Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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They got more horses to bet on now. The ball player, athlete, white boy cody, sugar daddy, YouTube comedian, etc. Social media is mans worst creation. There will be less settling in this generation because every girl with a fat ass feels like a celeb with a small following. I believe there will be an influx of single adults in their 40s / 50s complaining about not finding anyone good.

pretty much
even If you are average or below average as a female you can just create a Instagram and have a thousand simps, or create a dating profile and have hundreds of dudes willing to spend money on you and take you here and there.

It’s even going to be worse as time goes on as women get into social media earlier and earlier.

an average chick may only deserve a guy who has a and b

but these chicks think they deserve abcdefghijklmnopqrsruvxwyz

so you may be abcdef while she’s only an a and at best should just get an ab

but
 

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They stop responding quick as hell when you're not available at the drop of a hat.

It's always the same thing.

Chick after weeks of no contact: "Hey it's ________. Are you going out tonight?"

Me: "Not tonight. But I'm free _____ day."

No response. Shyt is guaranteed. So I just delete the number.

These hoes get upset when a nikka don't drop everything to go out with her. It's always the same day with no planning ahead. But there's plenty of dudes that will cancel their plans to go meet the bytch.
:camby:

I bet if I had accepted the invite, there's still a chance she would flake or ghost

I don't make specific plans with a woman anymore. I find a fun event or activity that I want to enjoy, I plan to go, then I invite a few chicks. If she shows up, cool. If not, cool I'm still enjoying myself anyway.
 
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I know I should've but we ended up living in the same neighborhood after the breakup. No kid but I did start to wonder if maybe she had an abortion. In my teens I dated a girl who had an abortion (for me), and I smashed a girl who had a kid a month or 2 prior, and neither can compare to how loose this shorty was. I'm just curious what y'all think the bytch was doing? And was I was out of line for telling her?
Maybe she was getting fisted, those 40+ year olds be getting tired of vanilla sex and try out some weird shyt.
 

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Saw this chick with a nice butt at my college's library, went up to her "Hey, this is random but i think you're cute", had a small convo ..once i asked her for her phone number ...she told me she couldnt because of her religion ....she's egyptian so maybe there some truth to it but she wasnt wearing no muslim clothing either. Anyways , im trying to hit on at least 10 chicks per week. I dont try to come up with any out-of-this-world pick up line . i just tell them i think they cute/beautfiul and go from there.
 

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It's really bugging me that I've been on my purpose, have many hobbies and put myself alot out there and know how to speak to women, i dress well and I'm called good looking. I'm in good shape too and i'm tall, but for some odd reason I can't get a girlfriend.
Why the hell do you want a girlfriend? :dahell:

exclusivity will cap your social mobility, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
 

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They stop responding quick as hell when you're not available at the drop of a hat.

It's always the same thing.

Chick after weeks of no contact: "Hey it's ________. Are you going out tonight?"

Me: "Not tonight. But I'm free _____ day."

No response. Shyt is guaranteed. So I just delete the number.

These hoes get upset when a nikka don't drop everything to go out with her. It's always the same day with no planning ahead. But there's plenty of dudes that will cancel their plans to go meet the bytch.
:camby:

I bet if I had accepted the invite, there's still a chance she would flake or ghost

I don't make specific plans with a woman anymore. I find a fun event or activity that I want to enjoy, I plan to go, then I invite a few chicks. If she shows up, cool. If not, cool I'm still enjoying myself anyway.

I find it offensive when anyone hits you up and expects you to do something with them on the eaxct same day as if you don't have plans and are supposed to accomodate them just cos they want you to. The entitlement is fukking insane. Most of the time they're just testing you to see if they can get another simp to put on a leash. It's like bytch you ain't that fukking special. :childplease: A couple of years ago I was out on Saturday, it was around maybe 6pm in the evening this bytch who I've mentioned on here before had the nerve to text me talking about she wants to go out later let's do something. :rudy:She was generally on some b.s. anyway, so needless to say she got bushed a long time ago.

That lets me know a lot about them right then and there, therefore I don't waste my time.
 

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I suggest all my bruhs watch love is blind on Netflix. Good psyche into men, women and relationships and how women operate.

basically bunch of people go on dates in these pods where you can’t see the other person you can only talk to them. Then if you make a connection you ask someone to marry you then they get married like 6 weeks later. They have until the day of the wedding tho to decide if they get married or not. Some people at the alter say yes some say no.
 

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I suggest all my bruhs watch love is blind on Netflix. Good psyche into men, women and relationships and how women operate.

basically bunch of people go on dates in these pods where you can’t see the other person you can only talk to them. Then if you make a connection you ask someone to marry you then they get married like 6 weeks later. They have until the day of the wedding tho to decide if they get married or not. Some people at the alter say yes some say no.
What did you learn from the show as far as how women operate?
 

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What's the policy on smashing people you known for years but don't want anything out of?

Smash and dine breh
Smash and dine breh:mjgrin:


Meaning hit and quit it or let it be known upfront sex is all I'm offering anything more than that u expect:camby:
Otherwise what Is today's menu:shaq:


Sidenote: how close are u with that person does matter cuz if they are good people u dont want to fukk up a good friendship over sex to be honest unless u both down for the cause and understand the repercussions of it
 

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It's really bugging me that I've been on my purpose, have many hobbies and put myself alot out there and know how to speak to women, i dress well and I'm called good looking. I'm in good shape too and i'm tall, but for some odd reason I can't get a girlfriend.

Breh I'm married and sometimes I wish I was single and not be bothered any females period :russ:
 

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Smash and dine breh
Smash and dine breh:mjgrin:


Meaning hit and quit it or let it be known upfront sex is all I'm offering anything more than that u expect:camby:
Otherwise what Is today's menu:shaq:


Sidenote: how close are u with that person does matter cuz if they are good people u dont want to fukk up a good friendship over sex to be honest unless u both down for the cause and understand the repercussions of it
She's good people, I've known her for 8 years. We went to college together and moved back after graduating. We work in the same city and occasionally grab lunch and drinks after work. The side note has me questioning whether I want to do something or leave it be.
 

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Had to cut my losses on a chic that wanted to “take it slow” behind I could smash. Invited her the crib and she got testy and stopped responding :manny: it was that or nothing because I wasn’t spending any more bread. She wanted to keep dating first. Introducing me To folks as her potential next bf and shyt :martin:

I don’t buy the car before a test drive sorry. :manny:
 
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