Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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you may not need to necessarily "bush" her, but you absolutely need to proceed with caution. Another point, and probably most important, is that the day will come when you make a "mistake" or have a "lapse in judgement" similar to this and she will NEVER extend you the same courtesy or give you the benefit of the doubt. Primarily because woman are largely loyal to themselves and their emotional well-being over a man.

Always stay true to yourself, breh.

this too.......if the situations were reversed when the time comes that she can “stray” she will justify it immediately and won’t give it as much thought and “defense” as you are doing now....she will just do it...the fact that she already did speaks volumes about how she considered you... if she really wanted you as much as she wants him she wouldn’t “make you wait” for anything....I know it sucks to hear but she views you as the safe option and has viewed you that way from the start.. if you don’t mind this that’s fine, but it is important to know that she had to “grow” to love you...
 

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Moreso trying to add context, so I won’t come across like I’m a victim.

To add insult to injury, she told this same friend weeks after she had sex with her FB (at this point her and I went on like 10 dates) that she was going to fukk him again—however, when I confronted her about it she claimed she never followed through with it and that she wanted to impress her friend which is why she said that.
How the fukk is that impressing her friend.....


With her logic, Man I wouldn’t even be surprised if dude is still fukking her. :francis:
 

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Moreso trying to add context, so I won’t come across like I’m a victim.

To add insult to injury, she told this same friend weeks after she had sex with her FB (at this point her and I went on like 10 dates) that she was going to fukk him again—however, when I confronted her about it she claimed she never followed through with it and that she wanted to impress her friend which is why she said that.

If she said she was going to fukk him again best believe that happened.

Speaking from experience, women always speak truthfully with each other and rarely bullshyt. And also tell all their business and yours.

I came across a 'secret' discord group my ex was in when we were separating (she had accidentally left notifications on an iPad we shared) and shyt was very enlightening seeing how her and her friends act when no one's looking.

This is why when two females friends have a falling out they both know each others dirtiest secrets.
 
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@Jonathan yeah thats mad disrespectful

Its gonna bug u breh...i told story in here months ago...

I got this bytch # she sent 2 nudes n didnt wana talk sex talk...we kicked it at her apt before i went inside she told there was no sex happening....

3 hours into hanging out she told me after her ex left her...she went to the club 2 times n slept with 2 dudes (diff times) to get over her "ex" yet she didnt wana talk sex or let me smash even tho we talked for 2 weeks...but she can meet a random dude at the club n fukk

I bushed her
 

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How the fukk is that impressing her friend.....


With her logic, Man I wouldn’t even be surprised if dude is still fukking her. :francis:


The same way nikkas try to act like they have a roster, she wanted it to seem like she had options just in case I was playing her.

I know for a fact that she isn’t still fukkin him, mostly because we’ve been quarantined together this whole time.
 

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this too.......if the situations were reversed when the time comes that she can “stray” she will justify it immediately and won’t give it as much thought and “defense” as you are doing now....she will just do it...the fact that she already did speaks volumes about how she considered you... if she really wanted you as much as she wants him she wouldn’t “make you wait” for anything....I know it sucks to hear but she views you as the safe option and has viewed you that way from the start.. if you don’t mind this that’s fine, but it is important to know that she had to “grow” to love you...

She claimed he was her fukk buddy and they had no emotional attachment, they never even went anywhere in public. It was to his crib and that’s it.
 

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The same way nikkas try to act like they have a roster, she wanted it to seem like she had options just in case I was playing her.

I know for a fact that she isn’t still fukkin him, mostly because we’ve been quarantined together this whole time.


Come on breh. Women do not "lie on their dikk" like dudes do. Its a high chance she fukked that nikka when she told her friend.
 

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So there's this female, who I already passed on, who 100% doesn't have a boyfriend but recently starts mentioning this non-existent boyfriend, unprovoked? What y'all think? Mental illness? Insecurity?
 

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Come on breh. Women do not "lie on their dikk" like dudes do. Its a high chance she fukked that nikka when she told her friend.

So there's this female who I already passed on who 100% doesn't have a boyfriend but starts mentioning this non-existent boyfriend, unprovoked? Mental illness? Insecurity?

it more common than you know, we place females on pedestals but they be #liargang just like men. That’s why they do so much for attention, they want to feel wanted.
 

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you may not need to necessarily "bush" her, but you absolutely need to proceed with caution. Another point, and probably most important, is that the day will come when you make a "mistake" or have a "lapse in judgement" similar to this and she will NEVER extend you the same courtesy or give you the benefit of the doubt. Primarily because woman are largely loyal to themselves and their emotional well-being over a man.

Always stay true to yourself, breh.
if you have to do all that, bush her.
 

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it more common than you know, we place females on pedestals but they be #liargang just like men. That’s why they do so much for attention, they want to feel wanted.

You trying to rationalize her fukkery atm but with just this cursory knowledge everyone is telling you the real. Ol girl is no good. At best I'd regulate her to the fukk buddy now. Ya'll whole relationship built on lies fam
 

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She claimed he was her fukk buddy and they had no emotional attachment, they never even went anywhere in public. It was to his crib and that’s it.

Does this make it better for you that she was on another dikk while she's supposed to be your bytch? It was to his crib and that's it? nikka you should be wishing they only went on dates. She fukked him while you were in the picture......Women drop everything even their family and children for dikk...She didn't drop him for yours. Think about it......This girl wasn't your bytch she was another man's....
 

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The same way nikkas try to act like they have a roster, she wanted it to seem like she had options just in case I was playing her.

I know for a fact that she isn’t still fukkin him, mostly because we’ve been quarantined together this whole time.
Lol unless you been with her 24/7 you’ll never know. I’ve unknowingly smashed a bunch of chicks who were living with their boyfriends at the time.
 
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