Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Maaaaaan, More I think about it the more I want to take off the next year COMPLETELY from bytches like I did from June-September. Had so much peace.

Now its back to the lies, fukkery, and BS :snoop:

Was watching Hustlers with a chick last night and this bytch didn't see shyt wrong with what them hoes was doing :francis:

nothing wrong with taking a break women will always be there
 

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What are you referring to?
Our advice and theories are grounded in life experiences, heartbreak, ego smashes, financial crisis, homelessness, broken families etc we've learned the hard way and then mix it in with some theory and concepts we picked up along the way.

People who are invested in Pick Up Artists and all these online white boy reactionary movement's base ALL their thinking/perspective on that THEORY with little to no real life experience. So their advice becomes very mechanical and lacks the nuance and multifaceted perspective of a seasoned Playa.

The reason i discourage anyone posting any pick up artist or mgtow or any of that shyt here is coz if a young inexperienced guy gets a hold of all that theoretical overload he'll be robbed of coming to his own real life epiphanies and won't develop his own unique nuanced perspective.
It robs you of self actualization as a man, you just parrot someone else's "brilliance" with no true understanding
 

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Our advice and theories are grounded in life experiences, heartbreak, ego smashes, financial crisis, homelessness, broken families etc we've learned the hard way and then mix it in with some theory and concepts we picked up along the way.

People who are invested in Pick Up Artists and all these online white boy reactionary movement's base ALL their thinking/perspective on that THEORY with little to no real life experience. So their advice becomes very mechanical and lacks the nuance and multifaceted perspective of a seasoned Playa.

The reason i discourage anyone posting any pick up artist or mgtow or any of that shyt here is coz if a young inexperienced guy gets a hold of all that theoretical overload he'll be robbed of coming to his own real life epiphanies and won't develop his own unique nuanced perspective.
It robs you of self actualization as a man, you just parrot someone else's "brilliance" with no true understanding
Ah, I get exactly what you’re saying.

Yeah I agree that learning from puas n shyt is kind of weird because of how mechanical it is.

But a lot of cats don’t have anyone to teach them game or they didn’t have the confidence to holla at chicks at a young age like that to get better with women.

That’s where the puas come in and guys look for that.

Some guys are super nice guys and they go through so much shyt with women. Then that man turns mgtow or whatever.

I do agree though that no one should strive to be a pua, just a dude that gets bytches.

And you can see a lot of men don’t learn the game or no it at all. That’s why it’s so popular to just go on YouTube and watch someone.

AMS is making so much money from this, but I like his advice on total self improvement. Many guys don’t have people in their lives that tell them these things.

I also like Tariq Nasheed’s older shyt as well.

Black men just have a better way of dropping game that doesn’t seem so mechanical.

But yeah, I agree with what you’re saying too because it gets to the point where the shyt is weird to think about; like all of these terms and all of this overthinking shyt while dealing with women instead of learning on your own.

Some guys just happen to put in enough work at a young age they understand the game and it’s natural.

Other guys were told to be simps or never tried hard enough to get the game down, some have the wrong mindset.

It all depends.
 

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Our advice and theories are grounded in life experiences, heartbreak, ego smashes, financial crisis, homelessness, broken families etc we've learned the hard way and then mix it in with some theory and concepts we picked up along the way.

People who are invested in Pick Up Artists and all these online white boy reactionary movement's base ALL their thinking/perspective on that THEORY with little to no real life experience. So their advice becomes very mechanical and lacks the nuance and multifaceted perspective of a seasoned Playa.

The reason i discourage anyone posting any pick up artist or mgtow or any of that shyt here is coz if a young inexperienced guy gets a hold of all that theoretical overload he'll be robbed of coming to his own real life epiphanies and won't develop his own unique nuanced perspective.
It robs you of self actualization as a man, you just parrot someone else's "brilliance" with no true understanding
100% Bullshyt, Most men don't even discover the "manosphere" until they've had an experience that forces them to have an epiphany of how the game and life really is.
 
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I don't know if it was in here or the main thread where they talked about the shyt you learned being a side nikka, but being around women who no longer have their antennas up puts u in a whole different viewpoint of females intuitive nature...... I gotta few attractive homegirls and they've literally shown me the thousands they're raking in from simps for Christmas who just value havin some type of "stituationship" n some time with them, these girls don't have nothing to hide from me cause I'm not their man, n I've seen some of the texts/interactions firsthand...... n some of these dudes have girls n still tricking on other bytches! Smh

1 shorty has four different dudes copping her: a purse (~800), some $250 perfume, 4 $100 Sephora gift cards, n 1 dude dropped 1.5K on her to get her BMW out the shop....

Other shorty in line for some Chanel shoes (~1K), monthly student loan payment (~450 I believe), some Shane Justin (fashion designer) suits worth about ~600 altogether, and about $200 in VS gift cards......

Mind you this just two homegirls n what they showed me, I know they not spilling all the beans but it's just crazy how easy women have it in today's simp landscape.... can't hate on em though cause the 1st shorty gonna give me 1 of the gift cards to regift :lolbron:

I buy cheap, thoughtful gifts of shyt I know they need based on our convos...... I don't be caring to spend hundreds on females I'm just casually seeing or cool with, cause then I feel like I'm one of the dudes in this list..... have no problem feigning broke for these women but over the years haven't really been pressed minus an ex a few years back who spent wayyyy more on me than I did for her. :yeshrug:

Moral of the story is, don't put your bank account on Life support going into the New Year tryna go all out for these shorties, cause you prolly not the only one.
 

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I don't know if it was in here or the main thread where they talked about the shyt you learned being a side nikka, but being around women who no longer have their antennas up puts u in a whole different viewpoint of females intuitive nature...... I gotta few attractive homegirls and they've literally shown me the thousands they're raking in from simps for Christmas who just value havin some type of "stituationship" n some time with them, these girls don't have nothing to hide from me cause I'm not their man, n I've seen some of the texts/interactions firsthand...... n some of these dudes have girls n still tricking on other bytches! Smh

1 shorty has four different dudes copping her: a purse (~800), some $250 perfume, 4 $100 Sephora gift cards, n 1 dude dropped 1.5K on her to get her BMW out the shop....

Other shorty in line for some Chanel shoes (~1K), monthly student loan payment (~450 I believe), some Shane Justin (fashion designer) suits worth about ~600 altogether, and about $200 in VS gift cards......

Mind you this just two homegirls n what they showed me, I know they not spilling all the beans but it's just crazy how easy women have it in today's simp landscape.... can't hate on em though cause the 1st shorty gonna give me 1 of the gift cards to regift :lolbron:

I buy cheap, thoughtful gifts of shyt I know they need based on our convos...... I don't be caring to spend hundreds on females I'm just casually seeing or cool with, cause then I feel like I'm one of the dudes in this list..... have no problem feigning broke for these women but over the years haven't really been pressed minus an ex a few years back who spent wayyyy more on me than I did for her. :yeshrug:

Moral of the story is, don't put your bank account on Life support going into the New Year tryna go all out for these shorties, cause you prolly not the only one.
Be happy to be friends with leech ass bytches brehs :mjlol:
 

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I buy cheap, thoughtful gifts of shyt I know they need based on our convos...... I don't be caring to spend hundreds on females I'm just casually seeing or cool with, cause then I feel like I'm one of the dudes in this list.....

Moral of the story is, don't put your bank account on Life support going into the New Year tryna go all out for these shorties, cause you prolly not the only one.

it aint tricking if u got it:troll:
 

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i feel you breh but i also get what breh saying too
I get what he means, There's a LOT of PUA/Dating coaches that are trash but I don't think they all are. I've learned a whoooooooole lot from watching AMS this year, A lot about women but also way more than just women. Building my credit, Starting my business, Building multiple streams of income, Filling the voids in life I once had, etc.
 

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I don't know if it was in here or the main thread where they talked about the shyt you learned being a side nikka, but being around women who no longer have their antennas up puts u in a whole different viewpoint of females intuitive nature...... I gotta few attractive homegirls and they've literally shown me the thousands they're raking in from simps for Christmas who just value havin some type of "stituationship" n some time with them, these girls don't have nothing to hide from me cause I'm not their man, n I've seen some of the texts/interactions firsthand...... n some of these dudes have girls n still tricking on other bytches! Smh

1 shorty has four different dudes copping her: a purse (~800), some $250 perfume, 4 $100 Sephora gift cards, n 1 dude dropped 1.5K on her to get her BMW out the shop....

Other shorty in line for some Chanel shoes (~1K), monthly student loan payment (~450 I believe), some Shane Justin (fashion designer) suits worth about ~600 altogether, and about $200 in VS gift cards......

Mind you this just two homegirls n what they showed me, I know they not spilling all the beans but it's just crazy how easy women have it in today's simp landscape.... can't hate on em though cause the 1st shorty gonna give me 1 of the gift cards to regift :lolbron:

I buy cheap, thoughtful gifts of shyt I know they need based on our convos...... I don't be caring to spend hundreds on females I'm just casually seeing or cool with, cause then I feel like I'm one of the dudes in this list..... have no problem feigning broke for these women but over the years haven't really been pressed minus an ex a few years back who spent wayyyy more on me than I did for her. :yeshrug:

Moral of the story is, don't put your bank account on Life support going into the New Year tryna go all out for these shorties, cause you prolly not the only one.


[Outro: 2Pac]
Ayo, how the pretty bytch be, the more scandalous the ho be
You ever peep that shyt? (Nah)
A bytch can be like 15, fukkin' with a nikka 35
Gettin' him for everything
Hoes these days is way too motherfukkin' intelligent
When these nikkas get to trickin', hahaha, it's over then
That's aight though
Keep a nikka heavy in the game
Watch them hoes
All you nikkas out there
Beware these lying-ass scandalous bytches
They will leave yo' ass on E
:wow:
 

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Just came back from my second outing with the single mom saw a movie :ehh: she bought me popcorn and a drink.

Went well :ehh: ended up dropping her home and she's like so when can I see you again :ehh:

Have a date with a Sri Lankan chick tomorrow and this Nigerian Chick on Sunday
 
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