you may not need to necessarily "bush" her, but you absolutely need to proceed with caution. Another point, and probably most important, is that the day will come when you make a "mistake" or have a "lapse in judgement" similar to this and she will NEVER extend you the same courtesy or give you the benefit of the doubt. Primarily because woman are largely loyal to themselves and their emotional well-being over a man.
Always stay true to yourself, breh.
this too.......if the situations were reversed when the time comes that she can “stray” she will justify it immediately and won’t give it as much thought and “defense” as you are doing now....she will just do it...the fact that she already did speaks volumes about how she considered you... if she really wanted you as much as she wants him she wouldn’t “make you wait” for anything....I know it sucks to hear but she views you as the safe option and has viewed you that way from the start.. if you don’t mind this that’s fine, but it is important to know that she had to “grow” to love you...