Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

my life has been much more easier and enjoyable when I stopped expecting common decency from women.

Exactly how I look at most of them now. A handful of women who still practice decency and actual accountability for their behaviour. Majority do not.

Imagine a man vanishing for months then popping up with a weak ass excuse as to why they stopped all contact.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

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Malcolm x autobiography has so many gems about women

Malcolm speaking that truth.

I can break down what he said in Dante Nero language.

What men like most in a female is that she likes him.

You know who will act like they like you and treat you like a king no matter what? Prostitutes and Strippers.

I'll throw in my own personal example.

Micky Rourke's character in the Wrestler is a piece of shyt nobody. Dude is old and his body is breaking down, on top of that he's broke living in a trailer, has no friends, and worst of all, his daughter hates him.

What does he do throughout the movie?? He goes to the strip club every other scene so he can talk about his life to a certain stripper because he feels like she cares.

Malcolm said, "all women, by their nature, are fragile and weak: they are attracted to the male in whom they see strength."

I got two topics from Dante on this one.

Feminism is needed because dudes shouldn't be beating on women or holding them back in the workforce. But when you give women an inch, they take it too far. . Now women try to make masculinity a bad thing. They want men to be super in touch with their feelings and hold all urges. Now we got soft men that women don't want to fukk.

Like he said... act like a p*ssy.... you will get fukked




Another thing he said is this, "women get with you for who you are, and spend the rest of the relationship trying to turn you into something else. And if they succeed, they break up with you and get a guy exactly like who you were before she changed you."



Don't be soft brehs!

 

[EatingGoodNow]

Another thing he said is this, "women get with you for who you are, and spend the rest of the relationship trying to turn you into something else. And if they succeed, they break up with you and get a guy exactly like who you were before she changed you."

Don't be soft brehs!

These chicks constantly try to castrate and control you. So my girl and I were supposed to go out of town for the day a on Black Friday. I went home to see the fam on Thanksgiving and while there didn’t want to cut my time short while there so I told her we would at a later. We haven’t rescheduled a day trip yet...until...tonight when I told her I was going to a Christmas party at a coworkers place after work on Friday. A little later in the convo she brings up going out of town. I told her we could on Saturday but she insists we leave on Friday evening. I know this is to make me miss out on the party.

 

[Malik1time]

After getting dumped I’ve been improving myself I always went to the gym but now I go constantly Still focusing on school.... I actually got a tattoo I’ve been holding off on for like 4months ... so far so good idk why my ex is throwing subliminal shots at me on Facebook I’m innocent here I never cheat,was loyal just wasn’t making tons of money,I just find it funny she was never that active on Facebook but now she writing status blah blah

 

[HARLEM AL]

The other dating coaches can't match his resume.
Plus he's been doing this podcast every Tuesday for about five years now, this is not even including the black Phillip show.

Went to college
Dude was a stripper
Been in comedy the last 10 years (Patrice o Neal homie)
Has been on tv shows like the black list
Said he can't remember how many women he has smashed in his life time
Has been married before and his now remarried
Has raised step children and finally has his first child in his 50s, ironically his dad was in his 50s when Dante was born.

no one has ever called him out on ducktales

I listen to the podcast everyday cause there is a shyt ton of episodes

The guests he has are a large variety. A few weeks ago he had porn star kendra Sunderland on there. He's got comedians like Godfrey on there. I'm in the early episodes right now and he has his nephew on and he's clowning the fukk out of him for getting with the first girl who let him smash. Lmaooo



Plus it goes beyond dating. He wants everyone to live a dope life.

Dante is 100 percent on point. Everything he has said I’ve witnessed myself. Only person I would put up their with is ARC.

 

[Ohene]

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Malcolm x autobiography has so many gems about women

omgoodness

yet all women try to do is emasculate men and break down their ego. its sad really.
then when they succeed they lose attraction. vicious cycle

edit: jsut read the second pic. yep. its basic stuff that a lot of men do not know

 

[mortuus est]

You know who will act like they like you and treat you like a king no matter what? Prostitutes and Strippers.

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[jay83]

I was at a bar and two dudes were arguing about talking about sex on the first date.
One of them was like he gets straight to the point and tells her how he’s gonna make her cum and all that stuff.

Other dude says he never brings it up and let’s her make the move.

 

[The True HD]

I was at a bar and two dudes were arguing about talking about sex on the first date.
One of them was like he gets straight to the point and tells her how he’s gonna make her cum and all that stuff.

Other dude says he never brings it up and let’s her make the move.

What's your take?

 

[DaRealness]

Let's be real especially in the black community women try to emasculate men from when they are a kid. It starts with the mother trying to do it and then later on in life the women you meet.

As a man it needs to get to a point where it's either "my way or the highway" and that's end of discussion, end of story. All this 'nice guy' bullshyt they push on you is deliberate sabotage, it doesn't come from a genuine place I don't care what anyone says. Maybe our grandmothers who told us that bullshyt meant well cos back in the old days being a 'gentleman' was still somewhat respected, but after that any woman telling you that nonsense is intentionally misleading you. It's not about going to the other extreme and being a monster for the hell of it, but we live in a savage world and your very survival depends on your manhood/masculinity.

You have to be pretty much savage in response and yes at times that will mean upsetting your own mother on occasion. You can't take seriously any woman who claims to want 'nice' when it's convenient but then wants you to be Killmonger when danger lurks around the corner. Neither can you let a woman who probably won't even be in your life a year from now try and change you in any way. You are who you are and you do shyt for YOU. Obviously very few women will tell you this. There are some women on YouTube who spit that real shyt, but they are always in stable relationships with a man who knows himself and wouldn't let anyone push him around.

To be honest though, any man who still buys into that crap has himself to blame. We're nearly in 2020 so if you haven't got the memo by now that is totally on you.

 

[DaRealness]

Exactly how I look at most of them now. A handful of women who still practice decency and actual accountability for their behaviour. Majority do not.

Imagine a man vanishing for months then popping up with a weak ass excuse as to why they stopped all contact.

Just the other week some chick I didn't hear from for nearly a year WhatsApped me a "happy birthday DaRealness!" (it wasn't my birthday )

I had already deleted her number a long time ago so I was like "it ain't my birthday, who is this?" she was like "oh it's so and so birdbrain, sorry I meant another DaRealness! How are you anyway?" I was like cool, hope you're well.

The next day this chick messages me again with a link and tells me about some bullshyt black seed oil she's selling and asked me to take a look when I can. How stupid do some of these chicks think we are.

Shameless doesn't even begin to describe that. I simply deleted her again.

 

[Ahadi]

Let's be real especially in the black community women try to emasculate men from when they are a kid. It starts with the mother trying to do it and then later on in life the women you meet.

As a man it needs to get to a point where it's either "my way or the highway" and that's end of discussion, end of story. All this 'nice guy' bullshyt they push on you is deliberate sabotage, it doesn't come from a genuine place I don't care what anyone says. Maybe our grandmothers who told us that bullshyt meant well cos back in the old days being a 'gentleman' was still somewhat respected, but after that any woman telling you that nonsense is intentionally misleading you. It's not about going to the other extreme and being a monster for the hell of it, but we live in a savage world and your very survival depends on your manhood/masculinity.

You have to be pretty much savage in response and yes at times that will mean upsetting your own mother on occasion. You can't take seriously any woman who claims to want 'nice' when it's convenient but then wants you to be Killmonger when danger lurks around the corner. Neither can you let a woman who probably won't even be in your life a year from now try and change you in any way. You are who you are and you do shyt for YOU. Obviously very few women will tell you this. There are some women on YouTube who spit that real shyt, but they are always in stable relationships with a man who knows himself and wouldn't let anyone push him around.

To be honest though, any man who still buys into that crap has himself to blame. We're nearly in 2020 so if you haven't got the memo by now that is totally on you.

Real talk. I just say whatever I feel. If she’s not with it, either she don’t like me like that, or disappointed I’m not falling for her games. That nice shyt gets you nowhere. Keep it 100 with her at all times. Even if you say something wild & she will still respond if she has a high level interest.

All these women complain about toxic men, when being “toxic” or the “ain’t shyt nikka” gets the most p*ssy & baddest p*ssy.

 

[DaRealness]

Real talk. I just say whatever I feel. If she’s not with it, either she don’t like me like that, or disappointed I’m not falling for her games. That nice shyt gets you nowhere. Keep it 100 with her at all times. Even if you say something wild & she will still respond if she has a high level interest.

All these women complain about toxic men, when being “toxic” or the “ain’t shyt nikka” gets the most p*ssy & baddest p*ssy.

Case in point that chick Cyn aka Synthetic G.

She did all that big talk against toxic and dusty males in every video, then wound up getting pregnant by one. Then it was "b-b-but that was different" when she got called out on it.

If they don't like you for saying what's on your mind and keeping it 100 and not being moved off your square, so what? They didn't like you when you were "nice" so what's the difference lol.

 

[Canon]

my life has been much more easier and enjoyable when I stopped expecting common decency from women.

Man ain’t this the truth

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Let's be real especially in the black community women try to emasculate men from when they are a kid. It starts with the mother trying to do it and then later on in life the women you meet.

As a man it needs to get to a point where it's either "my way or the highway" and that's end of discussion, end of story. All this 'nice guy' bullshyt they push on you is deliberate sabotage, it doesn't come from a genuine place I don't care what anyone says. Maybe our grandmothers who told us that bullshyt meant well cos back in the old days being a 'gentleman' was still somewhat respected, but after that any woman telling you that nonsense is intentionally misleading you. It's not about going to the other extreme and being a monster for the hell of it, but we live in a savage world and your very survival depends on your manhood/masculinity.

You have to be pretty much savage in response and yes at times that will mean upsetting your own mother on occasion. You can't take seriously any woman who claims to want 'nice' when it's convenient but then wants you to be Killmonger when danger lurks around the corner. Neither can you let a woman who probably won't even be in your life a year from now try and change you in any way. You are who you are and you do shyt for YOU. Obviously very few women will tell you this. There are some women on YouTube who spit that real shyt, but they are always in stable relationships with a man who knows himself and wouldn't let anyone push him around.

To be honest though, any man who still buys into that crap has himself to blame. We're nearly in 2020 so if you haven't got the memo by now that is totally on you.

There is a lot of variables that come in mind though.

First, if a dude is nice because that's who he is then he should remain nice. There is a difference between being a nice person and being someone who can't stand up for themselves or believes in boundaries and morals. A dude is losing if he changes how he acts for a female. For example, he believes he has to be an a$$hole to get a female when he's probably a good dude at heart. It's straight-up losing for a man to lower himself to that. Now if he's pretending to be a nice dude just to get laid it's a different type of story. Dudes will snap on their own grandmothers or best friend of ten years for leaving the lights on in the bathroom but will let a girl they just met break all the rules just so he can smash. That's the corny shyt right there.

As for some mothers punking and softening their sons, it's somewhat true but not all of the time. I mean shout out to moms because they're awesome but not all of them are innocent as the public tries to display them as. I grew up with a few dudes who's mothers were straight-up a$$holes that punked their sons in public for absolutely no reason. And of course, I knew what brehs was going through at home behind closed doors. The common factor was always the same for these moms though. They either hated the dad or he wasn't present at all so in some weird way they take it out on the children.

Another reason why moms soft dudes up at a young age is because they love them. There is never any ill-intent when it comes to this variable. They are the codependents in their sons' lives as they give advice on dealing with women. But that's when the father needs to be present more than ever. A mother's love is unconditional and a child always needs that father to hit them with a dose of reality when need be.

Everything can be solved if a breh has a strong male role model to teach him. This could be their fathers, step-fathers, uncles, older cousins and so on. And if they don't have dope male figures to follow then they should try to find a source through media. I listen to dudes like Dante Nero, Joe Rogan, Charlagmane Tha God, Lord Jamar, T.K. Kirkland, etc. A lot of them dabble in the same medium but all dudes with different personalities that have one thing in common. They are up there in age.

Respect your elders is a saying for a reason. A lot of them have wisdom that the youth could use. But in our culture, especially hip-hop, we look at you as trash once you hit a certain age. This leaves young men being softened up by their moms and their role models are 20-year-olds who never make it past 25. The result is brehs nowadays have women issues, discipline issues, common sense issues, morality issues, self-esteem issues, and a shyt ton of other things.

You hate to see it.