LeVraiPapi
Redemption is Coming
Guide to How I get women. It will be more than one post, but I will keep a trail.
So my neggas, like I said before I go by a couple of set rules: emotional intelligence, body language, nonchalance, and confidence. Apply all 3 throughout anytime you talk to her or interact with her to keep her interested and wanting more.
Stage I--- Approaching women
There different ways to approach a woman. Those ways will depend on occasions and locations. First thing first, "emotional intelligence". This is key to tell you if she is in the mood to talk or not. It depends on the situation, occasion, and definitely location. Meeting a girl at the bar requires a different path than a girl at the mall, or a wedding, or a funeral. The path still leads to the same road. Get her to show interest in you and have her crack a little smile or take her out of the skin she is at the very moment. Once you achieve that, her number is yours. Now how do I approach and take them out of their skin? First off, I don't come over as a guy trynna talk to her. Let's say she's at the mall buying some clothes. You have been peeping her, but she does not know it. You follow her and cross her path once or twice with light eye contact, a quick nod and moving along. Then, you act like you actually minding your own business. This works well because it shows her you not simping or clingy to start. It shows intrigue and suspense. Those are 2 things women love. Then, you talk to yourself or look at something she is looking at and make a comment loud enough for her to hear. Something funny or something a little shocking to grab her attention. Once you grab their attention and they acknowledge you, that's your window. Move-in swiftly and act like actually involve her in your talk or convo. Then, she will realize you actually talking to her. Then introduce yourself. I always make a silly comment about my name or the situation. Something like "hey I m Levrai, vrai means real but not a real shopper by any means. You can tell by my struggles already" (in regards to the mall scenario, for example. Basically find something about you or the environment/situation to make a comment to open her up more. Then, I go at their names. I normally tell them their name is cute or unfamiliar or I don't know many people with a name like hers. Basically, another cool comment about her name or something she is buying or that involves her. You get to that point, her interests are already up. Then, make small talk, keep it broad and general. Then, go for something to make her feel comfortable or make her laugh a little. Don't ask for her number yet. Then, as you feel the convo is getting more fluid. Give it a 5-second break. A little silence in between. Then, I would go back to their name again and make it a light comment. Then, accentuate on their name or whatever you feel worked best and make the end of the convo about it. Then pull out your phone. I never ask "Can I have your number?" I just ask "how do you spell your name again?" Then, as they start spelling it, give them your phone and tell them to type in their name and number right then and there. Again, add some spices to it. Say it in a friendly joking manner. Something like "Man, I suck at spelling. Save me from butchering your name"
The other aspect I failed to mention up there is body posture, head movement, hand movement, raising your eyebrows, frowning, smiles and of course EYE CONTACT. Always make eye contact. Keep the smile to the corner of your mouth unless something is really funny when you just laugh. Know what your sexy look is, your confused look. Yall on the coli and know the perfect smilies for every occasion so that's good body language right there. You wanna send the message that you feeling her but you know you hot shyt. Look at her body language as well. Look for her playing with her hair, looking away, tilting her head right or left, standing with 1 foot in front of the other,or standing kinda crooked while swinging gently from side to side. Learn body language. I can post videos if yall want as well.
P.S.: I am not saying those methods are keys to it all. I am just sharing what works for me. Props to the dude that mentioned eye contact as well. Rep coming your way. HMU for questions.Part 2 coming tomorrow if this chick from the bar leaves me alone.
So my neggas, like I said before I go by a couple of set rules: emotional intelligence, body language, nonchalance, and confidence. Apply all 3 throughout anytime you talk to her or interact with her to keep her interested and wanting more.
Stage I--- Approaching women
There different ways to approach a woman. Those ways will depend on occasions and locations. First thing first, "emotional intelligence". This is key to tell you if she is in the mood to talk or not. It depends on the situation, occasion, and definitely location. Meeting a girl at the bar requires a different path than a girl at the mall, or a wedding, or a funeral. The path still leads to the same road. Get her to show interest in you and have her crack a little smile or take her out of the skin she is at the very moment. Once you achieve that, her number is yours. Now how do I approach and take them out of their skin? First off, I don't come over as a guy trynna talk to her. Let's say she's at the mall buying some clothes. You have been peeping her, but she does not know it. You follow her and cross her path once or twice with light eye contact, a quick nod and moving along. Then, you act like you actually minding your own business. This works well because it shows her you not simping or clingy to start. It shows intrigue and suspense. Those are 2 things women love. Then, you talk to yourself or look at something she is looking at and make a comment loud enough for her to hear. Something funny or something a little shocking to grab her attention. Once you grab their attention and they acknowledge you, that's your window. Move-in swiftly and act like actually involve her in your talk or convo. Then, she will realize you actually talking to her. Then introduce yourself. I always make a silly comment about my name or the situation. Something like "hey I m Levrai, vrai means real but not a real shopper by any means. You can tell by my struggles already" (in regards to the mall scenario, for example. Basically find something about you or the environment/situation to make a comment to open her up more. Then, I go at their names. I normally tell them their name is cute or unfamiliar or I don't know many people with a name like hers. Basically, another cool comment about her name or something she is buying or that involves her. You get to that point, her interests are already up. Then, make small talk, keep it broad and general. Then, go for something to make her feel comfortable or make her laugh a little. Don't ask for her number yet. Then, as you feel the convo is getting more fluid. Give it a 5-second break. A little silence in between. Then, I would go back to their name again and make it a light comment. Then, accentuate on their name or whatever you feel worked best and make the end of the convo about it. Then pull out your phone. I never ask "Can I have your number?" I just ask "how do you spell your name again?" Then, as they start spelling it, give them your phone and tell them to type in their name and number right then and there. Again, add some spices to it. Say it in a friendly joking manner. Something like "Man, I suck at spelling. Save me from butchering your name"
The other aspect I failed to mention up there is body posture, head movement, hand movement, raising your eyebrows, frowning, smiles and of course EYE CONTACT. Always make eye contact. Keep the smile to the corner of your mouth unless something is really funny when you just laugh. Know what your sexy look is, your confused look. Yall on the coli and know the perfect smilies for every occasion so that's good body language right there. You wanna send the message that you feeling her but you know you hot shyt. Look at her body language as well. Look for her playing with her hair, looking away, tilting her head right or left, standing with 1 foot in front of the other,or standing kinda crooked while swinging gently from side to side. Learn body language. I can post videos if yall want as well.
P.S.: I am not saying those methods are keys to it all. I am just sharing what works for me. Props to the dude that mentioned eye contact as well. Rep coming your way. HMU for questions.Part 2 coming tomorrow if this chick from the bar leaves me alone.
