Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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:snoop::snoop::snoop::snoop: i dont undertsand why its so hard for me to do it:snoop: im literally so outgoing in every situation :snoop:

before you go just pretend that you're going to meet a fried already in there that should calm you down a little

depending on the club i'll usually go to the bar and get a drink and stand there for 2 minutes just to gage my surroundings
 

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How y'all brehs get around chicks thinking you just want to smash?
 

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How often do y’all deal with a chick’s hating friend?

I’m walking and this chick comes to talk to me with her friend, she’s giving me compliments n shyt n her friend is there tryna down play the shyt straight fukkin hating.

I remember this happening another time when this bald headed bytch was mad I wasn’t giving her attention and only showing her friend attention, she would not leave and go somewhere. She kept grabbing on me to distract me form talking to her friend and I had to keep moving the bytch off me.

I don’t get it, go find a nikka that want you, let your friend enjoy herself.
 

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How often do y’all deal with a chick’s hating friend?

I’m walking and this chick comes to talk to me with her friend, she’s giving me compliments n shyt n her friend is there tryna down play the shyt straight fukkin hating.

I remember this happening another time when this bald headed bytch was mad I wasn’t giving her attention and only showing her friend attention, she would not leave and go somewhere. She kept grabbing on me to distract me form talking to her friend and I had to keep moving the bytch off me.

I don’t get it, go find a nikka that want you, let your friend enjoy herself.
Say something funny/witty/nice to the friend. That gets her on your side. Don’t flirt with her but give her a small amount of attention as well. That way she talks you up when you’re not around.
 

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Thats 99.9 of women

Just lie n say ur looking for something solid

Get the p*ssy...now u got the power

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I'm about to start doing this.

Usually when they ask "what are you looking for?"(roll my eyes in my head) and say I'm just seeing what's out there. If I meet the one then I'll know.

They fukking hate that answer but :yeshrug: they stick around. As long as I don't say "I'm just trying to have fun" theyre somewhat okay.

I'm just afraid if I say "I'm looking for someone special" they're going to start pestering me with questions smh.

On my next date I'm gonna go with whatever they want to hear just to see how it goes :mjlit:
 

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Brehs I need HELP.

I'm getting so many likes and message on Hinge I cant keep up

I'm not bragging bc I've never had this many likes/messages online dating. Thankful

What's a good generic/canned message to reply with?
 

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Brehs I need HELP.

I'm getting so many likes and message on Hinge I cant keep up

I'm not bragging bc I've never had this many likes/messages online dating. Thankful

What's a good generic/canned message to reply with?

You're just going to have to decide who is worth your time first. :pachaha: I mean she's already liked your picture. I find thanking her for the like and asking a question about something on her profile will get the convo off to a good start.

In terms of keeping up. It's impossible unless you want to be conducting 10+ convos which I personally find too much. I had 90+ likes beginning of this year but have just focussed on women I get the vibe I'll flow with.
 

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Took this girl like 3 days to respond to me and she apologized for being so late so I made a joke that it's rude to ghost people. Her response really put lot of things in perspective as far as internet dating and women:
"Right? I haven't been on this app in a while then I kind of got into I don't want to go on any dates mindset so that's why I'm not on here. Sometimes I get anxious meeting people and just ignore this app if you want an honest response lol".
 

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For those brehs that have took time out to focus on yourself and your goals... How do you keep that focus going?

Im working on my business and trying to develop myself financially, mentally and emotionally to be a better person but i miss puss and female interaction (dates etc).

I wasted a week fukking with this Asian chick and lack of sex is getting me distracted.

How did you guys do it
 
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For those brehs that have took time out to focus on yourself and your goals... How do you keep that focus going?

Im working on my business and trying to develop myself financially, mentally and emotionally to be a better person but i miss puss and female interaction (dates etc).

I wasted a week fukking with this Asian chick and lack of sex is getting me distracted.

How did you guys do
Just find a balance. I don’t agree with going cold turkey imo. I did that when I had a chick and regret it everyday. Even if you go out once a week, it’s better than nothing.

As for your chick, just don’t be with her all the time. Maybe a day or two.
 
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