Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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She’s 27I’m 26:francis:it comes to point where I dread getting dinner with her cuz I have to force a convo between us:scust: and whenever I confront her about it she always denies and says the same shyt “I don’t have anything to say...I’m just a quiet person”:gucci: bytch me 2:gucci: but I go above and beyond to make convo:gucci:

Might be bush time lol or test the water with other women
 

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Meanwhile some other girl at my job always have great convo with me:stopitslime: more better than my main chick:mjtf:

Your mental/happiness is #1

I’d say see what the other girls about over a drink. The one currently is probably bored & potentially has one foot out.
 

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Ive never had alot of success with tinder...but lately ive been getting #s....

Got this latina bytch...checks all the boxes....only negative is she has 2 kids
Lol.
 

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Your mental/happiness is #1

I’d say see what the other girls about over a drink. The one currently is probably bored & potentially has one foot out.
Why do we as men think this fukking way?

help this man the right way. And the right way isn’t going out for drinks with another woman. The right way is to help him bring out the conversation starting out his woman.
 

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Why do we as men think this fukking way?

help this man the right way. And the right way isn’t going out for drinks with another woman. The right way is to help him bring out the conversation starting out his woman.

This is the right way. She’s clearly bored and prolly has eyes elsewhere. What girl has been quiet around a guy they LOVE?

Sure you can “help” bring out the conversation in his woman, but you can’t force what’s not there.
 

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This is the right way. She’s clearly bored and prolly has eyes elsewhere. What girl has been quiet around a guy they really like?

Sure you can “help” bring out the conversation in his woman, but you can’t force what’s not there.
Do you think she’s bored, or are the women of today boring? How many threads in this thread alone that highlights that some/most women are not great conversation starters?

And your solution to women being boring is for him to go out for drinks with another woman? What are the chances are she’s not going to planning a revolution?
 

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Why do we as men think this fukking way?

help this man the right way. And the right way isn’t going out for drinks with another woman. The right way is to help him bring out the conversation starting out his woman.
Breh I’m doing everything I can:francis: I force convo too much:francis: I can’t take it anymore I’m putting so much effort in this relationship
 

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Breh I’m doing everything I can:francis: I force convo too much:francis: I can’t take it anymore I’m putting so much effort in this relationship
Don’t do it. Whatever these a$$holes are telling you, don’t listen.
 

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Breh I’m doing everything I can:francis: I force convo too much:francis: I can’t take it anymore I’m putting so much effort in this relationship

Jihoon wants you to be miserable. I’m just saying you’re at a young age & you don’t want your future to be like this. Always forcing conversations, the attitude, no one should have to deal with not wanting to come home because of that.

Just have a talk with her and see where her heads at, and if it things are aligning you may need to take some time apart.
 
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