Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Jason B]

I agree it takes two to tango. Here, we criticize men for wifing up hoes as much as we mash on hoes for their behavior. We've called out kanye for wifeying kim kardashian, wiz khalifah for wrapping up amber rose, and it's no surprise that ice-t is finding out coco is disloyal. If some cat posted about how he wifeyed the neighborhood slut, he'd get clowned.

A very large portion of this thread deals with different ways of men stepping up and changing their gameplan on dealing with women, but then again, there comes a point where you can only step your game up so far and you come to a point where you realize it's not you but you find out that a lot of women in this society have problems that need to be addressed.

I'mma be real with you man. In this day and age, with a lot of women, it is actually unproductive to come across as a responsible guy. He's often looked upon as 'boring' and placed in the provider category while swag daddy who spends all his money on clothes, drinking, weed, and his car is out here impregnating these ladies. You will actually be PUNISHED by being too responsible in many cases. If it was only a few isolated examples of this happening, that would be one thing, but this is extremely common in this society.

It is not uncommon to see women impregnated by drug dealers, guys with no jobs and no desire to pursue a career, etc. When women are willingly choosing men of low standards to procreate with, they need to be just as actively addressed as these losers who are popping off inside of women and running away from their responsibilities.

That's why I don't ever advocate or teach 'player tactics', but instead choose to advocate respectful, long-term relationships, because THAT is what will eventually create a stable environment for the kid. Smashing a bunch of hoes you don't care for will only increase the likelihood of getting one of them pregnant and leaving the child in a single parent situation because the man can't stand the woman and vice-versa. But what is sad is that in this day and time, we've come to a point in society where if you're not smashing the female within a week of meeting her, you will be chastised for doing it wrong, and you will actually lose respect in the minds of a lot of women. And that's seriously a problem. Being respectful and waiting will get you tossed in the provider category while she will sleep with the next man on the side. If men are actively punished for being responsible and rewarded for being irresponsible, how do you think they will act? Unless they are uncommonly principled, they will engage in whatever behavior they are immediately rewarded for. This is why I commonly tout men to have righteous principles regardless of whether women reward them for it or not, because if they simply acted based upon what women rewarded them with, they would engage in a player lifestyle.

Now, I've read tons of self-help books to realize that most of them are utter nonsense. They pretty much advocate a 'positive mentality', and pretty much being a sunshine pumper. But if you really look at the most successful people... just take a look at football coaches for example... the sunshine pumpers, aka the ones who only talk about thinking positive and try to avoid criticizing their players are the ones whose teams are met with little success. The hard-nosed coaches who get on their players are the ones who actually have successful teams. Success doesn't come from sunshine pumping, speaking positive mantras and 'ignoring negativity.' It comes from having a realistic mentality, which involves not only painting a positive goal, but also directly dressing the problems at hand, which many in this day and age view as negativity or complaining. Success comes from continuously engaging in actions that lead to a desired outcome. A huge portion of that requires active instruction and criticism, which involves chastising one when they hold improper beliefs and engage in improper actions.

Speaking up on these issues is of the utmost importance. If no one ever spoke up about a lack of civil rights, we'd never have them. This is why speaking on these issues instead of being silent on them and 'manning up', aka silently dealing with the burdens of the issue without ever eliminating the issue in the first place won't do anything but exacerbate the problem. The real manning up is speaking on it and getting it corrected.

This post is undeniable.

 

[Jason B]

When you become successful, "boyfriend zone" is the new "friend zone"

in a way, bum ass nyggas have it easier than successful dudes when it comes to casual sex. women see the bums, realize they have nothing going for them, and have no interest in being in a relationship with them. but if they're horny they're quick to let them hit it, sometimes even on the first night, with no strings attached. there are even some cases when the bum ass nygga is the one who catches feelings while the women is like "I just used you for dyck", straight up flipping it on 'em

but when they meet a dude who has a lot going for him or is a "good catch" they hold off on the sex in an attempt to get him to wife her. obviously this is great for successful dudes who want to pursue meaningful relationships, but for a successful dude who just wants to hit its I guess the trick for the successful dudes is to adopt the mentality of the bum ass nygga. don't flaunt your accomplishments or showcase your positive attributes if you're just trying to hit it

most important part of that article though is the point the dude made about women being just as capable as men at having sex with someone that they don't even like. don't let women fool you with that "I'll only sleep with him if I feel like we have a real connection" bullshyt lol

The bold is quite scary because of the high likelihood for this type of dude to end up getting played for a chump/sucka and quite frankly, I absolutely DO NOT want to be in that position AT ALL, which gives me a great reason to be distrustful and suspicious of women AS A WHOLE.

 

[Wild self]

These are the dudes that get play. Not saying that you have to look like them, but you have to be more blunt n raw, especially in the dating scene filled with them muthafukkas.

 

[marcuz]

These are the dudes that get play. Not saying that you have to look like them, but you have to be more blunt n raw, especially in the dating scene filled with them muthafukkas.

nah, nikkas with pokemon tats and a noose around they neck aint getting play

im almost willing to bet anything he chases after white women. assuming he's into women

 

[Jason B]

These are the dudes that get play. Not saying that you have to look like them, but you have to be more blunt n raw, especially in the dating scene filled with them muthafukkas.

This dude has no pride or dignity about himself. A sad sight.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Women

 

[gameover82]

These are the dudes that get play. Not saying that you have to look like them, but you have to be more blunt n raw, especially in the dating scene filled with them muthafukkas.

this nikka

 

[sixsixtwo]

Girls night out?:

My wife [30] of over 6 years cheated on me [27] with multiple people over the course of 6+ months. What now? : relationships

 

[YBE]

When you become successful, "boyfriend zone" is the new "friend zone"

in a way, bum ass nyggas have it easier than successful dudes when it comes to casual sex. women see the bums, realize they have nothing going for them, and have no interest in being in a relationship with them. but if they're horny they're quick to let them hit it, sometimes even on the first night, with no strings attached. there are even some cases when the bum ass nygga is the one who catches feelings while the women is like "I just used you for dyck", straight up flipping it on 'em

but when they meet a dude who has a lot going for him or is a "good catch" they hold off on the sex in an attempt to get him to wife her. obviously this is great for successful dudes who want to pursue meaningful relationships, but for a successful dude who just wants to hit its I guess the trick for the successful dudes is to adopt the mentality of the bum ass nygga. don't flaunt your accomplishments or showcase your positive attributes if you're just trying to hit it

most important part of that article though is the point the dude made about women being just as capable as men at having sex with someone that they don't even like. don't let women fool you with that "I'll only sleep with him if I feel like we have a real connection" bullshyt lol

This shyt is sooooooooooooooooo true.

 

[Oye]

These are the dudes that get play. Not saying that you have to look like them, but you have to be more blunt n raw, especially in the dating scene filled with them muthafukkas.

What the hell don't people have any self respect anymore? Anytime I think of getting a tattoo I see something like that.

 

[MikelArteta]

it amazes me when dudes get cheated on they always bring up the what now, i really love her what should i do crap

shakes head

 

[CrossBones]

theres more simps out there than non simps. this is important to realize the big picture and whats really going on in todays society.






LOL at the double clutcher!

 

[2CT]

just holla at as much shorty end thread rite now

@ the thread going 250 more pages after this post

dude probably looks at his subs everyday like

 

[sfgiants]

Fellas, find yourself a traditional woman

A girl who will even get sad and offended when you dont want her to cook for you
A girl who will wash your dirty draws and offer to buy you underwear because you left a backup pair at home while staying over
A girl who feels the need to repent when she undermines or disrespects you
A girl who doesnt believe in promoscuity
A girl who has the utmost respect for her parents
A girl who will heed to your knowledge and advice
A girl who is willing to follow your lead
A girl who supports your aspirations etc etc

I aint even ego tripping brehs.

I finally took my girls virginity last night after about 11 weeks. In doing so, I could have her as my slave if I want to. But I will take the high road and treat this women with the divine respect that she deserves and reciprocates. The odds are against us, but you never know.

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these type of women went extinct in california years ago. i might have to gtfo and go to some middle of nowhere place like colorado if i ever wana wife somethin up

 

[kevm3]

Don't get mad, get better
When you're young in the game and ignorant, you will make a ton of mistakes. It can be easy to get to a point where you get angry and decide to allow negative emotions to consume you and to check you out of the game or to put you into a vindictive state of mind.

Instead, utilize that knowledge to make you sharper. It may seem you have to do a ton in this day and age to 'deal with women', but the more of this knowledge you have and apply, the better off you will be. When you hit this certain point, you will have accumulated so much knowledge and have brought yourself to such a point that you have numerous women just loving your presence. When you have come to this point, you are able to deal with women on YOUR terms.

I actually love the fact that the bar has been raised in some aspects. It makes me way sharper than I would have normally been. If it was easy, I'd be some wack dude when it came to things like dressing sharp. Why I love this is that I can easily carry this knowledge anywhere else in the world and have it reap huge benefits... especially where women are easy on the men and thus the men have little motive to really step it up. They might be dressed bummy all day while the woman sees me out here shining... sees me as a man she's never seen before. That right there makes her much easier to deal with.

Instead of getting angry at these women, step up your dress code, step into the gym, and just sharpen up all aspects of yourself. You will then get multiple women wanting to be with you and you are now able to choose and demand certain proper behavior from women or you will not allow them in your presence.