Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Made a tinder account just because and surprisingly bytches like the boy boy:ehh: Anywho I matched with this bad lil Samoan bytch (really tryna impregnate and wife that:ohlawd:) but fr how long do I wait to ask her to link or whatever
How you talking about inpregnating and wifing a girl you ain't even met yet? And from online dating? :gucci::dead:

pics?

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Me and this girl been dating a month
I FaceTime her WED she tells me to call her back she finna take a nap

I didn’t call her back I thought she should be calling back Since I called her I didn’t hear from her all the rest of the day and Thursday was supposed to be making July 4 plans

it’s Friday afternoon Still haven’t talked should I reach out or leave it alone


My women friends saying call her don’t be petty open communication

Coli breh What should I do leave it alone or nah
 

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Me and this girl been dating a month
I FaceTime her WED she tells me to call her back she finna take a nap

I didn’t call her back I thought she should be calling back Since I called her I didn’t hear from her all the rest of the day and Thursday was supposed to be making July 4 plans

it’s Friday afternoon Still haven’t talked should I reach out or leave it alone


My women friends saying call her don’t be petty open communication

Coli breh What should I do leave it alone or nah

Of course your female friends would say that. :camby:

The writing is already on the wall - if she was interested she wouldn't have had to take a "nap" when you called her, she would have been happy to talk. Then not to call you back when you're supposed to have plans for tomorrow? :shaq2:

Just leave it alone and move on.
 

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Me and this girl been dating a month
I FaceTime her WED she tells me to call her back she finna take a nap

I didn’t call her back I thought she should be calling back Since I called her I didn’t hear from her all the rest of the day and Thursday was supposed to be making July 4 plans

it’s Friday afternoon Still haven’t talked should I reach out or leave it alone


My women friends saying call her don’t be petty open communication

Coli breh What should I do leave it alone or nah
Don't call her. Where you messed up was not telling her to call you. She is calling the shots, telling you 'call me back'. Nah. Now if YOU don't call her, she can say "I asked you to call me back but you didn't".

Listen if she wanted to make plans she would've hit you up already. But she didn't. That says alot. Expect her to call you tonight or tomorrow. Make plans for 4th July without her. Who knows, you might meet a good looking woman at a BBQ or something
 

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Decided to give Hinge a try again...................How are there this many fat bytches out there :what:




Bout to file fraud on this bullshyt and get my damn $20 back :pacspit:

delete and start over
if you get a bunch of matches you only see hot girls
 

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In the past year (pre-covid), I’ve literally only gone to the beach and park for all first dates (live in a warm climate).

Spent max probably $15 - several times nothing if I brought fruit, snacks and drinks from home.

I’ve told women straight up I find restaurants boring and not fun (which is the truth) and opt for fun outdoor activities (biking,’running, outdoor workouts etc.) or cooking something together and chilling on the balcony or museums/exhibits.

This restaurant courting shyt is such a stupid first world phenomenon and a waste of time. Outside of when I travel, I’m about to toss it in the bushes completely once Covid is done.

Take a stand and see how she reacts. If you’re confident she’ll get with your program...or bounce. :yeshrug:
 

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Of course your female friends would say that. :camby:


Don't call her. Where you messed up was not telling her to call you. She is calling the shots, telling you 'call me back'. Nah. Now if YOU don't call her, she can say "I asked you to call me back but you didn't".

Listen if she wanted to make plans she would've hit you up already. But she didn't. That says alot. Expect her to call you tonight or tomorrow. Make plans for 4th July without her. Who knows, you might meet a good looking woman at a BBQ or something


The writing is already on the wall - if she was interested she wouldn't have had to take a "nap" when you called her, she would have been happy to talk. Then not to call you back when you're supposed to have plans for tomorrow? :shaq2:

Just leave it alone and move on.



I gave in and called :snoop:




She did a complete 180 on me
Saying she wants to think about if she could keep dating


This one hurt


She showed me mad love breh
I should’ve listen you guys
Now I’m salty and feel stupid
fukk it at least I told her how I felt
I don’t have any regrets


It’s gonna take a minute to recover I see why nikkas go crazy now
 

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Decided to give Hinge a try again...................How are there this many fat bytches out there :what:




Bout to file fraud on this bullshyt and get my damn $20 back :pacspit:
Damn I could've told you that. Last time I was on Hinge it was like i was in a damn ocean all those whales on there
 

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Fellas, how yall feel about chicks posting pics of them in they lingerie?

Me personally I think it's kind of like nikkas posting shirtless pics ( :dame:)


As long as no onlyfans.com/ link follows.
 

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I gave in and called :snoop:




She did a complete 180 on me
Saying she wants to think about if she could keep dating


This one hurt


She showed me mad love breh
I should’ve listen you guys
Now I’m salty and feel stupid
fukk it at least I told her how I felt
I don’t have any regrets


It’s gonna take a minute to recover I see why nikkas go crazy now

Playing this back n forth game of communication never works out for anybody.
You'll be fine, yall was only dating for a month.
But the words "could keep dating" is ringing in my head. she give you any explanation what she meant?
 

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Playing this back n forth game of communication never works out for anybody.
You'll be fine, yall was only dating for a month.
But the words "could keep dating" is ringing in my head. she give you any explanation what she meant?



One reason I still have my exes on my ig


Never deleted didn’t take it serious
I told her I would delete them if we made it official
It’s funny she never brought it up before


Then she said never dated anyone with kids
She didn’t want to take anytime away from my daughter
My daughter 13
I’m 34
the girl is 29
She wouldn’t be taking time at all


She said she didn’t want to be a 2 month fling I told her I called her today to tell her I was serious about dating she doesn’t have to worry


I was telling the truth but also felt like I gave away too much

also the girl lives 3 hours away

she would come see me I would come see her
She didn’t know if it would be sustainable


I think I we flourished because she was lonely because corona now stufff opening back up she wants to be free
 

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One reason I still have my exes on my ig


Never deleted didn’t take it serious
I told her I would delete them if we made it official
It’s funny she never brought it up before


Then she said never dated anyone with kids
She didn’t want to take anytime away from my daughter
My daughter 13
I’m 34
the girl is 29
She wouldn’t be taking time at all


She said she didn’t want to be a 2 month fling I told her I called her today to tell her I was serious about dating she doesn’t have to worry


I was telling the truth but also felt like I gave away too much

also the girl lives 3 hours away

she would come see me I would come see her
She didn’t know if it would be sustainable


I think I we flourished because she was lonely because corona now stufff opening back up she wants to be free


nikka 3 hours away ???? :mjtf:

bruh you wilding if you don't find somebody who you wouldn't have to take a plane to see.

That's most likely the real reason and all the other reasons just didn't help your case with her at all. I'd call that a long distance relationship and you know what they say about those.
 

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nikka 3 hours away ???? :mjtf:

bruh you wilding if you don't find somebody who you wouldn't have to take a plane to see.

That's most likely the real reason and all the other reasons just didn't help your case with her at all. I'd call that a long distance relationship and you know what they say about those.



This girl got in greyhound to see my raggedy ass
I had a girl drive three hours to see me

when deal with girls that live 10 min away that be on that bull shyt

you really appreciate the effort
 
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