would set something up on fri and sat... nah u gotta set 3 for friday and 5 for saturday at least 4 gonna flake and you will have to flake on a few... we need to start returning the favor to these chicks
 

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How can I set up a decent tinder? I never took it seriously so I never learned a format


Its no where to pull up on women so I gotta do tinder :francis:
 

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How can I set up a decent tinder? I never took it seriously so I never learned a format


Its no where to pull up on women so I gotta do tinder :francis:

Tinder is hit or miss depending on your city

Try hinge and blk also

just use good pics not all selfies... if you work out and have pics that women can tell you are in shape ... post it

good job title post it.. over 6 ft tall post it... but keep the bio short dont tell your whole life story and also dont go crazy with swiping on there
 

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Tinder is hit or miss depending on your city

Try hinge and blk also

just use good pics not all selfies... if you work out and have pics that women can tell you are in shape ... post it

good job title post it.. over 6 ft tall post it... but keep the bio short dont tell your whole life story and also dont go crazy with swiping on there
I'm in a major city so I think it will be okay

Lol I usually just post a selfie

With no bio

I'm gonna give it a real try this time
 

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Does anyone else have the problem of being so no nonsense with females that it cuts off potential hit offs?

Like you literally have to consciously dumb yourself down in order to entertain silly-ass conversations?
 

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Does anyone else have the problem of being so no nonsense with females that it cuts off potential hit offs?

Like you literally have to consciously dumb yourself down in order to entertain silly-ass conversations?

If you have to do all that then you shouldn't be wasting your time with the chick. fukk I look like talking about LHH or other bullshyt I have no interest in?
 

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Give an example cause a lot of times people confuse no nonsense with being lowkey goofy

Her: you being short no reason to

Me: what's on your mind? Can't really force conversation.

Me: as for me, not much. I'm just lying here watching TV.

Her: a lot honestly

Me: a lot of what?

Her: people are hella fake!!! I had to cut some so-called friends off basically

Me: sounds like drama

Her: nah I don't have drama just saying that's what was on my mind but ok bye

Me: ok bye

Her: wow

Her: judging me already that's crazy

Me: you really coming off that way right now.

Me: Look at our conversation.

Her: I just said that what was on my mind doesn't mean I have drama I'm finishing up a college degree and work 24/7 ‍♀️

Me: you're saying your friends are fake and you have to cut them off. That's drama. That's issues with other people.

Me: then you tried to abruptly dismiss me with the whole "bye" thing when I said that.

Her: doesn't mean it's me this a cold world bye

Me: you coming off a certain type of way

Her: oh well I don't need you or anybody else

Her: you being rude when you don't even know me

Me: I'm good. I see where this is going

Her: that's crazy I was just trying to meet you and get to know you as a friend

Her: catfish

Her: I knew you were one

Me: goodbye

After that she tried to Ring to me and I just hit decline.

I should also say, we met on Tinder. Things started off pretty good the first 15 minutes. She asked for some of my social media accounts to make sure I wasn't a catfish which I obliged. Even sent her a live SnapChat photo.

Maybe this whole exchange proves I'm an a$$hole or something. I don't know. But everything I said came naturally. There was no kind of negativity intended. From my point of view, the chick got issues. And I wasn't about to entertain any further
 
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