Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Is my friend with benefits asking too much for me to be in contact with her once every 2-3 days even just to check in or is that normally how it goes?
Sometimes I just don’t want to talk nor feel the need to hit up anybody. I told her that feels robotic to me and relationshipy. I’d rather her hit me up when she wants to talk or I’ll hit her up when I want to talk. We are kind of in a stalemate in that.
 

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Is my friend with benefits asking too much for me to be in contact with her once every 2-3 days even just to check in or is that normally how it goes?
Sometimes I just don’t want to talk nor feel the need to hit up anybody. I told her that feels robotic to me and relationshipy. I’d rather her hit me up when she wants to talk or I’ll hit her up when I want to talk. We are kind of in a stalemate in that.
Is she actually a FRIEND with benefits, or is she just to fukk and that's it?

I have female friends that I fukk casually with no relationship commitment attached, so we're literally friends with benefits. Perhaps that's what this chick thinks she is to you.
 

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It was my one and only opportunity to know if she was lying. Deep inside i knew she was lying. The thing is she lied about such stupid shyt that my mind would ask if she is lying about small shyt, imagine what else she lies about.

Also because one day she said, you aint got no proof that I am lying...this was back in October. It stayed with me that she only thinks with proof she can get caught.

I havent spoken to her for 2 weeks. I am very happy. But at times i get a bit disappointed with myself for even entertaining this bird brain because i saw the red flags early and thought, naively, that she would appreciate what ibwas doing for her.

Bruh, some people are just trash. However i am accountable for trying to fix broken souls and grown ass adults. At the end, she didnt waste my time, i chose to be in a shytty situation

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I'm not a player or a Mack but a breh who has experience. Take this as a lesson learned. Don't beat yourself up too much. shyt happens.
 

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About two weeks ago chick told me she lost her job so she wasn't in position to date like a few days before our first date. Last night she texts me hey if you are interested I would still like to meet up. Do I even ask why she wants to meet up now or do I just meet up? Even if she's hitting me up because another guy fell through I still got nothing to lose I feel like?
 

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About two weeks ago chick told me she lost her job so she wasn't in position to date like a few days before our first date. Last night she texts me hey if you are interested I would still like to meet up. Do I even ask why she wants to meet up now or do I just meet up? Even if she's hitting me up because another guy fell through I still got nothing to lose I feel like?

She found a job in 2 weeks:patrice:
 

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Thinkin about making a fake IG to give to joints I meet off of apps. Since hoes stress socials so much.

What y'all think?
 

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Thinkin about making a fake IG to give to joints I meet off of apps. Since hoes stress socials so much.

What y'all think?
won't fly well if you don't have any real followers. Imagine making an account and you only got 14 follower and following 4 people lmao

Just tell em it's not your thing.
 

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I forgot its valentine's day in a few weeks:lolbron:

Dont even bother waisting your energy calling them out..

Tell her you got other shyt lined up

Real Talk. Y'all be careful with joints who "mysteriously" come back and want your attention between now & Feb.

A lot of em will be on depression-watch if they don't have any Valentines Day flicks for IG.

Good Point @360dagod :mjlol:
 

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I forgot its valentine's day in a few weeks:lolbron:

Dont even bother waisting your energy calling them out..

Tell her you got other shyt lined up
Damn you right about that but I got no roster right now. I am not going into this desperate but I also got nothing else lined up right now. Which is why I might just meet up she doesn't live that far. Valentine's day doesn't mean shyt to me if we aren't fukking or haven't been together for at least 6 months anyway.
 
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