Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right
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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right

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What made you come to that decision

just looking back at some of my past situations, out of all the girls I’ve been with I only genuinely cared about 1. Only 1 breh. So what the fukk did I waste time with people who I had no intention of even being with long term? Just to fukk then move on to the next? To feed my ego? Or I was bored? Or she looked good? Then I repeat the same process over & over again, which don’t get me anything besides just somewhere to put my dikk in temporarily.

I just don’t feel happy breh. shyt I haven’t felt happy in years man. I finally have 2 weeks off from a job i don’t even like. I got my college degree, but still feel like a failure even though I’m more well off than a majority of my peers, I buy literally anything I want and don’t break a sweat, I’ve been with women hundreds of guys chase. Yet here I am feeling fukking empty.

I spent my adolescence thinking this was the life I want, I’m very far from it but I can see the similarities and it’s just not a life I want to live man. the only person that can change that is me. The first start is moving away from what I’ve been doing and just growing as a man. there’s more to it than just working out, having sex, and going to work, it starts with me internally first.
 
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just looking back at some of my past situations, out of all the girls I’ve been with I only genuinely cared about 1. Only 1 breh. So what the fukk did I waste time with people who I had no intention of even being with long term? Just to fukk then move on to the next? To feed my ego? Or I was bored? Or she looked good? Then I repeat the same process over & over again, which don’t get me anything besides just somewhere to put my dikk in temporarily.

I just don’t feel happy breh. shyt I haven’t felt happy in years man. I finally have 2 weeks off from a job i don’t even like. I got my college degree, but still feel like a failure even though I’m more well off than a majority of my peers, I buy literally anything I want and don’t break a sweat, I’ve been with women hundreds of guys chase. Yet here I am feeling fukking empty.

I spent my adolescence thinking this was the life I want, I’m very far from it but I can see the similarities and it’s just not a life I want to live man. the only person that can change that is me. The first start is moving away from what I’ve been doing and just growing as a man. there’s more to it than just working out, having sex, and going to work, it starts with me internally first.
Man I wish more people would take this stance on there life :wow:

This is exactly where I was about a year ago, and man I'll be the first to tell you that SO much can change in a year :wow:


No Dating Coach/PUA advice here, Just one of the greatest black actors of all time giving the greatest advice I ever heard:

 

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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right
fukk these hoes breh. Work on yourself and you'll never lose women. We support you 1000 percent.
 

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just looking back at some of my past situations, out of all the girls I’ve been with I only genuinely cared about 1. Only 1 breh. So what the fukk did I waste time with people who I had no intention of even being with long term? Just to fukk then move on to the next? To feed my ego? Or I was bored? Or she looked good? Then I repeat the same process over & over again, which don’t get me anything besides just somewhere to put my dikk in temporarily.

I just don’t feel happy breh. shyt I haven’t felt happy in years man. I finally have 2 weeks off from a job i don’t even like. I got my college degree, but still feel like a failure even though I’m more well off than a majority of my peers, I buy literally anything I want and don’t break a sweat, I’ve been with women hundreds of guys chase. Yet here I am feeling fukking empty.

I spent my adolescence thinking this was the life I want, I’m very far from it but I can see the similarities and it’s just not a life I want to live man. the only person that can change that is me. The first start is moving away from what I’ve been doing and just growing as a man. there’s more to it than just working out, having sex, and going to work, it starts with me internally first.
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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right

To quote myself; Getting women is not the goal, they're the byproduct of a life well lived. Focus on yourself.
 

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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right
Salute, I feel like I was in a similar mind space a couple years ago. Good job, no kids, no debt but just unhappy from life and women . p*ssy will always be there and honestly it gets better the older you get. I went a year with no dating and it was the best decision I ever made. Mind, body, career were all my focus and I couldnt be happier. I applaud you on the decision
 

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@situationlines :salute:

Y’all peeped my post pages back where I mulled over the same shyt, these women can’t bring you the happiness u seeking it gotta come from inside....

How do you wish life was though? N how old are u?

unsure to be honest I just want to feel like whatever I’m doing has meaning in a sense. Where I wake up with shyt to look forward, and being happy with my own company. I plan on taking a solo trip out the country in a few months, unsure where I’m going though, but it’s a step towards the direction I want to go in. And I turn 24 in a few months
 

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just got back from the outing with the sri lankan, first time i've ever been on a outing with a sri lankan. Chick was a bit chubby :hubie:, found out we have mutual friends as well small world.
 

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Salute, I feel like I was in a similar mind space a couple years ago. Good job, no kids, no debt but just unhappy from life and women . p*ssy will always be there and honestly it gets better the older you get. I went a year with no dating and it was the best decision I ever made. Mind, body, career were all my focus and I couldnt be happier. I applaud you on the decision

its true all of it. As long as you have breath women will always be there. I'm 34 and i've been on more dates/met new women this year than ever before. It's always funny though when you don't care thats when women pop up
 

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Turned up to this hipster cocktail/burger place yesterday night with one of my boys.

Place only seats 13 people. Soon as I walk in I see this Pawg I used to fukk with who I ghosted earlier this year, standing there chatting with a breh.

:russ:

We had to wait for seats so we went to another bar and my boy told me if I'm uncomfortable we could go somewhere else.

Told him I'm not being scared off by some chick, got the call seats were ready and went back. She was now sitting at the bar. She darted her eyes over but didn't say a word. Breh goes to the bathroom and I feel her eyes burning into me. But what do we have to talk about? Carried on eating my burger.

i would love to see a video reenactment of this :heh:
 

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I think I’m done dating for a while, it’s gonna be a lil lonely and shyt. But I got a lot of things I need to improve on, I was losing focus. Women will always be here and p*ssy ain’t worth the headache they provide. I’m not wasting time with a broad just cause I wanna smash no matter how bad she is. If a girl comes along and we’re compatible I may pursue, but other than that I gotta get myself right

It's ok to be lonely. Even miss your ex sometimes. You're working on you, so the temporary pain will be well worth it in the near future.

I'm in your same boat. I'm trying to fall out of love with my ex at the moment.
 
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