Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

jadillac

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coli bro
story part 2

i stop talking to her cuz she was still in with her bf
then 3 weeks later she broke up and ddnt tell me
we met again at the club , she was havin fun and alot of guy was tryin to holla at her , i just say hi and kept doin my thing
so she text me the next day tell me that she single now ,
we talked for about 10 min on the phone (about why she broke up)
i told her u still have to come to my place and she said she will

last week i met her a the club again , her her friends wer chillin with some guy who got money so they were drinkin champagne

she was kinda tipsy lil bit drunk, she left their table and came to grind on me :wow:

she told me "follow me outside", i followed but it was too crowded outside , we talked and her friends came and start saying "yall two shuld be together " she ddnt disagree but told me in my ear " if you free i will come to place tomorrow" and she left

next she too drunk so she culdnt come ,

now yesterday she texted me said tomorrow she definetly be there she even "i promise "


do y all think she like me ?
or want me to chase her ?
or just playing game ?


cuz i think she like me but maybe she got a roster or she just wanna play game


what y all think :patrice:


EXCUSE MY ENGLISH , IM NATIVE FRENCH

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@skeetsinternal

You keep saying what "she's doing" .....but she's doing too much breh.

You dealing with too much already. Boyfriend, she blocks you quickly, then unblocks you, now she single, lotta dudes tryna holler, she says she coming and don't.

Cut that breh. If she wants you she'll circle back. And then if she flakes again tomorrow , cut it completely
 

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It all depends if she comes tomorrow, I have been in similar situation and the bytch did come

If she wasn't interested she would just stop contacting you

Also with all those presences at the club you think nikkas ain't smash yet?:patrice:

@bucks3115

maybe but no more than 1 cuz she usually leave with her group of friends , they stayed at the same hostel

plus if other nikkaz smashing that aint my business , i am tryna smash too :takedat:
 

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coli bro
story part 2

i stop talking to her cuz she was still in with her bf
then 3 weeks later she broke up and ddnt tell me
we met again at the club , she was havin fun and alot of guy was tryin to holla at her , i just say hi and kept doin my thing
so she text me the next day tell me that she single now ,
we talked for about 10 min on the phone (about why she broke up)
i told her u still have to come to my place and she said she will

last week i met her a the club again , her her friends wer chillin with some guy who got money so they were drinkin champagne

she was kinda tipsy lil bit drunk, she left their table and came to grind on me :wow:

she told me "follow me outside", i followed but it was too crowded outside , we talked and her friends came and start saying "yall two shuld be together " she ddnt disagree but told me in my ear " if you free i will come to place tomorrow" and she left

next she too drunk so she culdnt come ,

now yesterday she texted me said tomorrow she definetly be there she even "i promise "


do y all think she like me ?
or want me to chase her ?
or just playing game ?


cuz i think she like me but maybe she got a roster or she just wanna play game


what y all think :patrice:


EXCUSE MY ENGLISH , IM NATIVE FRENCH

@semicko82 @Youseenmywork @Balla
@Silkk @LeVraiPapi @Thurgood Thurston III @Playa_Wit_A_Passport
@skeetsinternal

If you just wanna smash, then play along and ask her what she wanna drink and if she wants you to pick up lunch. Play all along until you smash her a good 3-5 times, then taper off of her. She likes attention and she always at the club. She went there without you. So, you never know what would happen if she didn't run into you. Some other guy could have gotten lucky. She was talking to you while in a relationship. Red flag.

If you like her and want a relationship, then have her over and lead from the start. Even little things like telling her to wash her hands and compliment her. Then, you should smash and slow it down with her so you don't end up getting hurt. She seems like a fun girl who loves to have fun. Just be careful letting that girl have your heart and your time. Unless you cool with her doing her.
 

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Time for updates :shaq:

Chick from the bar

So, she says she not ready for me cuz I am way too strict and too controlling because she would hate to piss me off. Yes, I did get mad out of nowhere because you gotta show them early you in control and you can take them into roller coasters of emotions :mjlit:



Now, she just called outta nowhere to tell me her ex called asking for business advice and she wants my permission to talk to him and she wants me to say exactly what I want her to say to him. My answer was "So, you really over him huh? And you want me to be the fall guy? "

She got mad again saying I am getting impossible to deal with. I said "she should tell him whatever she would if I were not around" :yeshrug:

She is very careful about missed calls. She always apologizes that she missed the call then tell me why. :stopitslime:

I know there are 2 other neggas she talks to that are simping the hell out of her, and her ex texts her from time to time for advice. I always tell her "I don't pay your phone. You're an adult. You do as you want. " :yeshrug:

Don't ever play into their games. You would look even more foolish when she does what you tell her not to. Also, stay nonchalant as much as you can. She will appreciate that a lot more. Women hate making decisions for themselves because they fear the consequences. :yeshrug:


Met 2 other chicks:shaq:


One is a Guyanese freak with piercings everywhere :shaq: She was down last weekend but I had scheduled for this other joint already. SHould hit her up next week. She wanna come to my spot and have a good time :mjlit:


I have 2 more on the reserve roster that I keep as friends. One just told me her bf wanna fly her out to NYC for christmas. The other is just blend. CUte, but blend. Kinda look like Demetria Obilor. All about herself. Nothing of substance from her:francis:


I am really feeling the chick from the bar, but as a dirtbag I know I m gonna fukk her up and prbbaly make her hate me :francis:
 

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Yeah be prepared for the “somethings not right about him” or “idk about him or one of her sisters tryna fukk on the low.

Just keep the convo light
It’s funny you said that, she did say something about if she catch me with one particular sister of hers she would kill us both. She was joking but she said it more than once lol.

She got ten siblings :mjcry:
 
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Yo I think my chick is on the spectrum(autism) She's admitted to having anxiety, for the life of her cant understand how other people feel a certain way to shyt she does and loves fortnite and minecraft :mjlol:
 

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Yo I think my chick is on the spectrum(autism) She's admitted to having anxiety, for the life of her cant understand how other people feel a certain way to shyt she does and loves fortnite and minecraft :mjlol:
Thought you broke up with her?
 

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To me, nothing beats in person game. Always good to put a face to a name in person.

Just bagged this cute lil thing from Macy’s. Came down to the DMV for college. Chatted for about 4 mins, made a few jokes, told her we should catch up later and got the number.

Let’s see where this goes:ehh:
 
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