yepIf she doesn't pick up or text back she wasn't interested
1st time i did this i told the chick to call me at a certain hour she didnt call at the time i told but she called a day later inviting me to go see her
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1st time i did this i told the chick to call me at a certain hour she didnt call at the time i told but she called a day later inviting me to go see her
CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
She probably had another nikka at that timeyep
1st time i did this i told the chick to call me at a certain hour she didnt call at the time i told but she called a day later inviting me to go see her
I got a girls number at work. Text her, she replied pretty basic and then stopped responding. I caught on quick and saw her at work. Was straight up with her and said "if you werent interested you could've said no when I asked for your number"
She said I was right
what made me mad was that she wasnt even bad. She was cute but she was a super geek, and I had a thang for that. So getting turned down by a nerdy girl had me salty for a bit. Maybe it was cause I was black? she was middle eastern but oh well. Rather take a L than not know at all. I tried
She probably had another nikka at that time
I got a girls number at work. Text her, she replied pretty basic and then stopped responding. I caught on quick and saw her at work. Was straight up with her and said "if you werent interested you could've said no when I asked for your number"
She said I was right
what made me mad was that she wasnt even bad. She was cute but she was a super geek, and I had a thang for that. So getting turned down by a nerdy girl had me salty for a bit. Maybe it was cause I was black? she was middle eastern but oh well. Rather take a L than not know at all. I tried
yeah this is why i like giving my number, alot of this woman are so scary they will give they number just cause they dont have the balls to say No or they just like the attention
CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
Thoughts on girls that watch porn?
VertigoKnight
Veteran
On the apps and in person I prefer to give a chick my number. Nothing lets you know quicker whether a chick is flaky or a timewaster.
Last four chicks I met up with, I told them. Great to chat and then left my number. Said to get in contact with me, all did. All got smashed.
Now obviously if she sees you as 'high value' it helps. Your mileage may vary depending on your own circumstances and attractiveness to her.
Also how you introduce yourself matters. A lot of guys are falling at the first hurdle, with corny approaches. I'm shocked when I hear how many guys can't conduct a normal conversation with women. (and yeah a lot of these broads out here are no better, but they don't have to make the effort mostly)
Last four chicks I met up with, I told them. Great to chat and then left my number. Said to get in contact with me, all did. All got smashed.
Now obviously if she sees you as 'high value' it helps. Your mileage may vary depending on your own circumstances and attractiveness to her.
Also how you introduce yourself matters. A lot of guys are falling at the first hurdle, with corny approaches. I'm shocked when I hear how many guys can't conduct a normal conversation with women. (and yeah a lot of these broads out here are no better, but they don't have to make the effort mostly)
CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
I always wanted to smash a YukiOn the apps and in person I prefer to give a chick my number. Nothing lets you know quicker whether a chick is flaky or a timewaster.
Last four chicks I met up with, I told them. Great to chat and then left my number. Said to get in contact with me, all did. All got smashed.
Now obviously if she sees you as 'high value' it helps. Your mileage may vary depending on your own circumstances and attractiveness to her.
Also how you introduce yourself matters. A lot of guys are falling at the first hurdle, with corny approaches. I'm shocked when I hear how many guys can't conduct a normal conversation with women. (and yeah a lot of these broads out here are no better, but they don't have to make the effort mostly)
JOHN.KOOL
Manchester United/Atletico Madrid
Thats because you nikkas are rookies. You fail to understand with women its not as simple as her being interested in you or not. Interest level with a woman vary on a scale with women depending on how you look first of all then your rapport with her, conversation and your level of game affects her interest level. Interest level can go down depending on your actions, but it can also go up and any action she takes is based on what her CURRENT interest level is
One thing i have noticed about alot of you nikkas here, you actually have no game what so ever and rely on the easy lay up whether its tactics on getting quick and easy matches on a dating app or giving your number out and having only girls who already have a certain high level of interest call you back. Trust if she is 50/50 or 60/40 not in your favour she isnt gonna call you. If she has plenty of other options with other nikkas she already has good rapport with she isnt gonna call you. A real nikka with game isnt sitting there thinking about i need to know if theres interest or not, hes gauging how much or how little interest there is and then gaming a strategy to raise that interest level. Girls with relatively low interest level will give out numbers and if you know what your doing you can raise her interest level, give that same girl your number and you will never ever hear from her. For me i avoid all easy lay ups, for me the best part is getting that girl who wasnt really bothered about you, all of a sudden sprung.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
I need to be up in this thread, ain't had p*ssy in a while. I didn't like bum ass Walmart, but there was always women there I could flirt with. I even had some liking me, could've smashed a lot of broads but I was still insecure.
Now I work in a small office of 8 and everybody is in they 50s except me, I'm 29. All I do is work, gym, then play video games at home.
I need to start cold approaching
Now I work in a small office of 8 and everybody is in they 50s except me, I'm 29. All I do is work, gym, then play video games at home.
I need to start cold approaching
CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
If you're a pro then that means you've been doing this a lot. So you're a professional at not being able to keep a girl around?
Silky Johnson
The Master Investbreh
They lack real ninja role models. A lot of hoe-ish, scared to fail ass nukkas out here.
What if she doesn't pick up when I call?
What if I give her my number and she doesn't call?
What if I she tells me no when I ask for the ass?
The OG's on the block gave us this one when we were coming up: If you asked out 10 girls today and 1 said "yes", why do you gaf about the other 9?
Expect the no's & celebrate the Yes's. The lack of confidence on the approach is what's killing yall. Remember that old kanye line, "ya girl don't like me? how long has she been gay?
Giving the number it's just a mentality of a nikka who knows he's the prize if she don't call cool that's plenty of woman
nikkas who value they time don't want to be doing all that chase shyt if you like that cool
Tariq nasheed tells dudes to give they number is he a rookie in the game too??
Why y'all talk so much non sense?
I don't get it
VertigoKnight
Veteran
I always wanted to smash a Yuki
Get your PAAG pass. She was heavenly. Meeting her again this week.
CookisaCac
I aint lyrical
in one day, if you asked out at least 3 girls in a row and they all said no you'd stop asking. but since this is thecoli go ahead and front. No one goes out with a mindset of im gonna ask 10 girls out today or just keep asking until 1 says yes. Not only is it a waste of time its desperate.The OG's on the block gave us this one when we were coming up: If you asked out 10 girls today and 1 said "yes", why do you gaf about the other 9?
You speaking the truth breh, but these mofos aint listening.
Silly mofos giving their number waiting for the call like
then going why hasn't she called me yet?What kind of feminine shyt is this?
Take the initiative, get that number and call/text her especially if she is giving signals.
I can tell be the responses there are whole lot of guys who are
when it comes to women. How the fukk are you in your 20s and still don't know what to do?
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Every chat we start with these women is low interest. Even if she finds you attractive initially looks wise.
We know their inboxes are getting battered or they getting approached constantly. I like to take them from low to high and leave that trail where they want to follow of their own volition. Without forcing things. Both approaches work leaving your number and ringing her but find what works for you personally.
The bigger problem most guys find is actually getting her to commit to an actual date. I'm good at getting the woman I want out for a date, very quickly where I can usually close proceedings.
We know their inboxes are getting battered or they getting approached constantly. I like to take them from low to high and leave that trail where they want to follow of their own volition. Without forcing things. Both approaches work leaving your number and ringing her but find what works for you personally.
The bigger problem most guys find is actually getting her to commit to an actual date. I'm good at getting the woman I want out for a date, very quickly where I can usually close proceedings.