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Ok so I got a question for y’all. What could be some reasons why a woman doesn’t want to leave a certain state?(in this case NY)

Just a girl I know casually mentioned this to me at work when me and some coworkers were talking

she is originally from BK and I had mentioned moving down south for cheaper rent because we were talking about how expensive rent has become in NY. She just got a place in the city with most help from her family and just needs to pay like 500 for her portion. So I brought up how a lot of people are going down south cause of the cheaper standard of living and she said she would want to stay in NY .


Just something random I never seen someone say or recently say they wanna stay in NY lol. But this is a real young black girl . At work she works mad hard ain’t a lazy chick at all. Seems real ambitious and is a dime etc

she is originally from BK as I said as far as where she was born and grew up and I think she moved to Queens for a brief period . And now she In Manhattan. She does show the thot tendacies from being super close to male coworkers and shyt like that but she is super down to earth as a whole. Seems like one of those rare nice dime thots lo. I can see her possibly moving in the past as girls do to escape a certain reputation

in any case though I wanted The perspective of you guys on why did she say she isn’t looking to move out of NY as a whole and prefers to stay here. Maybe I’m overthinking but I feel like there is always a deeper reason. You have become experts by now in this thread

I figured she would want to be down in Atlanta or Houston with the other baddies
Most people don't want to move far away from their families
 

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I didn’t even think of that. It really could be that simple breh? Lol damn. She may be super family oriented
Yeah, not even super family oriented but just scared/dont want to move far away.

Played a part in my decision when I left home. Only 4 hours away now, Wouldn’t want to be half way across the country just in case I did need to get back home for anything.
 

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Ok so I got a question for y’all. What could be some reasons why a woman doesn’t want to leave a certain state?(in this case NY)

Just a girl I know casually mentioned this to me at work when me and some coworkers were talking

she is originally from BK and I had mentioned moving down south for cheaper rent because we were talking about how expensive rent has become in NY. She just got a place in the city with most help from her family and just needs to pay like 500 for her portion. So I brought up how a lot of people are going down south cause of the cheaper standard of living and she said she would want to stay in NY .


Just something random I never seen someone say or recently say they wanna stay in NY lol. But this is a real young black girl . At work she works mad hard ain’t a lazy chick at all. Seems real ambitious and is a dime etc

she is originally from BK as I said as far as where she was born and grew up and I think she moved to Queens for a brief period . And now she In Manhattan. She does show the thot tendacies from being super close to male coworkers and shyt like that but she is super down to earth as a whole. Seems like one of those rare nice dime thots lo. I can see her possibly moving in the past as girls do to escape a certain reputation

in any case though I wanted The perspective of you guys on why did she say she isn’t looking to move out of NY as a whole and prefers to stay here. Maybe I’m overthinking but I feel like there is always a deeper reason. You have become experts by now in this thread

I figured she would want to be down in Atlanta or Houston with the other baddies
To be honest most chicks don’t want to leave their hometown because they have a certain status in that area.
If you leave that area you’ll have to build that status back up
 

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Ok so I got a question for y’all. What could be some reasons why a woman doesn’t want to leave a certain state?(in this case NY)

Just a girl I know casually mentioned this to me at work when me and some coworkers were talking

she is originally from BK and I had mentioned moving down south for cheaper rent because we were talking about how expensive rent has become in NY. She just got a place in the city with most help from her family and just needs to pay like 500 for her portion. So I brought up how a lot of people are going down south cause of the cheaper standard of living and she said she would want to stay in NY .


Just something random I never seen someone say or recently say they wanna stay in NY lol. But this is a real young black girl . At work she works mad hard ain’t a lazy chick at all. Seems real ambitious and is a dime etc

she is originally from BK as I said as far as where she was born and grew up and I think she moved to Queens for a brief period . And now she In Manhattan. She does show the thot tendacies from being super close to male coworkers and shyt like that but she is super down to earth as a whole. Seems like one of those rare nice dime thots lo. I can see her possibly moving in the past as girls do to escape a certain reputation

in any case though I wanted The perspective of you guys on why did she say she isn’t looking to move out of NY as a whole and prefers to stay here. Maybe I’m overthinking but I feel like there is always a deeper reason. You have become experts by now in this thread

I figured she would want to be down in Atlanta or Houston with the other baddies

You overthinking this bruh:russ:

Connecticut is a metro north ride away...
 

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To be honest most chicks don’t want to leave their hometown because they have a certain status in that area.
If you leave that area you’ll have to build that status back up

Now that could make a lot of sense. Thanks breh :salute: She May know it’s a lot of competition moving elsewhere
 

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Now that could make a lot of sense. Thanks breh :salute: She May know it’s a lot of competition moving elsewhere
Yes sir I used to stay in a small town, and chicks will move to the big city for better opportunity.
You see they a$$ back in their hometown a month later.
 

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Yes sir I used to stay in a small town, and chicks will move to the big city for better opportunity.
You see they a$$ back in their hometown a month later.

This one just turned 20 a couple months ago so I don’t think she did that yet but I see what you mean. I can see her maybe having older girlfriends and maybe she saw them do that herself.

speaking of that how do y’all bag younger women in your experiences when it’s not too much of an age difference only like 7 or 8 years. Do you let her come to you herself since u the older one? Lol.
 

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This one just turned 20 a couple months ago so I don’t think she did that yet but I see what you mean. I can see her maybe having older girlfriends and maybe she saw them do that herself.

speaking of that how do y’all bag younger women in your experiences when it’s not too much of an age difference only like 7 or 8 years. Do you let her come to you herself since u the older one? Lol.
7 or 8 years not much of an age difference
Pretty much with younger women with you have to make your intentions known up front. With older women you can wine and dine for a little, but with younger women you don’t have time for all that shyt
 

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Got caught up fukking with these other trash chicks and fell off my purpose/business :snoop:


Business is GREAT. But I can only imagine where that shyt would be rn if I gave it 100% focus.

the exact reason I’m back with my ex now.

I never CAUGHT her in a lie or cheating. Sure she have a smart ass mouth and she could do more shyt around the house :yeshrug:... but, since she’s been back and I’ve been secure and focused on myself, Things have been great. Not to mention, I’ve been avoiding potential disagreements like Neo in The Matrix. :whew:

driving her crazy. Her attraction to me has shot through the roof. I turned down some sex the other night. :myman:

She also saw a text thread between me and another bytch that I forgot to delete from back when she left me for those couple of months.

she knows what I’m capable of if she ever thinks about doing that shyt again. :ohlawd:

She’s been cooking too. Seafood Mac n cheese.. salmon... lasagna all dat shyt

man, I don’t think dudes realize that sometimes the grass isn’t greener. Depending on the type of man you are and age... it’s just better to stick to what you know, because let me be the one to tell y’all nikkas... you never know what you’re getting dealing with a bunch of random hoes. These hoes are sneaky and lousy. Most of them don’t even know how to be in a relationship.

if you got a good girl you better work with her and keep her.
 

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the exact reason I’m back with my ex now.

I never CAUGHT her in a lie or cheating. Sure she have a smart ass mouth and she could do more shyt around the house :yeshrug:... but, since she’s been back and I’ve been secure and focused on myself, Things have been great. Not to mention, I’ve been avoiding potential disagreements like Neo in The Matrix. :whew:

driving her crazy. Her attraction to me has shot through the roof. I turned down some sex the other night. :myman:

She also saw a text thread between me and another bytch that I forgot to delete from back when she left me for those couple of months.

she knows what I’m capable of if she ever thinks about doing that shyt again. :ohlawd:

She’s been cooking too. Seafood Mac n cheese.. salmon... lasagna all dat shyt

man, I don’t think dudes realize that sometimes the grass isn’t greener. Depending on the type of man you are and age... it’s just better to stick to what you know, because let me be the one to tell y’all nikkas... you never know what you’re getting dealing with a bunch of random hoes. These hoes are sneaky and lousy. Most of them don’t even know how to be in a relationship.

if you got a good girl you better work with her and keep her.
Yea I feel you sometimes I feel bad for turning down the sweet chubby chick to chase after these attractive but trashy women
 

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Crazy. A couple months ago I stepped to this one chick I'd been on and off with. Told ole girl that we should make things official that I wasn't really tryna do the friend things.

She said she didn't know (not a yes, not a no) said she wanted to figure herself out a bit. She said 2019 was a whirlwind for her as it concerns dating.

I said cool and fell back like way back. No proactive reaching out on my part. Anyway, I messed with other chicks in the meantime but nothing crazy. Used the quarantine period to trim my spending and kept on my grind.

Anyway, she's now reaching out tryna to talk and what not. I don't really care for us to do any empty talks. I've "drawn my line in the sand" so to speak. Honestly, I'm kinda losing interest in ole girl. I think I liked the "idea" of her more than her so to speak. That and I may have looked into our past interactions too favourably :yeshrug:
 
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the exact reason I’m back with my ex now.

I never CAUGHT her in a lie or cheating. Sure she have a smart ass mouth and she could do more shyt around the house :yeshrug:... but, since she’s been back and I’ve been secure and focused on myself, Things have been great. Not to mention, I’ve been avoiding potential disagreements like Neo in The Matrix. :whew:

driving her crazy. Her attraction to me has shot through the roof. I turned down some sex the other night. :myman:

She also saw a text thread between me and another bytch that I forgot to delete from back when she left me for those couple of months.

she knows what I’m capable of if she ever thinks about doing that shyt again. :ohlawd:

She’s been cooking too. Seafood Mac n cheese.. salmon... lasagna all dat shyt

man, I don’t think dudes realize that sometimes the grass isn’t greener. Depending on the type of man you are and age... it’s just better to stick to what you know, because let me be the one to tell y’all nikkas... you never know what you’re getting dealing with a bunch of random hoes. These hoes are sneaky and lousy. Most of them don’t even know how to be in a relationship.

if you got a good girl you better work with her and keep her.



:myman:
 
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