Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

DaRealness

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I’m afraid not. I almost put hands on her by the end of the fight. Made her ass leave.

Usually when chicks pick fights and get overbearing and combative over nonsense it's for a reason.

She doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore so you might as well cut it off which is what she wants you to do anyway.
 

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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.
 

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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.

:hubie:

thats on you at the end of the day but thats always gon nag at you cuz what else is a lie.
 

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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.
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What led her to admit to this? Was she caught then confessed? Or was it her own disclosure?
 

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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.
Wouldn’t be surprised at all if he hit again during this past year...

Chicks are sneaky af, I think this chick I just started smashing have a BF. Not even sure who I feel worse for between he & I :snoop:
 

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So this chick was texted me from her job yesterday. Saying how nice the weather was and love being outside. Blah, blah, blah. Then I went to her ig last night and she said "Yall know I gotta fall off the face of the earth once a year." And had a 2 fingers for the peace sign.

So she's going ghost but how should I respond when she returns? Pretend like nothing happen? Or ask her what was going on?
Update: she text me early this morning about a story of a woman named yugge Farrell. I didn't mention her ig post so forget it
 
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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.

Lowkey? You were totally betrayed.

She told you way after the fact hoping you wouldn't see it as a big deal and move on.

She would have been bushed as soon as she told me that.
 

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How much has messagboards and the internet helped you guys with understand how to deal with women of today? Like where would you be if these avenues didnt exist? hypothetically speaking.

I def wouldve feel for a few more traps for sure.

At the end of the day, I don’t think the internet has helped that much. People learn through experiences, we can tell people all day on here to bush a female but most likely they don’t until something dramatic happens.

where I do think it has helped is to validate ones feelings. As in oh other people have gone through the same thing
 

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My gf admitted to me that she was fukkin another nikka while when we first started dating (she was still fukkin him 3 dates in) the problem was, she told me she wasn’t dealing with anyone else and that she hadn’t had sex in a longtime. I found out that it was a lie.

I found this out after nearly a year of being together and our chemistry is perfect.

Should I toss her in the bushes or stay? I feel lowkey betrayed.

also women sometimes admit to a smaller lie to make themselves feel better about the bigger one they are still hiding. Be safe and always watch for the hook
 

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What led her to admit to this? Was she caught then confessed? Or was it her own disclosure?
I was looking for some old pictures in her phone from that time period and saw the texts in her phone telling her friend that she was going to see her fukk buddy after her date with me (she fukked him after I took her out on a really nice date) she claimed she wanted to hold off from sex with me so I could take her serious.

Her and I went on another date the very next day after she fukked him.
 

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I was looking for some old pictures in her phone from that time period and saw the texts in her phone telling her friend that she was going to see her fukk buddy after her date with me (she fukked him after I took her out on a really nice date) she claimed she wanted to hold off from sex with me so I could take her serious.

Her and I went on another date the very next day after she fukked him.
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