Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

She's good people, I've known her for 8 years. We went to college together and moved back after graduating. We work in the same city and occasionally grab lunch and drinks after work. The side note has me questioning whether I want to do something or leave it be.

This is just me I wont go that route with a close friend unless I have romantic feelings and want to get at her as her bf.
If those criteria aren't how I feel ain't touching withing a 50 feet but that's me

 

[Suspicions]

So this chick said she would be down Saturday to chill. I hit her up and she never opens my snap chat message...this the second time she flaked on plans, what should I do yall

 

[J.E.T.S]

Single moms with sons are the worst. I slid through to have some protected sex with her. Her 6 year old kept knocking on the door asking stupid questions and he barges in, no knock or nothing, and lay right in the bed between us.

it’s always like this with the sons.

daughters normally are chill and don’t even leave their rooms.

I hate sissified ass little mama boys. If she says she busy, go sit your egghead ass down somewhere.

 

[jay83]

Single moms with sons are the worst. I slid through to have some protected sex with her. Her 6 year old kept knocking on the door asking stupid questions and he barges in, no knock or nothing, and lay right in the bed between us.

it’s always like this with the sons.

daughters normally are chill and don’t even leave their rooms.

I hate sissified ass little mama boys. If she says she busy, go sit your egghead ass down somewhere.

Either come through when kid is not home or dont come through at all.

 

[young yeesh]

So this chick said she would be down Saturday to chill. I hit her up and she never opens my snap chat message...this the second time she flaked on plans, what should I do yall

After the first time she flakes, the ball is in her court. It’s up to her to try to get your attention back. Two flakes = automatic bushes. She don’t really like you

 

[Suspicions]

After the first time she flakes, the ball is in her court. It’s up to her to try to get your attention back. Two flakes = automatic bushes. She don’t really like you

Yeah you right

 

[Throwbacksample]

Yeah you right

Do you have other chicks you are entertaining?

 

[Suspicions]

Do you have other chicks you are entertaining?

Na unfortunately

 

[Throwbacksample]

Na unfortunately

I ask cause that may be why you are deciding on how to proceed. When you get more options..it will be easier to bush this chick.

 

[Suspicions]

I ask cause that may be why you are deciding on how to proceed. When you get more options..it will be easier to bush this chick.

Yeah that makes sense lol. I'm done with her, time to keep searching

 

[MikelArteta]

So this chick said she would be down Saturday to chill. I hit her up and she never opens my snap chat message...this the second time she flaked on plans, what should I do yall

second time breh?

Delete her number, I wouldn't hit her up again

as the old saying goes if you were denzel you think she would have flaked ?

if it was a job paying 200k a year you think she would have flaked?

when women flake they just aren't interested in you . Instead of being forthcoming like hey i'm not interested in you like that they will just do tactics like this

 

[Ahadi]

Had to cut my losses on a chic that wanted to “take it slow” behind I could smash. Invited her the crib and she got testy and stopped responding it was that or nothing because I wasn’t spending any more bread. She wanted to keep dating first. Introducing me To folks as her potential next bf and shyt

I don’t buy the car before a test drive sorry.

If you gotta do all that, she never really liked you. The guy she really likes never has to take it slow.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah that makes sense lol. I'm done with her, time to keep searching

yep like the poster said about you, when you have more options and once messes up its no biggie, now when you just have one its like damn

especially with how women are today i'd also recommend to talk to a bunch of women until you are in a committed relationship and even then to have them on standby

 

[Actually6Foot3]

If you gotta do all that, she never really liked you. The guy she really likes never has to take it slow.

that's potentially an option I thought about But women aren't a monolith. I also considered she Didn't want to be ran thru or fukked and chucked. It's not like I took this bytch out 5+ times and didn't kill. Took her out twice that's my max usually unless logistics gets in the way of the second date (I.e we go out on a Wednesday but she or I have to be up at 7 for work or some shyt) then I'll set up date #3

She looked good but as a nikka that's now use to fukking chics after one or two dates and with a roster. I don't have patience to wait. I'll gladly cut my losses.

I went to a party with this chic and some nikka at the bar was asking to "take care of her" zshe said "open up your cash app then and send me money right now" most nikkas out here simping for the box. I could never.




Funny enough I've cut off chics like this before and ran in to them later in life and smashed. shyt wierd but there's power in dropping a bytch that ain't use to being dropped and they feel like.

 

[African_brehda]

Just when I think I'm advanced and shyt, and I can read signs of when a relationship is about to end
I saw from afar shyt was about to go south, so I braced myself, now she's ghosted me but it still hurts brehs
I've got a side piece but I'm still having dreams of this bytch
I planned on fukking one last time and ghosting but somehow she did that shyt first
I'm hurt brehs

Tell me she's going to reach out so I can smash and bounce brehs