Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Just like bruddas]

goddamnyaman @Willstyles

if i can stop a young black man from being another statistic with proper guidance and be a positive role model then so be it. If our community had more men like the gentlemen in that pic, a lot of us wouldnt be making the private prison system make bank ever 5 mins

 

[marcuz]

if i can stop a young black man from being another statistic with proper guidance and be a positive role model then so be it. If our community had more men like the gentlemen in that pic, a lot of us wouldnt be making the private prison system make bank ever 5 mins

or if women knew how to pick them, there'd be no need for replacement dads

 

[Just like bruddas]

or if women knew how to pick them, there'd be no need for replacement dads

or maybe men should handle their responsibilities and stop abandoning their kids

 

[Jason B]

Gotta play around with her and not say shyt about yo intellectual life.

Gotcha. But do you think it would be best to avoid the sexual aspect at the beginning to prevent the possibility of coming across as being thirsty for sex? Especially since women like to accuse ALL men of being sex hounds when in reality, there are SOME men who fit this profile.

 

[marcuz]

or maybe men should handle their responsibilities and stop abandoning their kids

who is left with all the burden and responsibility?

your whole "take charge of your life" rhetoric falls right out the window when discussing women purposely sleepin with men who they know dont want to be fathers.

 

[Wild self]

Gotcha. But do you think it would be best to avoid the sexual aspect at the beginning to prevent the possibility of coming across as being thirsty for sex? Especially since women like to accuse ALL men of being sex hounds when in reality, there are SOME men who fit this profile.

Just joke on her and accuse her of the bad labels that women give to us. Like, playfully call her a pervert, a stalker, a freak, joke on her shoes, etc.

They will look at you differently than these simps and reluctantly give her your number. When you do, playfully accuse her of trying to blow up a phone,text you 1000 times a day, and so on. But once in a while, just give her props on her TRYING to put effort in, if she does.

 

[Just like bruddas]

who is left with all the burden and responsibility?

your whole "take charge of your life" rhetoric falls right out the window when discussing women purposely sleepin with men who they know dont want to be fathers.

let me get this straight, its only the woman's fault cause she's left with the burden? This is the shyt Im talking about with yall dudes, how you gonna shyt on the chick but not the man that ran up in the chick? Its a two way street, its takes two to tangle, abc 123 baby me and you girl etc.

Where is the responsibility of taking steps not to have kids out of wedlock? Both parties are to blame in this problem, dont just try to fukking slide this shyt on just her, regardless how you feel about women. What was stop the man from using a condom if he didnt wanna be a father?

 

[Jason B]

Just joke on her and accuse her of the bad labels that women give to us. Like, playfully call her a pervert, a stalker, a freak, joke on her shoes, etc.

They will look at you differently than these simps and reluctantly give her your number. When you do, playfully accuse her of trying to blow up a phone,text you 1000 times a day, and so on. But once in a while, just give her props on her TRYING to put effort in, if she does.

OK. Although I have always implemented light playfulness, maybe I should just turn up the ante with it a bit more.

 

[kevm3]

let me get this straight, its only the woman's fault cause she's left with the burden? This is the shyt Im talking about with yall dudes, how you gonna shyt on the chick but not the man that ran up in the chick? Its a two way street, its takes two to tangle, abc 123 baby me and you girl etc.

Where is the responsibility of taking steps not to have kids out of wedlock? Both parties are to blame in this problem, dont just try to fukking slide this shyt on just her, regardless how you feel about women. What was stop the man from using a condom if he didnt wanna be a father?

Didn't you just say in the other thread that it's the man's fault if he gets done bad by women because the signs are there and he needs to use better judgment to avoid these hoes? So why isn't the same measuring stick applied to women?

Not a single man in here that posts regularly will say a man shouldn't take care of his kids. That's punk behavior... but why aren't women held to standard in your eyes of avoiding men who show obvious signs of having no proclivity towards providing for his kid?

The negro is out here smoking weed every day, doesn't have a job, got numerous hoes on deck, but he got that swag and females spread their legs for him and are surprised when he ain't trying to shell out on her after she became his 5th baby momma?

 

[Captain Crunch]

as a man who's constantly labeled as "boyfriend material," this article was the absolute gospel

Telling Women You're NOT Boyfriend Material | Girls Chase

long, but worth the read

 

[Just like bruddas]

Didn't you just say in the other thread that it's the man's fault if he gets done bad by women because the signs are there and he needs to use better judgment to avoid these hoes? So why isn't the same measuring stick applied to women?

Not a single man in here that posts regularly will say a man shouldn't take care of his kids. That's punk behavior... but why aren't women held to standard in your eyes of avoiding men who show obvious signs of having no proclivity towards providing for his kid?

The negro is out here smoking weed every day, doesn't have a job, got numerous hoes on deck, but he got that swag and females spread their legs for him and are surprised when he ain't trying to shell out on her after she became his 5th baby momma?

Where did I say that it shouldnt? Never seen a post from me giving women a pass. Like what I said it takes two to tangle and we shouldnt place blame just on the women, you quoted me saying both parties fukked up. Once again where have you ever heard me say that women dont need to held by the same standards? If women were running around bytching and complaining about being a victim then you would see me with a thread about them too but its not its the fellas

Both parties are responsible and I dont think i can make this simpler then that

 

[kevm3]

Where did I say that it shouldnt? Never seen a post from me giving women a pass. Like what I said it takes two to tangle and we shouldnt place blame just on the women, you quoted me saying both parties fukked up. Once again where have you ever heard me say that women dont need to held by the same standards? If women were running around bytching and complaining about being a victim then you would see me with a thread about them too but its not its the fellas

Both parties are responsible and I dont think i can make this simpler then that

This is what you said in the other thread

especially when some of yall nikka's souls get destroyed over some of the most pettiest shyt. Seriously my kings get a grip, aint no women out here taking shyt from y'all unless you give it to them and in this cases ya manhood. Why do y'all cave into the fear of a female dominated world? Trust me its the same fight over there with the women and it shouldnt be like this. I based my relationships on my parent's so maybe this is why i cant c/s the shyt that come out y'all mouths. Then we have men c/sing ways to make women cry I mean something must be up if yall gotta make a chick cry to get a point across or to get her to back up off you. Thats your only way to get her to stop yelling at you


Yall letting women snatch ya manhood away when they not even trying too, these chicks got y'all making threads about them 24/7. Just look at yourselves for a sec, look at the threads and the post. All of these problems y'all having is cause you failed to act accordingly. How the fukk can you blame a hoe for being a hoe but not the nikka that didnt see it from the start? Yall need to learn to take responsibility for being where yall want to be. I will not front my soul was almost taken recently but then I realize it was my fault for passing up the opportunity to be happy and perhaps even engaged in a year or 2, but I didnt blame her, I took responsibility for that.



Instead of blaming women some of yall to stop and think about who really have the power to make yall happy. They only take what you give them

So in other words, a man needs to take full responsibility if he gets done bad by some shifty, sneaky broad and it's all on him for a lack of judgment, which I can agree with in many cases... but if a broad gets done wrong by some loser negro, 'it takes two to tango'. Most men posting in this thread will absolutely agree that the dude needs to 'man up and take care of his kids.' But in your mind, why does the loser negro need to change, but that ho doesn't need to stop hoing? That cheater to stop cheating? You blame the man 100% when he gets done bad, but split that blame 50/50 when it comes to the woman getting done bad. That's what we're getting on you for.

Better judgment is called for both the man and the woman, but we're going to slut shame and mash on moralless women just as much as we would these bum negroes who impregnate all these women but shift their responsibilities to others.

 

[Just like bruddas]

This is what you said in the other thread


So in other words, a man needs to take full responsibility if he gets done bad by some shifty, sneaky broad and it's all on him for a lack of judgment, which I can agree with in many cases... but if a broad gets done wrong by some loser negro, 'it takes two to tango'. Most men posting in this thread will absolutely agree that the dude needs to 'man up and take care of his kids.' But in your mind, why does the loser negro need to change, but that ho doesn't need to stop hoing? That cheater to stop cheating? You blame the man 100% when he gets done bad, but split that blame 50/50 when it comes to the woman getting done bad. That's what we're getting on you for.

Better judgment is called for both the man and the woman, but we're going to slut shame and mash on moralless women just as much as we would these bum negroes who impregnate all these women but shift their responsibilities to others.

But where is the post of me giving a pass to women for fukking up?

oh ok I think I found it! http://www.the-coli.com/2335683-post6628.html marcuz is calling me a flip flopper but he dapped the post

Honestly kev I thought you read enough of my post back on the hamster to know what type of poster I am. No one gets a pass and everyone get a turn. If we had women around here playing the victim then I would have made a thread about them, in fact I have made threads about it on the hamster but its not, its men thats doing the bytching and the moaning and not owning up to shyt. Countless of post saying oh its her fault for not seeing it coming, yeah it is I never said that it wasnt, but what about the man? He didnt wanna be a father, he should have wrapped up. She shouldnt hhad sex unprotected, regardless how you wanna look at it, both parties failed and are equally to blame, but only one side of the story is always told and is c/s the most on here



I have said it a million time it takes two tangle breh

 

[kevm3]

But where is the post of me giving a pass to women for fukking up?

oh ok I think I found it! http://www.the-coli.com/2335683-post6628.html marcuz is calling me a flip flopper but he dapped the post

Honestly kev I thought you read enough of my post back on the hamster to know what type of poster I am. No one gets a pass and everyone get a turn. If we had women around here playing the victim then I would have made a thread about them, in fact I have made threads about it on the hamster but its not, its men thats doing the bytching and the moaning and not owning up to shyt. Countless of post saying oh its her fault for not seeing it coming, yeah it is I never said that it wasnt, but what about the man? He didnt wanna be a father, he should have wrapped up. She should have had sex unprotected, regardless how you wanna look at it, both parties failed and are equally to blame, but only one side of the story is always told and is c/s the most on here



I have said it a million it takes two tangle breh and my

I agree it takes two to tango. Here, we criticize men for wifing up hoes as much as we mash on hoes for their behavior. We've called out kanye for wifeying kim kardashian, wiz khalifah for wrapping up amber rose, and it's no surprise that ice-t is finding out coco is disloyal. If some cat posted about how he wifeyed the neighborhood slut, he'd get clowned.

A very large portion of this thread deals with different ways of men stepping up and changing their gameplan on dealing with women, but then again, there comes a point where you can only step your game up so far and you come to a point where you realize it's not you but you find out that a lot of women in this society have problems that need to be addressed.

I'mma be real with you man. In this day and age, with a lot of women, it is actually unproductive to come across as a responsible guy. He's often looked upon as 'boring' and placed in the provider category while swag daddy who spends all his money on clothes, drinking, weed, and his car is out here impregnating these ladies. You will actually be PUNISHED by being too responsible in many cases. If it was only a few isolated examples of this happening, that would be one thing, but this is extremely common in this society.

It is not uncommon to see women impregnated by drug dealers, guys with no jobs and no desire to pursue a career, etc. When women are willingly choosing men of low standards to procreate with, they need to be just as actively addressed as these losers who are popping off inside of women and running away from their responsibilities.

That's why I don't ever advocate or teach 'player tactics', but instead choose to advocate respectful, long-term relationships, because THAT is what will eventually create a stable environment for the kid. Smashing a bunch of hoes you don't care for will only increase the likelihood of getting one of them pregnant and leaving the child in a single parent situation because the man can't stand the woman and vice-versa. But what is sad is that in this day and time, we've come to a point in society where if you're not smashing the female within a week of meeting her, you will be chastised for doing it wrong, and you will actually lose respect in the minds of a lot of women. And that's seriously a problem. Being respectful and waiting will get you tossed in the provider category while she will sleep with the next man on the side. If men are actively punished for being responsible and rewarded for being irresponsible, how do you think they will act? Unless they are uncommonly principled, they will engage in whatever behavior they are immediately rewarded for. This is why I commonly tout men to have righteous principles regardless of whether women reward them for it or not, because if they simply acted based upon what women rewarded them with, they would engage in a player lifestyle.

Now, I've read tons of self-help books to realize that most of them are utter nonsense. They pretty much advocate a 'positive mentality', and pretty much being a sunshine pumper. But if you really look at the most successful people... just take a look at football coaches for example... the sunshine pumpers, aka the ones who only talk about thinking positive and try to avoid criticizing their players are the ones whose teams are met with little success. The hard-nosed coaches who get on their players are the ones who actually have successful teams. Success doesn't come from sunshine pumping, speaking positive mantras and 'ignoring negativity.' It comes from having a realistic mentality, which involves not only painting a positive goal, but also directly dressing the problems at hand, which many in this day and age view as negativity or complaining. Success comes from continuously engaging in actions that lead to a desired outcome. A huge portion of that requires active instruction and criticism, which involves chastising one when they hold improper beliefs and engage in improper actions.

Speaking up on these issues is of the utmost importance. If no one ever spoke up about a lack of civil rights, we'd never have them. This is why speaking on these issues instead of being silent on them and 'manning up', aka silently dealing with the burdens of the issue without ever eliminating the issue in the first place won't do anything but exacerbate the problem. The real manning up is speaking on it and getting it corrected.

 

[Wild self]

I agree it takes two to tango. Here, we criticize men for wifing up hoes as much as we mash on hoes for their behavior. We've called out kanye for wifeying kim kardashian, wiz khalifah for wrapping up amber rose, and it's no surprise that ice-t is finding out coco is disloyal. If some cat posted about how he wifeyed the neighborhood slut, he'd get clowned.

A very large portion of this thread deals with different ways of men stepping up and changing their gameplan on dealing with women, but then again, there comes a point where you can only step your game up so far and you come to a point where you realize it's not you but you find out that a lot of women in this society have problems that need to be addressed.

I'mma be real with you man. In this day and age, with a lot of women, it is actually unproductive to come across as a responsible guy. He's often looked upon as 'boring' and placed in the provider category while swag daddy who spends all his money on clothes, drinking, weed, and his car is out here impregnating these ladies. You will actually be PUNISHED by being too responsible in many cases. If it was only a few isolated examples of this happening, that would be one thing, but this is extremely common in this society.

It is not uncommon to see women impregnated by drug dealers, guys with no jobs and no desire to pursue a career, etc. When women are willingly choosing men of low standards to procreate with, they need to be just as actively addressed as these losers who are popping off inside of women and running away from their responsibilities.

That's why I don't ever advocate or teach 'player tactics', but instead choose to advocate respectful, long-term relationships, because THAT is what will eventually create a stable environment for the kid. Smashing a bunch of hoes you don't care for will only increase the likelihood of getting one of them pregnant and leaving the child in a single parent situation because the man can't stand the woman and vice-versa. But what is sad is that in this day and time, we've come to a point in society where if you're not smashing the female within a week of meeting her, you will be chastised for doing it wrong, and you will actually lose respect in the minds of a lot of women. And that's seriously a problem. Being respectful and waiting will get you tossed in the provider category while she will sleep with the next man on the side. If men are actively punished for being responsible and rewarded for being irresponsible, how do you think they will act? Unless they are uncommonly principled, they will engage in whatever behavior they are immediately rewarded for. This is why I commonly tout men to have righteous principles regardless of whether women reward them for it or not, because if they simply acted based upon what women rewarded them with, they would engage in a player lifestyle.

Now, I've read tons of self-help books to realize that most of them are utter nonsense. They pretty much advocate a 'positive mentality', and pretty much being a sunshine pumper. But if you really look at the most successful people... just take a look at football coaches for example... the sunshine pumpers, aka the ones who only talk about thinking positive and try to avoid criticizing their players are the ones whose teams are met with little success. The hard-nosed coaches who get on their players are the ones who actually have successful teams. Success doesn't come from sunshine pumping, speaking positive mantras and 'ignoring negativity.' It comes from having a realistic mentality, which involves not only painting a positive goal, but also directly dressing the problems at hand, which many in this day and age view as negativity or complaining. Success comes from continuously engaging in actions that lead to a desired outcome. A huge portion of that requires active instruction and criticism, which involves chastising one when they hold improper beliefs and engage in improper actions.

Speaking up on these issues is of the utmost importance. If no one ever spoke up about a lack of civil rights, we'd never have them. This is why speaking on these issues instead of being silent on them and 'manning up', aka silently dealing with the burdens of the issue without ever eliminating the issue in the first place won't do anything but exacerbate the problem. The real manning up is speaking on it and getting it corrected.

to this post. One of many gems you drop. Being a "boring" guy will get you shytted on quick. Young females today been raised on music videos and the image of a player = God to them.

@ the bolded, cause people are quick to make ya mistakes into a joke and try their best to publicly embarrass you. Why you think that Worldstar is so big? Cause of people embarrassing one another for the world to see. We live in a society where people profit and get a kick off of others' pain.