Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My close female home girl hit me with a crazy question the other day.
She said do I think we'll be together in the future?

Its crazy because
1) Im seeing/talking to her sister currently - And she knows this.
2) Before we became good friends we both planned to smash but it never happened. Ima keep it real she ending up friendzoning me years ago for a number of reasons.
I caught her just at the end of her hoe phase and didn't capitalise.:mjgrin:
3) Shes currently seeing someone also - in which I was given her advice

Just made me think clearly she doesn't want or see me and her sister working out.
Which is fine because I dont and thats why me and her sister agreed to keep it casual.

Woman are crazy man.:pachaha:

It's just an ego boost for her. Siblings can be competitive. She just wants you to tell her that you'd rather be with her than her sister. It has nothing to do with her relationship or your relationship with her sister. It was purely an ego boost.
 

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It's just an ego boost for her. Siblings can be competitive. She just wants you to tell her that you'd rather be with her than her sister. It has nothing to do with her relationship or your relationship with her sister. It was purely an ego boost.

I gathered that in a sense.

But I feel shes surpressing feelings she has/had for me.
Me and her would never work and we both know that, so me potentially dating her sister is a bit too close to home for comfort.

Like I went to dinner with her sister and didn't mention it and she started acting crazy about why didn't I tell her about it.:dwillhuh:
 

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I gathered that in a sense.

But I feel shes surpressing feelings she has/had for me.
Me and her would never work and we both know that, so me potentially dating her sister is a bit too close to home for comfort.

Like I went to dinner with her sister and didn't mention it and she started acting crazy about why didn't I tell her about it.:dwillhuh:

I don't think she's suppressing feelings for you. If she wanted you she could have had you. It's a competition with her sister. She's being possessive because her sister is now getting the attention you use to give her and she doesn't like it.

She's probably be like this with any chick but it being her sister probably really fukks with her.

If I were a dirty dude I'd make sure to big up her sister whenever you get a chance. It will drive her crazy and since she obviously has few morals it will likely lead to her trying to have sex with you to validate herself.

Ps. Don't fool yourself into thinking she has feelings for you breh. She doesn't.
 

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She's unintentionally threw you an alley but you fumbled it by getting defensive.

I would have straight up agreed that I did want to touch her friend and if my game had been solid the girl would have laughed, maybe blushed and it would have opened the door for getting even more touchy freely.
I touched her quite a few times breh. What should I text her?
 

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Why do some of ya'll get obsessed with the idea of having sex with one woman?

Here is the scenario, guy wants girl. Guy takes girl out but usually in group settings. Guy does this many many many times. Doesn't make a move. Never expresses sexual or romantic interest. Just continues to spend money on outings. Then one day after years, hits girl at 2AM with the message 'hey'?

Why wouldn't this guy take the L of putting himself in the friend zone and move on? Why wait it out and spend money for years? My attention span isn't even that long. Why would a guy do this?
Thought you meant something else but thats that oneitis :snoop: Think thats why most men as they get older learn to keep it moving if they don't get it after the 2nd or 3rd meetup.




I thought you meant why some men like having sex with one woman. I don't like wearing condoms :yeshrug:
 

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:francis: Ex back on my case, been calling me for the last 2 nights now on some reconcile shyt
 

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:francis: Ex back on my case, been calling me for the last 2 nights now on some reconcile shyt
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I’ve mentioned it before in this thread and I’ll say it again. These DC/DMV women are thirsty/aggressive as fukk :dwillhuh:

just got back from pentagon city mall and I swear the female to male ratio is like 8:1. Cold approached 4 chicks but it was really a alley oop because they were sending strong choosing signals.

Met one habesha chick with a dumb ass to waist ratio :noah:

Can’t wait to go out tonight, going to be on my deviant shyt :demonic:
 

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So this girl cancels on me on a date for last Saturday like 30 minutes before we were supposed to meet. Then she says to make it up to me lets hang on Thursday. She sends no text on Thursday (no date or time was picked). Then she sends a text on Friday saying "Did you forget about me?" This was a girl I matched with Hinge doing a lot of texting but I don't like being text pals with women I haven't met.

I'm thinking of not responding and just sending her to the bushes.
 

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So this girl cancels on me on a date for last Saturday like 30 minutes before we were supposed to meet. Then she says to make it up to me lets hang on Thursday. She sends no text on Thursday (no date or time was picked). Then she sends a text on Friday saying "Did you forget about me?" This was a girl I matched with Hinge doing a lot of texting but I don't like being text pals with women I haven't met.

I'm thinking of not responding and just sending her to the bushes.

Bushes....she most likely went on two dates that sat n thurs before u
 

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So this girl cancels on me on a date for last Saturday like 30 minutes before we were supposed to meet. Then she says to make it up to me lets hang on Thursday. She sends no text on Thursday (no date or time was picked). Then she sends a text on Friday saying "Did you forget about me?" This was a girl I matched with Hinge doing a lot of texting but I don't like being text pals with women I haven't met.

I'm thinking of not responding and just sending her to the bushes
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you’re just thinking about sending her to bushes? Lol...

breh, come on. shes playing games. I’ve done some of those same tactics to my friends when I don’t feel like kicking it with them, pretend like i showed interest in hanging out so I don’t look like the bad guy, but then don’t reach out until after the day we supposed to kick it passed, to make it look like it was you that’s at fault for why y’all didn’t hang out.

She’s giving you those crumbs to keep you as a backup option


Block her and keep it moving
 
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