Killigraphy
Banned
Is my friend with benefits asking too much for me to be in contact with her once every 2-3 days even just to check in or is that normally how it goes?
Sometimes I just don’t want to talk nor feel the need to hit up anybody. I told her that feels robotic to me and relationshipy. I’d rather her hit me up when she wants to talk or I’ll hit her up when I want to talk. We are kind of in a stalemate in that.
Just how it is when you're dealing with a creature that oozes estrogen. Women want attention in general, so when you're someone they're fukking with, they want yours 5 times more. What I tend to do is piss em off a bit, say something they don't like or just be disrespectful. Hang up the phone, then call her in 2-3 days on your own volition. She'll respond with the typical "Oh so you remembered who I am shpiel", and you can just ignore it and go on chatting away. Remember, you never have to put up with her shyt, she puts up with you, she's not the trophy/reward here, you are.
Its worse when milfs are involved, they usually have no lives since they have kids, so they always want to talk and hangout...though they're usually the easiest to manipulate. Hurt her feelings, return back in two days. Its a horrible game, but I didn't invent it.