Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Funny story.

Introduced myself to this woman at work, during happy hour. Everyone dipped. We were making good convo then all the sudden she pops outta nowhere. “Yeah I do this & i’m married”

:mjlol:

Im like....” that’s rough” and in my head I’m thinking .... When did I give that idea I was hitting on you? I didn’t even say anything.

Sidebar: She’s pawg

:manny:

Edit: Some women say “im married” as a self-defense mechanism. (You look good, but they have to remind themselves they’re married)
 
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What y'all think about the being straightforward/blunt approach ? Y'all ever tell a female straight up after a few dates "hey, I'm looking to have sex/smash this time around" ?
 

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long story short


i have met a young chick who doesn't go out much
anytime she go out at nyt she's surrounded by her cousin and brothers

she super quiet but last time i saw her , she was talkin me and laugin with me

so i went to an after party she was ther with the cousin and brothers (4 guys)

i culdnt take her number cuz i knw 2 of her cousin so i sent my hypewoman (good friend of mine) she went ther and took it for me and shawty was okay with it


before i left i noticed that most of ther bros were lookin at me with a bad eyes , she was alone for like 3 min
i talked to her and told her to take my number
she took it and said that she will text me




it been 3 days she ddnt text
i knew she was interested but i know her brothers told her bad things abt me cuz
they used to see me with different girl


i got her number form my hypewoman



shuld i call her and set a date or shuld i give up


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Tbh sounds like a lot of hassle and stress. As you'll have to contend with her bros and cousin.

I'd see if she rings. At least that would show shes willing to step out of the over watchful eye of her family.
 

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What y'all think about the being straightforward/blunt approach ? Y'all ever tell a female straight up after a few dates "hey, I'm looking to have sex/smash this time around" ?

:gucci: Breh. A woman knows why you're talking to her. Get her alone and seduce her. Anything else is unnecessary and will make you sound thirsty and trigger her anti-slut defense. "hey, I'm looking to have sex/smash this time around"---What do you think saying this will accomplish? :mjtf: nikka she know why you wasting time with her.
 

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Maybe he don't wanna waste time

Till this day I still don't understand how cats go to 2 or 3 dates with chicks without smashing

shyts weird to me
:ld: He gon waste alot of time goin on mad dates with different women because saying that to a woman is gon dry her coochie up real quick. Women wanna feel like they got seduced into sex. Remember they don't like accountability. Saying "ay baby I'm trynna fukk" is gonna put her under so much pressure and anxiety and outright turn her off:childplease:. Just get her alone and put the moves on her. Try to fukk every girl on the first date, no more traditional dates after the third, if you're not seeing progress by the third BUSHES. Thats the key to success with these chicks. Be assertive, If you smash the first date then you know she was really feeling you(beta males think this makes a woman a slut). We not on that beta male shyt no more. I don't think "damn she must do this with everybody" if i smash a chick on the first date, I think "Of course she let me smash, I'm that nikka :birdman:"
 

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:gucci: Breh. A woman knows why you're talking to her. Get her alone and seduce her. Anything else is unnecessary and will make you sound thirsty and trigger her anti-slut defense. "hey, I'm looking to have sex/smash this time around"---What do you think saying this will accomplish? :mjtf: nikka she know why you wasting time with her.


Nah I'm not trying to waste time bruh, chicks will string you along for free food and attention knowing you just want to fukk
 

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:ld: He gon waste alot of time goin on mad dates with different women because saying that to a woman is gon dry her coochie up real quick. Women wanna feel like they got seduced into sex. Remember they don't like accountability. Saying "ay baby I'm trynna fukk" is gonna put her under so much pressure and anxiety and outright turn her off:childplease:. Just get her alone and put the moves on her. Try to fukk every girl on the first date, no more traditional dates after the third, if you're not seeing progress by the third BUSHES. Thats the key to success with these chicks. Be assertive, If you smash the first date then you know she was really feeling you(beta males think this makes a woman a slut). We not on that beta male shyt no more. I don't think "damn she must do this with everybody" if i smash a chick on the first date, I think "Of course she let me smash, I'm that nikka :birdman:"
some real gems here
 

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you ever talk to a chick who lies about having a kid or hides them? Had this one girl didn't mention she had a kid in her profile. I was able to find her on Facebook and see she has a kid. She didn't tell me at all even when I walked her to her car after first date and could clearly see a baby seat in the car.

Just matched this girl on Hinge and I have my filter set to no kids. I find her on Facebook and see a photo of a baby in a stroller. Maybe it's not hers but any girl that doesn't mention a child in there profile or post a photo is probably a bad mom and a shytty person. Plus I'm done with single moms, 2019 was the year of the single mom for me I'm done with that.
 

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you ever talk to a chick who lies about having a kid or hides them? Had this one girl didn't mention she had a kid in her profile. I was able to find her on Facebook and see she has a kid. She didn't tell me at all even when I walked her to her car after first date and could clearly see a baby seat in the car.

Just matched this girl on Hinge and I have my filter set to no kids. I find her on Facebook and see a photo of a baby in a stroller. Maybe it's not hers but any girl that doesn't mention a child in there profile or post a photo is probably a bad mom and a shytty person. Plus I'm done with single moms, 2019 was the year of the single mom for me I'm done with that.

I'm sure there are some great single mothers out there and i hope they find happiness in the arms of someone but won't be me.

Relationships are hard already just between a man and a woman, now add a child , baby dad. I don't want to hear about some little squirt if it ain't mine or my nieces/nephew
 

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long story short


i have met a young chick who doesn't go out much
anytime she go out at nyt she's surrounded by her cousin and brothers

she super quiet but last time i saw her , she was talkin me and laugin with me

so i went to an after party she was ther with the cousin and brothers (4 guys)

i culdnt take her number cuz i knw 2 of her cousin so i sent my hypewoman (good friend of mine) she went ther and took it for me and shawty was okay with it


before i left i noticed that most of ther bros were lookin at me with a bad eyes , she was alone for like 3 min
i talked to her and told her to take my number
she took it and said that she will text me




it been 3 days she ddnt text
i knew she was interested but i know her brothers told her bad things abt me cuz
they used to see me with different girl


i got her number form my hypewoman



shuld i call her and set a date or shuld i give up


@jay83 @VertigoKnight @Koli_Kat @Lord Scarf @360dagod @TheManFromVA
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I'd text and ask if she wants to meet up
if she comes up with an excuse there is your answer delete and move on and you won't have the disease of hope lingering
 

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The way my female friends act when they catch feelings for me has taught me that when a woman is interested in you, she will definitely make it clear through her behavior that she is interested in you. No games or mixed signals. Just pure high interest.

pretty much if oyu have ask yourself does she, more than likely she doesn't
 

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you ever talk to a chick who lies about having a kid or hides them? Had this one girl didn't mention she had a kid in her profile. I was able to find her on Facebook and see she has a kid. She didn't tell me at all even when I walked her to her car after first date and could clearly see a baby seat in the car.

Just matched this girl on Hinge and I have my filter set to no kids. I find her on Facebook and see a photo of a baby in a stroller. Maybe it's not hers but any girl that doesn't mention a child in there profile or post a photo is probably a bad mom and a shytty person. Plus I'm done with single moms, 2019 was the year of the single mom for me I'm done with that.
:russ:Women who have realized they fukked out here. Hoping you catch feelings before they drop that bomb.
 
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