Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I know there's ways to approach without looking like that. The example he gave wasn't one of them. Running around a club dancing/hitting on chicks until one accepts you? :mjlol:
I don’t think he means it the way you’re thinking, but if he’s trying to talk to multiple chicks back to back that are close to each other, then yes, that doesn’t look good.

But if a girl sees you get rejected it’s not a big deal.
 

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I don’t think he means it the way you’re thinking, but if he’s trying to talk to multiple chicks back to back that are close to each other, then yes, that doesn’t look good.

But if a girl sees you get rejected it’s not a big deal.
He literally said it that way.
 

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He literally said it that way.
Lol I just read it, yeah, you don’t try to bag every girl in the room, but getting rejected by 3 is nothing, and you not looking thirsty if you approach more girls after that and you don’t have to leave the spot because 3 girls reject you.

There’s no man that never gets a few rejections, you might get lucky and find one quick, but it’s never that easy.

But that’s if you’re trying to get with a lot of chicks, if you not, then yeah there’s no point.
 
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Going out to the club solo was scary as fukk for me at first, but once I stepped in and got a lil alcohol in my system I was good to go though. Started doing this about two months ago. I mean I've struck out every time so far :mjlol:, but you'll get more comfortable each time you try it. The key while gaming solo is to also have fun. If you're really enjoying yourself out there then women will notice that and be attracted to that. I was so caught up in the numbers game that I forgot about that. I've stopped going since I felt like I was wasting money for the most part, but you'll ultimately notice that these women really don't care. They know nikkas be shooting their shots every day. We only live once fam, gotta take in these opportunities while we can. :damn:

I'm out here in DC by myself man. If I can do it, you can too.

hell yeah breh , i just be going for drinks and to bask in the ambience. If i see an open shot i wanna take , i'll take it . but im just having a good time , getting out comfort zone for the time being. i gives no fuccs if i leave without a # or a bytch, as long as I had a cool time :yeshrug:
 

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Dawg where I live (Toronto area) Arabs and most immigrants usually eat, live, and keep to themselves.

Maybe other races are forced to assimilate in the US?
Nah I wouldn’t say that they’re forced. They just want to get close to black American culture. Maybe the dynamic for blacks and other immigrants is different in Toronto? Idk breh. In the US(especially in NYC) the black man eats from a variety cultures and ethnicities :takedat: ain’t my breh @VertigoKnight from Canada? Breh y’all ain’t eating in Canada? :picard:
 

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If a woman isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest? I smashed and she’s cool but she is very accustomed to men literally doing ALL of the chasing, calling and texting. Too much work for all that
 
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If a woman isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest? I smashed and she’s cool but she is very accustomed to men literally doing ALL of the chasing, calling and texting. Too much work for all that
SOME chicks just got it in they head that they don't ever pursue. As long you can hit again don't worry about it. Do the bare minimum just to smash a couple more times then fall back all the way. If she don't start putting in some effort bush her.
 
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