Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just had the best time at the Latin club tonight. I went out solo, didn't even need the social value of having a crew or wingman. Stole some girls from Spanish dudes, I ain't scared of no migo. I went dancing once on Friday night, twice on Saturday night, and once tonight (Sunday). All solo. And I've only been dancing since July. I fell in love with the shyt and I practice daily. Dance is my pastime and hobby, but it's been great for picking up women.

Please learn how to dance!

I have so many numbers I don't even know which ones to hit up! Find your scene and get out there. It doesn't have to be salsa and bachata. It can be zouk, kizomba, afrobeat, dembow, whatever the hell you want. Just learn! There's a million reasons that I don't have time to list! Women are impressed by good dancers. You make a good physical connection and break the touch barrier. Make small talk, flirt, whatever. While dancing you can even flirt nonverbally. Dancing well and with confidence gets the panties wet.

When I'm dancing, I see the other chicks watching me. When I try to go sit down, a new chick runs from across the club to grab me for a dance. You get to escalate physically and see how receptive they are, how much they like you.

You should learn how to dance to the style of music you enjoy the most, so you can really feel the music and let yourself go.

Along with speaking fluent Spanish, I'm eating outchea.
I might have to take you up on that. I love latinas:wow:
 

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hinge is the best to me
can search by race

Yeah Tinder dead & Bumble doesn't have enough black women, and if they do, they dating tom, walter, bill, or cody.

Tinder from what i realize from looking at my average co-workers account (she has 99+ likes), a lot of guys are swiping on everything. So its not that you're necessarily ugly, its just you're behind 100+ guys who also swiped on the same girl.
Then you have to also consider the guys who are paying to be "Boosted" shyt is dead.
 

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Anytime I see “ no 1 night stands”, “ don’t waste my time”, “ no fukk boys”, or “ looking for something real”. I know to expect the opposite. Lol

Yep. They mean the exact opposite of everything they say. "Waste my time" & "I want drama" "
 

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First L of 2020 :francis:. Met up with shorty on Saturday at a wine bar. shyt was flowing. Exchanged a couple of texts the next day then went ghost:skip:.

Record is 3-1 for the year tho:ehh:


She’ll be back in a few months after her ex leaves her again. Lol
 

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"Ill keep you posted, but where's the spot?" = Not interested, but she's curious about the place you'll take me.
First L of 2020 :francis:. Met up with shorty on Saturday at a wine bar. shyt was flowing. Exchanged a couple of texts the next day then went ghost:skip:.

Record is 3-1 for the year tho:ehh:

Funny you say this. Im talking to a joint about taking her to a wine bar. She goes "Ill definitely keep you posted, where is it at?"

:comeon: :russ:

Yeah right lol. I aint tellin you shyt. So you can go take the next man
 

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Been back in NYC since late December. This shyt is too easy out here man. Definitely on a different playing field now than when I was really chasing women here 11 years ago. These chicks get so used to dealing with goofy ass dudes that you’ll eat by simply being normal lol. shyt is crazy.
 

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She’ll be back in a few months after her ex leaves her again. Lol

Breh...she told me the ex before her last, got married to her sister thats like a year older than her. nikka moved in on her sister after breaking up.

Im like, on the surface thats a crazy L:heh: :gucci:, but to have the grace to accept that is quite remarkable :ehh:.

We're still following each other on ig so:yeshrug:

"Ill keep you posted, but where's the spot?" = Not interested, but she's curious about the place you'll take me.


Funny you say this. Im talking to a joint about taking her to a wine bar. She goes "Ill definitely keep you posted, where is it at?"

:comeon: :russ:

Yeah right lol. I aint tellin you shyt. So you can go take the next man

I had one broad do that, I intentionally recommended a place that wasn't fancy on the face of it. She sent me a text shortly after saying shes not feeling. I just replied "cool". That was it.
 
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Just had the best time at the Latin club tonight. I went out solo, didn't even need the social value of having a crew or wingman. Stole some girls from Spanish dudes, I ain't scared of no migo. I went dancing once on Friday night, twice on Saturday night, and once tonight (Sunday). All solo. And I've only been dancing since July. I fell in love with the shyt and I practice daily. Dance is my pastime and hobby, but it's been great for picking up women.

Please learn how to dance!

I have so many numbers I don't even know which ones to hit up! Find your scene and get out there. It doesn't have to be salsa and bachata. It can be zouk, kizomba, afrobeat, dembow, whatever the hell you want. Just learn! There's a million reasons that I don't have time to list! Women are impressed by good dancers. You make a good physical connection and break the touch barrier. Make small talk, flirt, whatever. While dancing you can even flirt nonverbally. Dancing well and with confidence gets the panties wet.

When I'm dancing, I see the other chicks watching me. When I try to go sit down, a new chick runs from across the club to grab me for a dance. You get to escalate physically and see how receptive they are, how much they like you.

You should learn how to dance to the style of music you enjoy the most, so you can really feel the music and let yourself go.

Along with speaking fluent Spanish, I'm eating outchea.

100% agree when I go clubbing I'm going to dance if I pick up a chick that's a bonus. A chick was telling me this past weekend when she goes clubbing any guy whose not dancing she already knows what his at the club for and it's a turn off. Brehs standing at the edge of the dancefloor watching everyone is off putting to her.

But a man who is dancing and more importantly having fun on his own terms (ie not paying attention to these chicks) feels more welcoming and interesting. I find when I'm dancing on my own, woman will gather near me and start dancing, making eye contact from there you can easily break the ice if you wish. More times I carry on dancing

:lolbron:
 

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Brehs am I foul for fukking a ex of a coworker who I havent spoken to in like two years :yeshrug:


nikka mad as hell right now but He’d be madder if I told him his ex cheated on him with her own cousin :troll:
 
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