Met a girl on hinge, smashed after the second date. Not saying I'm wifing her up but I might be out the game soon if things keep going the way they are going. I live close to where we went on the second date so I used a line somewhere said in here about inviting her over if she's comfortable and if not it's cool. She says Ill come over but I don't want to move to fast or anything, by the end of the night I smashed and two times the next morning. I've always been pretty good with women but learned a lot from this thread. The biggest takeaways I learned from this thread and from some books people recommended:
- Confidence is key - Women want men who are confident who get other bytches and have options. Be confident, be willing to walk away at any point.
- Don't chase or sweat women. If she likes you she'll make time for you. If you have to chase she has the upper hand which brings me to next point
- Always have the upper hand. I hate playing games but sadly with bytches you have to so always let her text you last and always have the upper hand,
- Never be more into her then she is in you. In your head you can be super into her and like her a lot but never show it to her
- Always lead - The whole date I was leading her and you know it was more fun because I was in control and we did what I wanted
- Women want someone better than them - Don't always brag about yourself but you always want to talk about your accomplishments and talk a little shyt, have an ego
- Don't try to control them - It's just human nature if you tell someone not to do something or try to control them it's going to back fire. Plus it's just draining
- Don't put in to much effort - It should be fun. If things don't flow naturally or it she seems like a lot of work cut her off. Live is too short
- Women don't think like men - This is a big one because they don't think like us so don't even try to rationalize what they say or do because women are emotional, unrationalize child-like creatures. I have respect for women but this is just the truth.
- Don't get attached to fast or move to fast - This was my biggest flaw was I would text to much or get attached to fast because so much trash out there when you find a gem all you want to do is hold on to it but the more you try to hold on to it the sooner you'll lose it.
- Hit the gym - Self explanatory and you should be doing this for yourself anyway not just to get bytches. Nothing is better for your mental or physical than physically pushing yourself a few times a week.
- They are all the same - Took me a minute to realize this too. All women are the same pretty much. Just when you think na this one is different, you find out they aren't. Don't kid yourself.
All this shyt helped me smash on the second date even after she said she didn't want to move too fast. I hope this helps someone else because I know how rough it is out here.
time to test my power
