Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Thegospel]

Her: you being short no reason to

Me: what's on your mind? Can't really force conversation.

Me: as for me, not much. I'm just lying here watching TV.

Her: a lot honestly

Me: a lot of what?

Her: people are hella fake!!! I had to cut some so-called friends off basically

Me: sounds like drama

Her: nah I don't have drama just saying that's what was on my mind but ok bye

Me: ok bye

Her: wow

Her: judging me already that's crazy

Me: you really coming off that way right now.

Me: Look at our conversation.

Her: I just said that what was on my mind doesn't mean I have drama I'm finishing up a college degree and work 24/7 ‍

Me: you're saying your friends are fake and you have to cut them off. That's drama. That's issues with other people.

Me: then you tried to abruptly dismiss me with the whole "bye" thing when I said that.

Her: doesn't mean it's me this a cold world bye

Me: you coming off a certain type of way

Her: oh well I don't need you or anybody else

Her: you being rude when you don't even know me

Me: I'm good. I see where this is going

Her: that's crazy I was just trying to meet you and get to know you as a friend

Her: catfish

Her: I knew you were one

Me: goodbye

After that she tried to Ring to me and I just hit decline.

I should also say, we met on Tinder. Things started off pretty good the first 15 minutes. She asked for some of my social media accounts to make sure I wasn't a catfish which I obliged. Even sent her a live SnapChat photo.

Maybe this whole exchange proves I'm an a$$hole or something. I don't know. But everything I said came naturally. There was no kind of negativity intended. From my point of view, the chick got issues. And I wasn't about to entertain any further

You was extra af
All you had to do was ask what her friends did. After you hear it give your take and change the subject. I mean, you could've met up wit her to see how she is face to face but if that's the type of time you on it is what it is. She didn't say anything too crazy.

 

[CW_1991]

You was extra af
All you had to do was ask what her friends did. After you hear it give your take and change the subject. I mean, you could've met up wit her to see how she is face to face but if that's the type of time you on it is what it is. She didn't say anything too crazy.

Maybe I am man. That might be the issues I have with females these days. I don't like stupid shyt. Or at least perceived stupid shyt. I got to do better.

 

[360dagod]

Does anyone else have the problem of being so no nonsense with females that it cuts off potential hit offs?

Like you literally have to consciously dumb yourself down in order to entertain silly-ass conversations?

You give off the perception you have no personality...that's how they interpret it...

When I go thru my "zones", that's pretty much the vibe I give off if I don't fukk wit u like that...

 

[Soundbwoy]

2 hours my guy Why? Where is this date going to be at?

We were just talking about random stuff didn’t seem like a 2 hours convo, I have no idea probably go out to eat and we’ll see after because it might rain

 

[CW_1991]

You give off the perception you have no personality...that's how they interpret it...

When I go thru my "zones", that's pretty much the vibe I give off if I don't fukk wit u like that...

She really wasn't catching my fancy like that for real. I was totally okay with losing her.

 

[360dagod]

She really wasn't catching my fancy like that for real. I was totally okay with losing her.

Nah I mean women in general want you to give them some sort of "opening"...

If you give a smidgen of a fukk, you gotta throw them a lil bone

 

[CW_1991]

Nah I mean women in general want you to give them some sort of "opening"...

If you give a smidgen of a fukk, you gotta throw them a lil bone

Sorry man, can you dumb that down a little bit for me. I can't really grasp what you're trying to get across.

 

[360dagod]

Sorry man, can you dumb that down a little bit for me. I can't really grasp what you're trying to get across.

Basically what I'm saying is you gotta at least be willing to let your "guard" down to some extent..

Silly ass conversations are basically forms of small talk to them...
Even if it's a show you dont give a fukk about, you can tune in here and there just to keep them honest...
We dont like explaining shyt when we watch stuff,but they the complete opposite...

 

[CW_1991]

Another question. What are yall thoughts on hitting up random females on Facebook and trying to holler? Not necessarily randoms but females that you know about from work or just around the way?

I've always been a kind of guy where I'm only friends with people that I really deal with on a semi-regular basis or at least know ( I'm also pretty private). My friend list is relatively small compared to some folks that be having like a 1000+.

Profile is also relatively dry. I don't make a lot of posts or a bunch of quotes. Don't really have a lot of pictures either. I'm guessing I'm going to have to change that though.

 

[Astroslik]

Am I the only one that is a staunch advocate against double texting a chick? Maybe I’m immature or something lol

 

[Prynce]

Why so many women selling p*ssy on dating apps?

 

[twan83]

Another question. What are yall thoughts on hitting up random females on Facebook and trying to holler? Not necessarily randoms but females that you know about from work or just around the way?

I've always been a kind of guy where I'm only friends with people that I really deal with on a semi-regular basis or at least know ( I'm also pretty private). My friend list is relatively small compared to some folks that be having like a 1000+.

Profile is also relatively dry. I don't make a lot of posts or a bunch of quotes. Don't really have a lot of pictures either. I'm guessing I'm going to have to change that though.

whether it was random females or not I always shoot my shot
You be surprised how many nothing but nets can happen breh
Don’t live a what if life

 

[CityGuy]

Spoke to a girl who said several of her friends have HSV-1 and never disclose bc "everyone has it".

Went on a 3 day bender reading up on HSV-1 and moved from depressed, scared shytless to realizing I've definitely kissed multiple women in my life unknowingly with this.

Never had a symptom in my life and a family doc laughed at me and said HSV-1 isn't being a big deal.

 

[DaRealness]

Good video by AMS. He bene making some moves lately.

 

[young yeesh]

Anyone that watches AMS knows he’s improved his game tremendously from when he first started on YT. He caused controversy by telling dudes to seem high valued even if that wasn’t their authentic self. Now he’s telling dudes what it takes to become high value. That’s the growth that was needed