Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Most of these chicks are all mostly damaged and depressed. The difference is the rapidly shrinking number of women who can deal with it, realize what went wrong in a previous relationship seek help and want to do better for themselves and the men they get with vs the ones who can't and never will.

Some women should point blank not be dating anyone at all.

Was seeing a chick just before Christmas, we got along very well, hung out, nothing serious just enjoying each other's company. Then two weeks later she gave me the same speech. She needs time to herself, she doesn't want a relationship to ever get in the way of her creative work again etc.

I knew this script and was saying to myself Relationship!? I told her fine and let her be.

I go on Hinge this morning to check the messages and likes I got overnight and I see this goofy broad has created a new profile. I'm not surprised at all. The lack of attention has obviously gotten to her (only so long a woman can pretend she doesn't want that ) so she probably wants an ego boost. And the thing is she still won't face her issues so she'll just delete it in a few weeks again. My condolences to the guy whose time she'll waste.
 
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Most of these chicks are all mostly damaged and depressed. The difference is the rapidly shrinking number of women who can deal with it, realize what went wrong in a previous relationship seek help and want to do better for themselves and the men they get with vs the ones who can't and never will.

Some women should point blank not be dating anyone at all.

Was seeing a chick just before Christmas, we got along very well, hung out, nothing serious just enjoying each other's company. Then two weeks later she gave me the same speech. She needs time to herself, she doesn't want a relationship to ever get in the way of her creative work again etc.

I knew this script and was saying to myself Relationship!? I told her fine and let her be.

I go on Hinge this morning to check the messages and likes I got overnight and I see this goofy broad has created a new profile. I'm not surprised at all. The lack of attention has obviously gotten to her (only so long a woman can pretend she doesn't want that ) so she probably wants an ego boost. And the thing is she still won't face her issues so she'll just delete it in a few weeks again. My condolences to be the guy whose time she'll waste.


Yeah well i havent seen her on okc..(i made a new page)

Whenenever i take a mini L i just use it as motivation...i fukked that other chick last sunday and im talkn to this light skin joint(even she gives off the scared to get a new relationship vibes)

These bytches are just dumb
 

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Most of these chicks are all mostly damaged and depressed. The difference is the rapidly shrinking number of women who can deal with it, realize what went wrong in a previous relationship seek help and want to do better for themselves and the men they get with vs the ones who can't and never will.

Some women should point blank not be dating anyone at all.

Was seeing a chick just before Christmas, we got along very well, hung out, nothing serious just enjoying each other's company. Then two weeks later she gave me the same speech. She needs time to herself, she doesn't want a relationship to ever get in the way of her creative work again etc.

I knew this script and was saying to myself Relationship!? I told her fine and let her be.

I go on Hinge this morning to check the messages and likes I got overnight and I see this goofy broad has created a new profile. I'm not surprised at all. The lack of attention has obviously gotten to her (only so long a woman can pretend she doesn't want that ) so she probably wants an ego boost. And the thing is she still won't face her issues so she'll just delete it in a few weeks again. My condolences to be the guy whose time she'll waste.

I've experienced similar. Great spontaneous dates with a woman for a few weeks. The "I can't wait to see you texts". Making out.

Then suddenly acting weird and saying she's not ready to date because her life is hectic etc.

I hop on Bumble a week later and this chick is on there lmao. Sad thing this woman was in her 30s. You think after a certain point games stop but I guess not.

Anyways I have a girlfriend and I think about how unfortunate I'd have to be to deal with casual dating nonsense and damaged women.
 

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Most of these chicks are all mostly damaged and depressed. The difference is the rapidly shrinking number of women who can deal with it, realize what went wrong in a previous relationship seek help and want to do better for themselves and the men they get with vs the ones who can't and never will.

Some women should point blank not be dating anyone at all.

Was seeing a chick just before Christmas, we got along very well, hung out, nothing serious just enjoying each other's company. Then two weeks later she gave me the same speech. She needs time to herself, she doesn't want a relationship to ever get in the way of her creative work again etc.

I knew this script and was saying to myself Relationship!? I told her fine and let her be.

I go on Hinge this morning to check the messages and likes I got overnight and I see this goofy broad has created a new profile. I'm not surprised at all. The lack of attention has obviously gotten to her (only so long a woman can pretend she doesn't want that ) so she probably wants an ego boost. And the thing is she still won't face her issues so she'll just delete it in a few weeks again. My condolences to be the guy whose time she'll waste.

I've experienced similar. Great spontaneous dates with a woman for a few weeks. The "I can't wait to see you texts". Making out.

Then suddenly acting weird and saying she's not ready to date because her life is hectic etc.

I hop on Bumble a week later and this chick is on there lmao. Sad thing this woman was in her 30s. You think after a certain point games stop but I guess not.

Anyways I have a girlfriend and I think about how unfortunate I'd have to be to deal with casual dating nonsense and damaged women.

The fukked up part is, if you had initially approached her with the offer of fukk buddies / casual sex without commitment, they would say no to that too
 

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I thank God I always know breh . Chick I met up with a bunch of times everything was going great. We met up on Friday and then she was going on how her sister locked her brother in law out of their house and took his phone. And that he came home from work after 12 hrs upset there wasn’t any dinner made.

I knew it was a trap but stepped right in willingly and said her sister was wrong I’d never allow a woman to lock me out of my own house or take my phone. And if I’m out working 12 hrs a day least I can expect is dinner.

she laughed and giggled we had a good night then she went silent. Already deleted the number because I know how it goes etc and then this morning I wake up too a unknown number


Good morning...One of the lessons I have learned from my past is to be straightforward and honest. I also recognize that even if a person doesn’t respect me enough to be honest with me the least I can do is be honest with them so here it goes...I genuinely like you. I’m intrigued by you, the way you carry yourself, your intelligence, the way you speak, your love for God and more. I did however have to take a step back When I realized you have a similar belief system to my bro in law where a woman is pretty much solely responsible for cooking etc. I had to step back. Anyways I just wanted to share that because you deserve the truth. I think you’re an awesome individual; truly one of a kind. I know you don’t do friends so I guess after you read this you’ll block me or whatever lol hopefully you don’t but I understand if you do.


I just deleted the message no reply nothing.
 

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I've experienced similar. Great spontaneous dates with a woman for a few weeks. The "I can't wait to see you texts". Making out.

Then suddenly acting weird and saying she's not ready to date because her life is hectic etc.

I hop on Bumble a week later and this chick is on there lmao. Sad thing this woman was in her 30s. You think after a certain point games stop but I guess not.

Anyways I have a girlfriend and I think about how unfortunate I'd have to be to deal with casual dating nonsense and damaged women.


All these chicks are the same . I have zero zero expectations just enjoy em like you do a tv show and move on
 

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Most of these chicks are all mostly damaged and depressed. The difference is the rapidly shrinking number of women who can deal with it, realize what went wrong in a previous relationship seek help and want to do better for themselves and the men they get with vs the ones who can't and never will.

Some women should point blank not be dating anyone at all.

Was seeing a chick just before Christmas, we got along very well, hung out, nothing serious just enjoying each other's company. Then two weeks later she gave me the same speech. She needs time to herself, she doesn't want a relationship to ever get in the way of her creative work again etc.

I knew this script and was saying to myself Relationship!? I told her fine and let her be.

I go on Hinge this morning to check the messages and likes I got overnight and I see this goofy broad has created a new profile. I'm not surprised at all. The lack of attention has obviously gotten to her (only so long a woman can pretend she doesn't want that ) so she probably wants an ego boost. And the thing is she still won't face her issues so she'll just delete it in a few weeks again. My condolences to be the guy whose time she'll waste.
It's funny I've matched with the same girl a few times and always wondered how and I guess they do delete profiles and make new ones. Funny thing is I saw this girl on two different apps and both times I said we should meet up she went ghost or unmatched. I just saw her again yesterday and swiped yes again just to fukk with her lol.
 

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All these chicks are the same . I have zero zero expectations just enjoy em like you do a tv show and move on

Yep, zero expectations. It's all you can do nowadays. I used to get confused at these chicks, then you notice a pattern, I fall back and see the game. As we know what's coming from 99.9% of them.

I just enjoy the very short honeymoon period before their weird erratic behavior sinks things then let her go on her way.
 
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Good morning...One of the lessons I have learned from my past is to be straightforward and honest. I also recognize that even if a person doesn’t respect me enough to be honest with me the least I can do is be honest with them so here it goes...I genuinely like you. I’m intrigued by you, the way you carry yourself, your intelligence, the way you speak, your love for God and more. I did however have to take a step back When I realized you have a similar belief system to my bro in law where a woman is pretty much solely responsible for cooking etc.

But which belief system involves locking someone out of the home :unimpressed:
 

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The more I deal with this internet dating shyt the less tolerance I have for bullshyt the more assertive I become. I had a 9 in September that I always had a crush on in high school. We reconnected through Facebook and I got her into me because I was assertive and called her out on her bullshyt. I lost her because I got too attached to quickly because she's so hot and a freak. 2020 we back to calling these bytches out on there bullshyt. This Girl I been talking to for like a week says she will let me know when she can meet when I suggested some times and days. I say I value my time so either we pick a time and place or I am good. Whether she responds back or not I'm still the man.
 

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The more I deal with this internet dating shyt the less tolerance I have for bullshyt the more assertive I become. I had a 9 in September that I always had a crush on in high school. We reconnected through Facebook and I got her into me because I was assertive and called her out on her bullshyt. I lost her because I got too attached to quickly because she's so hot and a freak. 2020 we back to calling these bytches out on there bullshyt. This Girl I been talking to for like a week says she will let me know when she can meet when I suggested some times and days. I say I value my time so either we pick a time and place or I am good. Whether she responds back or not I'm still the man.

You don’t even gotta say all that. Calling women out on bs does nothing unless she respects you. Just be indifferent & put yourself above at all cost.
 
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