Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sharp]

Having a family is a dream killer. Yes, I said it. As a man, you should always attempt to accomplish your personal dreams and individual goals before settling down, getting married and having a family. Because there's a very good chance that if you don't, then you never will. Some of yall have relationships as your goal. Nah, having a relationship as a goal should come well after you obtain a majority of your individual goals. Think about the things you wanna do. You wanna be a surgeon, lawyer, athlete, entertainer, politician, fashion designer, IT guru, wall street guy, whatever. These things require great focus, discipline and dedication. To be the best in anything you do requires this. Man, having a family will force you to make decisions that will compromise these things. Don't let people lie to you and tell you that you can balance them all, and that it's easier with a good woman by your side. No the heck it is not. It is easier when you have no one to be responsible for. You can take more risks to be successful because the only person that's impacted by your failures are you. I hear all the time people saying that they can't do the things they really want to do because they have a family to take care of. Sure, a woman can motivate you, but shyt gonna get real when your personal goals have consequences that can affect your family. Imagine your wife being ok with you quitting your stable job to start your music career. Not happening. Also, once you have family your goals change. Your goals now become "family" goals. You and your wife now have a joint agenda which is going to become a priority over any individual shyt you had going on. But this shouldn't be a problem if you've achieved your individual goals. That's next level goals right there. But you're going to feel resentment if you had to abandon your dream because your life situation changed. Living for someone else may sound romantic, but it's a really horrible feeling. So live for yourself before you invest into a relationship. Chase your dreams before you build a future with someone else.

#sophisticatedarrogance

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Having a family is a dream killer. Yes, I said it. As a man, you should always attempt to accomplish your personal dreams and individual goals before settling down, getting married and having a family. Because there's a very good chance that if you don't, then you never will. Some of yall have relationships as your goal. Nah, having a relationship as a goal should come well after you obtain a majority of your individual goals. Think about the things you wanna do. You wanna be a surgeon, lawyer, athlete, entertainer, politician, fashion designer, IT guru, wall street guy, whatever. These things require great focus, discipline and dedication. To be the best in anything you do requires this. Man, having a family will force you to make decisions that will compromise these things. Don't let people lie to you and tell you that you can balance them all, and that it's easier with a good woman by your side. No the heck it is not. It is easier when you have no one to be responsible for. You can take more risks to be successful because the only person that's impacted by your failures are you. I hear all the time people saying that they can't do the things they really want to do because they have a family to take care of. Sure, a woman can motivate you, but shyt gonna get real when your personal goals have consequences that can affect your family. Imagine your wife being ok with you quitting your stable job to start your music career. Not happening. Also, once you have family your goals change. Your goals now become "family" goals. You and your wife now have a joint agenda which is going to become a priority over any individual shyt you had going on. But this shouldn't be a problem if you've achieved your individual goals. That's next level goals right there. But you're going to feel resentment if you had to abandon your dream because your life situation changed. Living for someone else may sound romantic, but it's a really horrible feeling. So live for yourself before you invest into a relationship. Chase your dreams before you build a future with someone else.

#sophisticatedarrogance

Very true.

Allow me to make some amendments to an extent. My boy married into money. Now, dude has 4 stores from her fam loans. He even has a diversified portfolio at 32 worth close to a mil. I know many couples that do very well. Just dont be a captain trynna better a girl life. Make sure she ready and she got money. Her own money. Then 2 incomes make things easier. Also watch out for relationships with family. If she cool with her fam, you good. You can have kids and your in laws will be happy to watch the kids and let you have weekends off and even weeks off to go on vacay. So, all those will also free up daycare costs. Just dont marry into drama and financial instability. No matter how cute she is, the trouble will never be worth it.

 

[Marzupial]

@Sharp I also agree with you but just to do the same as @LeVraiPapi I gotta tell it kinda can work if you and the women have similar passions

A friend of a friend was just average amateur athlete, before he hooked with a nutritionist chick and in 2 years he became a professional and left his bummy job

 

[LeVraiPapi]

@Sharp I also agree with you but just to do the same as @LeVraiPapi I gotta tell it kinda can work if you and the women have similar passions

A friend of a friend was just average amateur athlete, before he hooked with a nutritionist chick and in 2 years he became a professional and left his bummy job

Exactly. Find somebody that lifts and completes you. Not somebody you gotta build. Build together. Dont build for them. I know a dude that cuffed a secretary chick. Cute face and nice body but dude working 4 to 6 days a week to support the family. Last year he was in the hospital for blood pressure. Meanwhile she became a housewife and conplains how hard it is for her to actually care for the house. He cant even jump on the Xbox because he has 3 kids, works to death and has a nagging wife who thinks she already doing too much.

This negga savings is minimal but they have a big van and a 5 bedroom house.

Thats all he has

Brutal stuff but thats why you dont bail em out. You build with them and not for them. Only exception is if she wants to build with you and working herself towards building with you.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

I will drop a guide on how I bag women. The first thing I would say is know "emotional intelligence" and body language. Thats the key to bagging any women. Get good at that and look them up. Read on them. Otherwise I will drop guides and yall can hit my PM or drop questions and scenarios in here. I will try my best to give my approach. I aint saying I am a mack but so far I havent been wrong about any of the girls I have approached the past months. I break ice like nothing and number is given out like no other. Its not that hard at all. However I had to learn a couple thi gs along the way.

Anyway. I will drop how I bag them

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Yo I think my chick is on the spectrum(autism) She's admitted to having anxiety, for the life of her cant understand how other people feel a certain way to shyt she does and loves fortnite and minecraft

Does she have poor social skills ? Anxiety? Whatever she has, work on it with her. You will dominate her no matter what you do. She willl see you as the missing link to a normal life and you win.

 

[CookisaCac]

Does she have poor social skills ? Anxiety? Whatever she has, work on it with her. You will dominate her no matter what you do. She willl see you as the missing link to a normal life and you win.

She has anxiety. I have been trying to work on it with her. She keeps "forgetting". Like setting up therapy sessions and shyt

 

[Marzupial]

She has anxiety. I have been trying to work on it with her. She keeps "forgetting". Like setting up therapy sessions and shyt

It looks like you love her but to keep it real If I was you I would avoid having kids with a female like that

 

[LeVraiPapi]

So, this ex who had a grip on the chick from the bar just hot a wake up call.

So the negga is still cool with her, and I told her to dead it a while back. She raised a fight and said she doesnt want him to be an enemy since they had some good monent together too. So what I did was taking her out and asked her to forgive me for trying to meddle into her relationship with her ex. Then she was like "okay, I apppreciate you coming around. Thanks for that"

So we sat down and we ate and had small talk. Now when I was dropping her off, I just walked her to the front door. She opened the door to let me in and I was like "Nah, you have a good night, miss" I extended my hand to shake hers. She stood there upset and confused. She was like "Seriously ? " I told her it was late and I just wanna go to bed now. Then, we talked next morning and I told her exactly why her ex kept hitting her up every week and sending her random emojis. Then, she went into justification mode. I just said "okay. You do as you want. You a grown woman. So, dont let a guy like me trynna tell you what to do"

Then, she came around and promised to set boundaries. She said she did lots of research and saw my point.

Fast forward to last night, the negga been hitting her up about business advice. So last night, he made the leap. Dude asked her "when can we have diner again? I can cook your fave meal. I still got your wine bottle here and nobody can drink out of it" So, she called me and said "you were right. That negga basically thinking he can have me anytime he wants. Can I put you on the line and you just mute us? I want you to hear it"

Me being me, I was like "nah. You shoukd fight your own battles. You dont need me. That sounds personal to you and I know you stilll wanna be friends with him" She was like "stop being petty. Let me end this negga cuz he thi k he slick.

She called him and she was like "so what was that text about ? I already told you we stay casual with boundaries. You wanna try that for what ? " she started going in and repeated some of the shyt I told her a while back. She went off on the negga to the point she was like " I done told you I got a dude and I am not into you anymore. Just move on and block me if you want. " negga was copping pleas and started backtracking like a mofo. She even told dude he had no game and she was only with him cuz she was lonely. Dude went off too and bossed up at the end. He even talked some shyt back to her.

Man I hung up and I texted her "let me know when you wanna actually do something productive"


Damn though, felt good to see how she was demolishing dude using the same words I said to her

She might move up to the top spot after that performance

Dude is a cocky ass dude too.

That negga alledgedly took money from her account to take a girl out

Then, again I still stay neutral cuz I m not gonna go bash mode on the guy since I always know there are 3 sides of every story.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

She has anxiety. I have been trying to work on it with her. She keeps "forgetting". Like setting up therapy sessions and shyt

It will take time but know and learn her trivgers and learn de-escalation techniques. How about you set up a reminder for her ? You like her that much? Then take charge

 

[semicko82]

coli bro
story part 2

i stop talking to her cuz she was still in with her bf
then 3 weeks later she broke up and ddnt tell me
we met again at the club , she was havin fun and alot of guy was tryin to holla at her , i just say hi and kept doin my thing
so she text me the next day tell me that she single now ,
we talked for about 10 min on the phone (about why she broke up)
i told her u still have to come to my place and she said she will

last week i met her a the club again , her her friends wer chillin with some guy who got money so they were drinkin champagne

she was kinda tipsy lil bit drunk, she left their table and came to grind on me

she told me "follow me outside", i followed but it was too crowded outside , we talked and her friends came and start saying "yall two shuld be together " she ddnt disagree but told me in my ear " if you free i will come to place tomorrow" and she left

next she too drunk so she culdnt come ,

now yesterday she texted me said tomorrow she definetly be there she even "i promise "


do y all think she like me ?
or want me to chase her ?
or just playing game ?


cuz i think she like me but maybe she got a roster or she just wanna play game


what y all think


EXCUSE MY ENGLISH , IM NATIVE FRENCH

@semicko82 @Youseenmywork @Balla
@Silkk @LeVraiPapi @Thurgood Thurston III @Playa_Wit_A_Passport
@skeetsinternal

Go cold turkey, and let her chase after you.

 

[ZoeGod]

Having a family is a dream killer. Yes, I said it. As a man, you should always attempt to accomplish your personal dreams and individual goals before settling down, getting married and having a family. Because there's a very good chance that if you don't, then you never will. Some of yall have relationships as your goal. Nah, having a relationship as a goal should come well after you obtain a majority of your individual goals. Think about the things you wanna do. You wanna be a surgeon, lawyer, athlete, entertainer, politician, fashion designer, IT guru, wall street guy, whatever. These things require great focus, discipline and dedication. To be the best in anything you do requires this. Man, having a family will force you to make decisions that will compromise these things. Don't let people lie to you and tell you that you can balance them all, and that it's easier with a good woman by your side. No the heck it is not. It is easier when you have no one to be responsible for. You can take more risks to be successful because the only person that's impacted by your failures are you. I hear all the time people saying that they can't do the things they really want to do because they have a family to take care of. Sure, a woman can motivate you, but shyt gonna get real when your personal goals have consequences that can affect your family. Imagine your wife being ok with you quitting your stable job to start your music career. Not happening. Also, once you have family your goals change. Your goals now become "family" goals. You and your wife now have a joint agenda which is going to become a priority over any individual shyt you had going on. But this shouldn't be a problem if you've achieved your individual goals. That's next level goals right there. But you're going to feel resentment if you had to abandon your dream because your life situation changed. Living for someone else may sound romantic, but it's a really horrible feeling. So live for yourself before you invest into a relationship. Chase your dreams before you build a future with someone else.

#sophisticatedarrogance

I agree with you overall however there is no absolutes. I know doctors who had a family in medical school and became successful doctors. Hell the doctorate level program I’m in right now there is a couple guys who had kids and they doing just fine. I think it depends on the type of woman you get. Just like @LeVraiPapi said if you have a baby with a woman who comes from a stable family who stable financially and mentally then things can get worked out. If you however make a chick who is poor pregnant while you are in nursing school then you are fukking up. So it depends. I have seen black, white and latino men had kids in this intense 4 your program and they doing fine. It’s just they made a family with a quality girl.

 

[Marzupial]

I was waiting on @LeVraiPapi post on how he bags them but fukk it why not share my way ??

Iam very good at eye contact, I can literally stare into any women eyes for large periods without being nervous (This actually makes me curious to see will happen when or if i ran up into a celebrity, of course nobody believes me when I say I could bag Beyoncé but I really feel I could)

Now in my experience strong eye contact is 80% of the game I need to get a women I cold approach

The rest 20% is just a matter of watching her reactions while iam talking and looking her in her eyes

If it's at night or in the club the talking is unnecessary if you feel it you can just advance for a kiss

The feeling of a chick you just met just letting you kiss for the 1st time it's just as good as a nut

In conclusion, I thank god everyday for the effects that eye contact have on women

Sometimes I feel like I have super powers

 

[Canon]

I was waiting on @LeVraiPapi post on how he bags them but fukk it why not share my way ??

Iam very good at eye contact, I can literally stare into any women eyes for large periods without being nervous (This actually makes me curious to see will happen when or if i ran up into a celebrity, of course nobody believes me when I say I could bag Beyoncé but I really feel I could)

Now in my experience strong eye contact is 80% of the game I need to get a women I cold approach

The rest 20% is just a matter of watching her reactions while iam talking and looking her in her eyes

If it's at night or in the club the talking is unnecessary if you feel it you can just advance for a kiss

The feeling of a chick you just met just letting you kiss for the 1st time it's just as good as a nut

In conclusion, I thank god everyday for the effects that eye contact have on women

Sometimes I feel like I have super powers

nice

post yours to @LeVraiPapi

 

[phcitywarrior]

Anyway. I will drop how I bag them

Drop away my friend.

EDIT: I'll drop some tips later today as well.