Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Snoopy Loops

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Man I just wish I could wipe my whole memory of my 3 year relationship :mjcry:

shorty got a whole new man now it seems. Whole new set of friends, doing the whole college thing. I’m over the relationship but I still think bout shorty often and I damn sure know she don’t think about me.

we still cordial, like that’s someone I grew up with so it’s always cool but would it help if I remove her off social media?

anytime I see her doing shyt...going out and all that it reopens the wounds cuz that’s the shyt I neglected to do :mjcry:

It just hurts that the relationship ended cuz I was unwilling to adapt and compromise.

Just mute her posts and stories. Unfollowing just isn’t a good look
 

Straw Hat Luffy

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Man you really can’t make this shyt up. This pretty girl that I know graduated from my college and I believe she got a teaching degree. And she had a baby with this dude... I check her snap... he in prison. Lol she’s like “he got to see daddy tonight!”

:russ:
 

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So this joint is coming over tomorrow and I texted one sexual sentence to her. She goes

:patrice: Aye, chill on that?

I say: ?

she goes lmao. That’s a mood. But none of tomorrow though.

I say: Sure.

she then ask what time to come over.

abort mission or .....?
 

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I don't wanna dump my girl on valentines but I think I might have to brehs.

Girl had the balls to tell me she's not hanging out with me on her day off because she meeting up a friend... that she used to be FWBs :skip: She told they have met a few time even when she was in a relationship but nothing ever happened.

I told her I'm not gonna stop from doing that but I'm not cool with it, now she was trying to spin on some "you can't stop me from seeing my friends". Dude in question is in a long-distance relationship, that is open most of the time. Girl is carrying a whole damn Chinese flag with her and she knows it.

It was just my turn I guess.
Negged.

You’re a fukking idiot for even putting up with what she put you through, and having the audacity to second guess whether to dump her.

I swear, some of you nikkas need to start getting negged for some of the backwards shyt y’all be going through. It’s like nothing is applied to the knowledge posted here.





Real talk, I'm starting to believe the key to a good "relationship" is to not define it. :yeshrug: Just let it grow organically without labeling it. Once you bring in labels like "boyfriend", "girlfriend", you start placing people into these pre-conceived societal boxes of what a relationship is "supposed" to look like, which most people are not going to fit. I think that's why so many relationships fail.

Been seeing this girl, smashing her on a weekly basis, going on dates, all without labels, shyt is wonderful :blessed:

Just my 2 cents
lol how old are you?
You think that’s going to last forever?

The inevitable “so what are we?” Conversation will always happen.
 
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So this joint is coming over tomorrow and I texted one sexual sentence to her. She goes

:patrice: Aye, chill on that?

I say: ?

she goes lmao. That’s a mood. But none of tomorrow though.

I say: Sure.

she then ask what time to come over.

abort mission or .....?

do your Macking in person , if she already agreed to come over , why send a sexual tone text ?

If you don’t smash at your crib , play it cool don’t act all hurt either
 

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So this joint is coming over tomorrow and I texted one sexual sentence to her. She goes

:patrice: Aye, chill on that?

I say: ?

she goes lmao. That’s a mood. But none of tomorrow though.

I say: Sure.

she then ask what time to come over.

abort mission or .....?


Some women don’t want evidence they are about to hook up. Even if it’s the Intention. Some women you just gotta say “wanna come over and watch tv?” Even though she knows what the deal is.
 

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I don't wanna dump my girl on valentines but I think I might have to brehs.

Girl had the balls to tell me she's not hanging out with me on her day off because she meeting up a friend... that she used to be FWBs :skip: She told they have met a few time even when she was in a relationship but nothing ever happened.

I told her I'm not gonna stop from doing that but I'm not cool with it, now she was trying to spin on some "you can't stop me from seeing my friends". Dude in question is in a long-distance relationship, that is open most of the time. Girl is carrying a whole damn Chinese flag with her and she knows it.

It was just my turn I guess.

man.. straight disrespect
 

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do your Macking in person , if she already agreed to come over , why send a sexual tone text ?

If you don’t smash at your crib , play it cool don’t act all hurt either
Some women don’t want evidence they are about to hook up. Even if it’s the Intention. Some women you just gotta say “wanna come over and watch tv?” Even though she knows what the deal is.

I feel you both. I just like to temperature check joints so I get a sense of their mind state like “is she here for me? My crib, something else, etc”
 

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I feel you both. I just like to temperature check joints so I get a sense of their mind state like “is she here for me? My crib, something else, etc”

A woman will rarely come out and admit that she’s coming to your crib to have sex so have to be low key about it for sure. Letting her know ahead of time kind of takes out the mystery and suspense of it all. You want her to surrender herself to you unconditionally, not ask about it.
 

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Going out with this chick on Saturday but I think she's whalefishing with her photos. I went out with a few chicks were it was obvious they mixed in old and newer photos when they are heavier.
 
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