Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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DaRealness
I think very deeply
Like Alonzo in Training Day said "I know it's ugly, but it's necessary".
That's why I no longer use the word "friend" loosely. When you really take a step back and evaluate everything then that's when you see certain people were never really your friends at all. I recently had to cut off a "friend" I've known for nearly 10 years for similar reasons. It feels bad but you gotta do what's best for you. I have zero tolerance for certain things as I'm getting older and I don't feel any kind of obligation to keep a person in my life just because of how long we've known each other or who we're both connected to. My time, mental state and energy is valuable. If you not adding anything positive to my life, then you gotta go....'friends', family, dumb ass chicks, whoever.
It is what it is. You live and you learn.
calixprynce
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Can a woman I'm dealing become my girlfriend without us having the "what are we" conversation?
breh that chicc you moved in and she paid 6 months of rent? yeah yall together
set my age range to max out at 24 on Hinge. I can't deal with the relationship talk.
Had one chic grill me on the first date about if I see myself as a provider.And stupid shyt like that. And she was only 25 smh. bytch I don't even know your last name. 21-23 is the real sweet spot. ESPECIALLY if they're still in college.
from around ~2014 till last year I put serious miles on a lot of bytches in this age group. Guys their age are still working at footlocker or uploading pics of Hennessy bottles so the fact that they see a guy who’s set in his career and traveling got them like
Crazy how hard I tried to get laid in my early 20s compared to the last 5 years or so basically effortless sex. I didn’t eat any of them out either.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Like Alonzo in Training Day said "I know it's ugly, but it's necessary".
That's why I no longer use the word "friend" loosely. When you really take a step back and evaluate everything then that's when you see certain people were never really your friends at all. I recently had to cut off a "friend" I've known for nearly 10 years for similar reasons. It feels bad but you gotta do what's best for you. I have zero tolerance for certain things as I'm getting older and I don't feel any kind of obligation to keep a person in my life just because of how long we've known each other or who we're both connected to. My time, mental state and energy is valuable. If you not adding anything positive to my life, then you gotta go....'friends', family, dumb ass chicks, whoever.
It is what it is. You live and you learn.
Tbh its sad. You'd figure people grow the fukk up after 25 and ive learned in the past couple years that maturity out here doesnt happen until people be in their 30s, maybe even 40s?. Im no where a perfect person and tbh i can be MOST DEFINITELY be a fukk up, but ive ALWAYS been mature about how I treat people and being submissive about my mistakes for quite some time. I even came forward and apologized to people for my own actions or words. ive noticed that most women my age that didnt boss up and fix their lives are too accustomed to being stuck in their ignorant ways and assume the way they act is going to be openly accepted in their 30s because...you're a woman? Not all shorties are like this tho and thankfully ive made aquiantances with some women I see as mature and understanding. Hell, I even started trying to be kinder with my own sister who consistently struggles in relationships cause even shes 31 and reflects some ways women in toronto out here acting.
Tbh ive only really cultivated true friendships with like 4 people and im getting more used to blocking and deleting numbers cause mannnn black folks out here sometimes are starting to piss me off
sometimes i truly wish I was a introvert
I matched with a chick on Tinder this morning, chatted a bit, and got her number a little while ago. She knows I have plans with friends earlier in the evening and she says this is the only day she’s free for a while. How do I push for smashing, respectfully? We’re kinda far from each other. She’s in East Harlem and I’m in Brooklyn. Where are we supposed to meet up? It’s Valentine’s Day in NYC.
Malik1time
What you looking at?
First Valentine’s Day single in like 3years
it’s funny how friends of my ex been hunting at me to send her flowers/ text her
nah 
she said she wants space I already apologize at the start and offer change but she still told me she needs space so boom I’m giving her space
I’m not gonna feed her ego of being wantedlast time I contacted her was 53days ago and I’m still going
it’s funny how friends of my ex been hunting at me to send her flowers/ text her nah she said she wants space I already apologize at the start and offer change but she still told me she needs space so boom I’m giving her space I’m not gonna feed her ego of being wantedlast time I contacted her was 53days ago and I’m still going
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
Here we are on Valentine's day and a niggs woke up to 9 new matches on Hinge.
Staying my ass inside until Monday. Not spending a dime this weekend.
Staying my ass inside until Monday. Not spending a dime this weekend.
Here we are on Valentine's day and a niggs woke up to 9 new matches on Hinge.
Staying my ass inside until Monday. Not spending a dime this weekend.
I mean you could smash tomorrow
Killigraphy
Banned
Can a woman I'm dealing become my girlfriend without us having the "what are we" conversation?
All women ask that question at some point in their lives. The problem being; the lot of men who cave in and overstep the booty call boundaries and make them girlfriends. You are not obliged to someone just because they let you have sex with them. Move one, eat a donut and live your life crushing other p*ssy. More precisely, to further answer your question...no. While women are naturally agreeable (five big personality traits - psychology), they eventually get what they want through passive aggressive means. They're natural followers, but they're also natural liars and passive aggressive monsters, who need to be confronted outright and told what you do, or don't want.
These women are like clockwork 
wokeup too 2 missed FaceTime calls from two different chicks I haven’t smashed in over a year.
ex sending me hello messages
One chick wanting to go out tonight for the all star weekend
wokeup too 2 missed FaceTime calls from two different chicks I haven’t smashed in over a year.
ex sending me hello messages
One chick wanting to go out tonight for the all star weekend