Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LeVraiPapi]

she finally came , we had a great time
we talked for hours (like getting to know each other) she even cooked for me

she did admit that she like me but look like she want to take it sloww cuz she used to see me with different girls

anyway she comin again next week

i wont lie, i feelin her too
shuld i take it slow or go faster

If she used to see you with other girls, then dont go fast. Make her feel different. Flirt with her more to warm her up and tease her. Dont show her tou wanna get in her pants too quick. Show self control, patience and some nonchalance here and there breh. Then, one day while she at your spot go for the kill after warming her up. Do you touch her face, arms, or hair? Start by touching her.

 

[bucks3115]

If she used to see you with other girls, then dont go fast. Make her feel different. Flirt with her more to warm her up and tease her. Dont show her tou wanna get in her pants too quick. Show self control, patience and some nonchalance here and there breh. Then, one day while she at your spot go for the kill after warming her up. Do you touch her face, arms, or hair? Start by touching her.

yea i did touch her face and her thigh
dats all , i ddnt want to show that i wanna get to her pants


thanks for the advice

 

[Koli_Kat]

Ummmm what's y'all go-to for a first date ? I get tried of doing drinks all the time. Hell I don't even like drinking .

 

[Silky Johnson]

Guide to How I get women. It will be more than one post, but I will keep a trail.

So my neggas, like I said before I go by a couple of set rules: emotional intelligence, body language, nonchalance, and confidence. Apply all 3 throughout anytime you talk to her or interact with her to keep her interested and wanting more.

Stage I--- Approaching women

There different ways to approach a woman. Those ways will depend on occasions and locations. First thing first, "emotional intelligence". This is key to tell you if she is in the mood to talk or not. It depends on the situation, occasion, and definitely location. Meeting a girl at the bar requires a different path than a girl at the mall, or a wedding, or a funeral. The path still leads to the same road. Get her to show interest in you and have her crack a little smile or take her out of the skin she is at the very moment. Once you achieve that, her number is yours. Now how do I approach and take them out of their skin? First off, I don't come over as a guy trynna talk to her. Let's say she's at the mall buying some clothes. You have been peeping her, but she does not know it. You follow her and cross her path once or twice with light eye contact, a quick nod and moving along. Then, you act like you actually minding your own business. This works well because it shows her you not simping or clingy to start. It shows intrigue and suspense. Those are 2 things women love.

Finally somebody in here that was raised right. I think you should expand more on how much practice this stage takes and how to overcome the obvious fear of rejection a lot these dudes have

 

[George Gooney]

Finally somebody in here that was raised right. I think you should expand more on how much practice this stage takes and how to overcome the obvious fear of rejection a lot these dudes have

Just say you want more tips and move on.

 

[Silky Johnson]

Just say you want more tips and move on.

I been married with kids for a dime, breh. I'm fishing in a different pond than yall

 

[George Gooney]

I been married with kids for a dime, breh. I'm fishing in a different pond than yall

Respect to you and your marriage breh. You just came off a lil condescending. Couldn't be me tho. #GMB is the army better yet the navy.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

Finally somebody in here that was raised right. I think you should expand more on how much practice this stage takes and how to overcome the obvious fear of rejection a lot these dudes have

The most time-consuming practice is how to have self-control and not show you thirsty. Body language is easy once you learn them. Once you do that, confidence reeks of your character. Once women see you are confident, then it is much easier to have a dialogue with them.

Don't ever feel rejected. If she says "not interested" or just flat out ignore you, then apologize and say you sorry to have disturbed her, and keep on acting like she did not even exist. Make a comment or two with somebody else and make sure she can hear or see you talking to somebody else. Even though she might have rejected you, you didn't have your ego and dignity on the floor for her to step on. More importantly, she did not see defeat and rejection in your face.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

I was waiting on @LeVraiPapi post on how he bags them but fukk it why not share my way ??

Iam very good at eye contact, I can literally stare into any women eyes for large periods without being nervous (This actually makes me curious to see will happen when or if i ran up into a celebrity, of course nobody believes me when I say I could bag Beyoncé but I really feel I could)

Now in my experience strong eye contact is 80% of the game I need to get a women I cold approach

The rest 20% is just a matter of watching her reactions while iam talking and looking her in her eyes

If it's at night or in the club the talking is unnecessary if you feel it you can just advance for a kiss

The feeling of a chick you just met just letting you kiss for the 1st time it's just as good as a nut

In conclusion, I thank god everyday for the effects that eye contact have on women

Sometimes I feel like I have super powers

Solid fukking advice bre

 

[Silky Johnson]

Respect to you and your marriage breh. You just came off a lil condescending. Couldn't be me tho. #GMB is the army better yet the navy.

Respect...

I'm an old bronx nukka...we always come off condescending, abrasive, arrogant and obnoxious

I'm not mad at #GMB but marriage is dope and #DadGang is the best thing to ever happen to ya boy. In the three stages of personal relationships, Interdependence is the hardest to achieve, yet most fulfilling. I want yall all level up

 

[George Gooney]

Respect...

I'm an old bronx nukka...we always come off condescending, abrasive, arrogant and obnoxious

I'm not mad at #GMB but marriage is dope and #DadGang is the best thing to ever happen to ya boy. In the three stages of personal relationships, Interdependence is the hardest to achieve, yet most fulfilling. I want yall all level up

ME TOO! Minus the old part. Which part of the BX?

 

[Silky Johnson]

ME TOO! Minus the old part. Which part of the BX?

Up far enough where I call everything below Fordham the south bronx

 

[John Reena]

I gotta disagree with asking chicks for they number. U give a chick YOUR number. U weed out who interested n who not.

 

[LeVraiPapi]

I gotta disagree with asking chicks for they number. U give a chick YOUR number. U weed out who interested n who not.

How about giving her your number and asking you to text you ?

So you font ask for their numbers at all ?

 

[DapMeUp!]

I gotta disagree with asking chicks for they number. U give a chick YOUR number. U weed out who interested n who not.

In principle this sounds like a good idea, but most women don't generally start out with super high interest, even if they are initially feeling you and give you their number.
It's usually a slow build, the number is the invite to build her interest.
She most likely has guys she is already talking to so a new guy isn't going to shoot to the top of her priority list.

I have only ever given my number when my phone has died, and rapport was already at a high level.
There are exceptions when a women is just sprung from the jump, but for me I like to be in control of my own destiny