it more common than you know, we place females on pedestals but they be #liargang just like men. That’s why they do so much for attention, they want to feel wanted.
Brother, normally I just sit on the sidelines and watch young men like you stumble around the game, but this defensive approach for a woman who lied to you is a bit unsettling. Take in all of the above the others have said and just think critically for a moment. That guy did not have to lift a finger, except to send a "come through" text while you're cracking your wallet open just to entertain a woman who was already distracted during your ten dates. You're being used as an ATM/Entertainment System while she is literally thinking how she's going to put it on another man that very same night. If you cannot see the disrespect there, realize you aren't "that guy" that gets her going, and bush her you're setting yourself up for hell of an angry awakening later in life. All that wining and dining was essentially tricking for a "girlfriend" experience. I can only hope she never ordered a to-go box for "later" on your dime.
Even if you do not take heed to these words just consider the fact she was not upfront with you from the get-go. A foundation of lies to set off a potential relationship? A formula that equals inevitable doom...on your dime and
time. Please consider your time young man.