Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:

fukk it leave them snakes alone.. It's so easy to just ghost people. They'll show up peakin on ya timeline at some point. Just do u and improve yaself
 

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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:
U seem to still be emotionally tied to this chick. It shouldn’t be difficult to toss this out of ur mind if you didn’t harbor some sort of desire for her, however small it might be. I can’t imagine writing multiple posts about some sh1t I don’t care about.
 

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So tell me why my mother in law called me yesterday getting on me, talking about as a man im supposed to be the provider...why my woman gotta spend the money....I need to call and check on her...I have to emotionally show I care etc. My ol girl got approved for the covid relief check and we supposed to move in together. Instead of me tryna spend all my money on paying for the first month, I figured, "shyt she got the free money, let her use that for us to move in" (she don't work). fukk I gotta go to work for and save up my money when she sitting on a free check?
:francis:
 

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So the July 4th party is later today and I heard from grape vines.. the mutual friends I had with my ex(that I cut off) are all talking shyt saying “Malik is too weak to see his ex and her new man blah blah”:stopitslime::stopitslime::stopitslime: I wish I can defend myself and black on them but imma just be the bigger man and let them talk all they want:yeshrug::yeshrug: .. I’m a very honest and like to confront people so it’s pains me every minute I can’t say anything and stay quiet:stopitslime::stopitslime:

Don't let them play you like that. It's perfectly normal to not want to see your ex with another man, especially if you don't have someone else.

They sound like a$$holes if I'm being honest to even dismiss your feelings like that.
 

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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:

Dude just bush all of them. :what:Life's too short for this nonsense. They're not paying your bills.

They already showed you they're not your friends and where their loyalty lies, so just let them go and make new friends.

Maybe you just need to watch a good movie and chill by yourself this weekend. :manny:
 

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I be taking naps too breh, but I'm not going to cut a girl off the phone and tell them to ring me back cause I want to take a nap.
That's nonsense, just code for I'm not trying to speak to you right now. :stopitslime:

Exactly it's not like she's working a night shift and has to go to bed or something. Her boyfriend was probably in the next room. :heh:
 

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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:

Don’t go. Women always say that shyt to bait you. Whether it’s “he’s not a real man if he doesn’t come” or “he’s weak” or not “man enough” so psychologically distract you. No need to hang around that ish. Sounds toxic anyways, stay around positivity.

Cook some wings, grab a drink / alcohol. Just chill and enjoy your own company.
 

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So tell me why my mother in law called me yesterday getting on me, talking about as a man im supposed to be the provider...why my woman gotta spend the money....I need to call and check on her...I have to emotionally show I care etc. My ol girl got approved for the covid relief check and we supposed to move in together. Instead of me tryna spend all my money on paying for the first month, I figured, "shyt she got the free money, let her use that for us to move in" (she don't work). fukk I gotta go to work for and save up my money when she sitting on a free check?
:francis:

Remember. Women always will spend your money before they spend theirs. They are the cheapest creatures when it comes to that.

Seems like mom is trying to save that check for an emergency, like a real emergency. I hope she gets that UI & care act money.
 

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Nah I see no point:yeshrug::yeshrug: all of them abandoned me post breakup,took her side, and she got a new guy going to that party:yeshrug: I don’t feel welcomed around those people:stopitslime: I been to two functions with all of them(without the new guy) post breakup and I felt like the outcast the entire time:francis:
fukk that:camby:
Plus my ex got them spying on me and trying to get info out of me:gucci::gucci:
Sneaky shyt don’t fly with me:camby:

Those two reasons alone are good enough to leave those folks alone.

From what you told us before, they've already exposed themselves as not being real friends to you.
 

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But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence
 
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