Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

The Radiant One

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Always remember you don't owe these broads anything, not your time, money, presence, explanation , a car ride, another text, a relationship because you guys had sex nothing.

If you go out on a date and wasn't feeling it you don't have to give an explanation and can continue on with your life

if you were texting/talking to a chick for weeks and no longer feel like it no explanation is needed

Yes woman will have no problem ghosting you.
 

Silkk

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Always remember you don't owe these broads anything, not your time, money, presence, explanation , a car ride, another text, a relationship because you guys had sex nothing.

If you go out on a date and wasn't feeling it you don't have to give an explanation and can continue on with your life

if you were texting/talking to a chick for weeks and no longer feel like it no explanation is needed

Yes woman will have no problem ghosting you.



:wow:
 

J.E.T.S

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I don’t know your approach, but make sure you not on no Def Comedy Jam type of time when you go over to her. Tell her why you walked over and what you tryna do. Give her your number if she interested. Keep it simple

I’ve increased my success rate by being blunt but somewhat respectful. Talking less and listening more... and not using LOLs and emojis while texting. I steer clear of trying to be a comedian. I may give like a nervous chuckle or smile while flirting or groping up a bytch that gives me the green light. I ask questions and let her know about what I got going on positive in life. I pad my life out like a resume while talking to bytches, but I don’t overdo it. I never let a woman know how much money I make or how many women I could or currently fukking with.

I close out conversation with an invitation to link up. When I was single living alone I’d invite them to the house for drinks. Normally, ended with sex.

If they didn’t agree to that, I’d just ask them to a bar where we could chop it up and hopefully get to a point of at least physically touching one another. Then the next meetup I’d ask her to slide through or let’s have a “staycation”... if it’s still no then I’d cut my losses. I’m impatient.
 

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Day 10

- Thick white chick i peep gets on the bus, english rose looking-type white girl. Anyway we both get off the same stop and as shes walking to the station i stop her, say what's up, how you doing. Give her my name then ask her if she's single. She says she has a bf. Cool leave it at that.

- Cute black chick i see approaching, we lock eyes and i don't look away so she gets the indication i have interest. Tried saying whats up as shes walking towards me. She gave me the
will-smith-look-away.jpg

and kept walking by, not even acknowledging me tryng to say hello. Had me walking off laughing :heh:

Last few days i'm barely seeing girls to approach. Anyway I'm starting to feel more calm and confident in my approach and not as nervous
 

Astroslik

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I’ve increased my success rate by being blunt but somewhat respectful. Talking less and listening more... and not using LOLs and emojis while texting. I steer clear of trying to be a comedian. I may give like a nervous chuckle or smile while flirting or groping up a bytch that gives me the green light. I ask questions and let her know about what I got going on positive in life. I pad my life out like a resume while talking to bytches, but I don’t overdo it. I never let a woman know how much money I make or how many women I could or currently fukking with.

I close out conversation with an invitation to link up. When I was single living alone I’d invite them to the house for drinks. Normally, ended with sex.

If they didn’t agree to that, I’d just ask them to a bar where we could chop it up and hopefully get to a point of at least physically touching one another. Then the next meetup I’d ask her to slide through or let’s have a “staycation”... if it’s still no then I’d cut my losses. I’m impatient.
I prefer my dates within a 3 miles square radius of my crib. Makes the logistics a lot easier for her to come back home.




Always remember you don't owe these broads anything, not your time, money, presence, explanation , a car ride, another text, a relationship because you guys had sex nothing.

If you go out on a date and wasn't feeling it you don't have to give an explanation and can continue on with your life

if you were texting/talking to a chick for weeks and no longer feel like it no explanation is needed
Men have to start being more selfish
 

HARLEM AL

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Yo, old heads. Was shyt like this in the past?



Everyone dapped and congratulated the kid in the comments because she said yes to A DATE.

I don't know about y'all but for me going on simple dates was never this big achievement. Even my parents didn't give a shyt lol.

The bar is too low imo.

That ain’t a big deal. They have these young dudes so warped that a single date with a chick is an achievement.

That’s not good.
 

KidJSoul

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That ain’t a big deal. They have these young dudes so warped that a single date with a chick is an achievement.

That’s not good.

That's what's sad. And there's chance that girl has multiple dudes on rotation in her orbit she can upgrade to any time.

What happened? Like legit what has happened?

I feel like it's a cultural over-correction. shyt was never like this in the 2000s or even early 2010s.
 
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