Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man, if those aren't ground rules for LTR worthy chicks I don't know what to say to any of you.

If you do get in a LTR add "financial literacy" to it. A girl who blows through money will ruin you :huhldup:
Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan, Definitely should’ve had that listed.
 

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Let me throw something out here for brehs who are looking for relationship material women. In other words, this isn't advice on smashing since you can figure that out from other advice in this thread.

This may sound controversial, but if you want to gauge a chick's LTR (i.e. years) potential, hold you nut for 2-3 months. I'm dead serious. Remembering when I was young and what some of us went through, getting p*ssy distorts your decision making. A lot of dudes in here got in trouble because they held on to chicks that fukked good but were mental/emotional basket cases. On the other hand, a lot of good girls aren't going to fukk on the 3rd date so if you set that bar, you are going to weed out some prospects. You don't have to be exclusive at the beginning but if you want to consider going straight you eventually cut off the side chicks.

If you are with a girl for 2-3 months and can still stand her without getting laid, there may be something there. Again, if you just want to smash hoes, this advice isn't for you. But don't do your typical jump off routine and hope to stumble on Miss Right. The strategy is totally different.But if she is DTF earlier :yeshrug:
 

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Let me throw something out here for brehs who are looking for relationship material women. In other words, this isn't advice on smashing since you can figure that out from other advice in this thread.

This may sound controversial, but if you want to gauge a chick's LTR (i.e. years) potential, hold you nut for 2-3 months. I'm dead serious. Remembering when I was young and what some of us went through, getting p*ssy distorts your decision making. A lot of dudes in here got in trouble because they held on to chicks that fukked good but were mental/emotional basket cases. On the other hand, a lot of good girls aren't going to fukk on the 3rd date so if you set that bar, you are going to weed out some prospects. You don't have to be exclusive at the beginning but if you want to consider going straight you eventually cut off the side chicks.

If you are with a girl for 2-3 months and can still stand her without getting laid, there may be something there. Again, if you just want to smash hoes, this advice isn't for you. But don't do your typical jump off routine and hope to stumble on Miss Right. The strategy is totally different.But if she is DTF earlier :yeshrug:
But if you wait and then find out the p*ssy trash :francis:
 

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Let me throw something out here for brehs who are looking for relationship material women. In other words, this isn't advice on smashing since you can figure that out from other advice in this thread.

This may sound controversial, but if you want to gauge a chick's LTR (i.e. years) potential, hold you nut for 2-3 months. I'm dead serious. Remembering when I was young and what some of us went through, getting p*ssy distorts your decision making. A lot of dudes in here got in trouble because they held on to chicks that fukked good but were mental/emotional basket cases. On the other hand, a lot of good girls aren't going to fukk on the 3rd date so if you set that bar, you are going to weed out some prospects. You don't have to be exclusive at the beginning but if you want to consider going straight you eventually cut off the side chicks.

If you are with a girl for 2-3 months and can still stand her without getting laid, there may be something there. Again, if you just want to smash hoes, this advice isn't for you. But don't do your typical jump off routine and hope to stumble on Miss Right. The strategy is totally different.But if she is DTF earlier :yeshrug:
You wait that long and the chick gon bush YOU. If the p*ssy good you gon wild out regardless of you ain’t used to p*ssy. Again I keep repeating myself. There’s no such thing as a “Good” or a “bad” girl in conventional terms. She’ll be both depending on how she reacts to YOU. Just find a girl that’s slightly enamored with you, hasn’t been around the block too much(although this is impossible to know for certain), with no diseases and don’t break frame and you’ll be ok... for a while.
 

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Girls who hit you up first and word one everything or flat out don’t even try to give value to the convo are pieces of shyt in my book
Make a power move. bytch hit me up on some small talk I say some off the wall shyt that gets her open then stop responding. Conversations are for face to face scenarios. Make these women earn your time.
 

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Let me throw something out here for brehs who are looking for relationship material women. In other words, this isn't advice on smashing since you can figure that out from other advice in this thread.

This may sound controversial, but if you want to gauge a chick's LTR (i.e. years) potential, hold you nut for 2-3 months. I'm dead serious. Remembering when I was young and what some of us went through, getting p*ssy distorts your decision making. A lot of dudes in here got in trouble because they held on to chicks that fukked good but were mental/emotional basket cases. On the other hand, a lot of good girls aren't going to fukk on the 3rd date so if you set that bar, you are going to weed out some prospects. You don't have to be exclusive at the beginning but if you want to consider going straight you eventually cut off the side chicks.

If you are with a girl for 2-3 months and can still stand her without getting laid, there may be something there. Again, if you just want to smash hoes, this advice isn't for you. But don't do your typical jump off routine and hope to stumble on Miss Right. The strategy is totally different.But if she is DTF earlier :yeshrug:
As men, we should be capable of making wise decisions regardless of whether or not we've had sex with the women. We should learn how to be in control and make the best decisions for ourselves whether we're fukking the woman or not.

By not being in control and having to wait a few months, you're just delaying becoming controlled by the puzzy.
 

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Make a power move. bytch hit me up on some small talk I say some off the wall shyt that gets her open then stop responding. Conversations are for face to face scenarios. Make these women earn your time.
Only text to set up dates. If she hit you up first, set something up or just invite her over

I stopped responding back. I was already in a bad mood and that shyt added fuel to the fire.
I know I could have just set up a time to kick it but that isn’t the point. The fact that I would have to do that type of shyt is disrespectful in my opinion.

the underlying message I got from this was that she blessed me with her presence and I got extra by getting a message from her. Now I’m supposed to either entertain her or set up arrangements to hang? What makes her worth all that?


I’ve been promoting good self esteem, virtue, and self-respect in here in a min. And this is one good example. It’s 2020 and we can’t tolerate disrespect that’s so revealing.
 

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I got on tinder a while back just to see what’s around locally. Bunch of tattooed, attention seeking, bad mouthed, just unlikable women in general. Many of them looked like hookers but stated no one night stands. Lol.

I think Hinge, is your best bet. Tinder became MySpace somewhere along the way.
 

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I got on tinder a while back just to see what’s around locally. Bunch of tattooed, attention seeking, bad mouthed, just unlikable women in general. Many of them looked like hookers but stated no one night stands. Lol.

I think Hinge, is your best bet. Tinder became MySpace somewhere along the way.
Tinder full of women only 20 years old with two kids demanding dudes not to waste their time because they’re looking for something serious. Like I don’t even know if I like you yet why are u demanding the moon and stars from me when you’re worth nothing
 

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I stopped responding back. I was already in a bad mood and that shyt added fuel to the fire.
I know I could have just set up a time to kick it but that isn’t the point. The fact that I would have to do that type of shyt is disrespectful in my opinion.

the underlying message I got from this was that she blessed me with her presence and I got extra by getting a message from her. Now I’m supposed to either entertain her or set up arrangements to hang? What makes her worth all that?


I’ve been promoting good self esteem, virtue, and self-respect in here in a min. And this is one good example. It’s 2020 and we can’t tolerate disrespect that’s so revealing.
She was replying with one word answers because she didn't hit you up for conversation. She wanted you to set something up. She wanted to fukk. At least that's how it be in my experience. This how it goes with one of my chicks, without fail. She's in town once or twice a month to visit family.

Her: "When do you work." (This is the first text, not even a Hi or What's up.)

Me: "I'm off Friday night"

Her: "I'm going to [Latin Club] tonight."

So I meet her at the club, we grind and flirt, I get some shaky butt, she have a couple drinks, we go to my place after. Easy.
 

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She was replying with one word answers because she didn't hit you up for conversation. She wanted you to set something up. She wanted to fukk. At least that's how it be in my experience. This how it goes with one of my chicks, without fail. She's in town once or twice a month to visit family.

Her: "When do you work." (This is the first text, not even a Hi or What's up.)

Me: "I'm off Friday night"

Her: "I'm going to [Latin Club] tonight."

So I meet her at the club, we grind and flirt, I get some shaky butt, she have a couple drinks, we go to my place after. Easy.


It went something like

Her: hey

Me: Hey how’s it going what’s up

her: nothing

me: oh yeah? I just got home it’s been one of those busy days

her: cool

like bytch :gucci:
 

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It went something like

Her: hey

Me: Hey how’s it going what’s up

her: nothing

me: oh yeah? I just got home it’s been one of those busy days

her: cool

like bytch :gucci:
You played it all wrong, breh. You were supposed to set something up for that same day/night.

BUT if she on bullshyt about setting something up or gives excuses, then you can bush her
 
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