Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mandarin Duck]

dont worry about how others might see you breh.

honestly ppl aint even paying attention to you like you think they are

i went out dolo saturday night. chick asked me who i was there and i said myself. she had the look. she said she could never be that brave.

do it breh. would i rather go out with my comrades? of course. but sometimes theyre not available. ive has some crazy adventures going out by myself.

its only weird and thirsty if you think it is.

I got some self-esteem issues I need to work on before I get there but I definitely will.

Aint no female just gunna magically appear at my place

 

[The Message]

I got some self-esteem issues I need to work on before I get there but I definitely will.

Aint no female just gunna magically appear at my place

don't worry about that. just go out and jump in the pool.

nobody reads the video game manual for a month and then plays the game. they start playing and figure it out as they go

 

[Mandarin Duck]

don't worry about that. just go out and jump in the pool.

nobody reads the video game manual for a month and then plays the game. they start playing and figure it out as they go

I do
I like planning and preparation with everything I do in life which is a part of why I'm so bad with women

 

[Marzupial]

I do
I like planning and preparation with everything I do in life which is a part of why I'm so bad with women

Are you a Capricorn ?

 

[calixprynce]

I do
I like planning and preparation with everything I do in life which is a part of why I'm so bad with women

Do you drink breh? If so take a couple shots before you go to loosen up. I’m in the same boat as you but you just gotta say fucc it , what’s the worst that can happen Go for 30 minutes and see how you feeling. You watch sports? Sit at the bar then strike a convo. Trust me breh, I know how u feeling.. I have 0 friends out here and don’t know anyone. That’s not really healthy in the long run .

 

[VertigoKnight]

I just lost a chick because I forgot her name. She got extremely mad at me when I asked her what her name was, that I had forgotten it



I see her at salsa dances every few weeks, I'm just bad with names

I put notes in my phone of chicks I meet about whose names I may forget.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I asked a chick I went out with a couple of times to be my side chick.

I've offered to help her in a situation a couple times and buy her lunch. She always said "no thanks love". She never really initiate conversation with me either. Whether via text or when we're around each other.

She had just broke up with her nikka.

bytch said, "I'll let you know by Monday "

6 hours later she texted, "I like you. But I just can't do it."

I still haven't smashed yet. Probably won't ever now.

First of all... LOL.

Second of all, what does any of this mean? How do y'all interpret this situation?

How should I proceed?

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I figured but at same time she threw all these signs my way yet took # never called .I don't believe the whole she could be shy introverted thing either

Don't give a girl your number, take hers.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Whats so bland with using a card? What works for me don't work for you.Obviously you never been in business conferences,seminars. Besides I'm not type to rely and be on my phone like that .Where do u see sexual tension between her and I? Just cause she was smiling and saying I look familiar?

That nikka @Marzupial actually gave you advice worth considering but you just got mad

 

[DJSmooth]

Solo?

I don't know how to strike up a random convo with folks without coming off thirsty.

Fun fact. A woman that don't like you will always find you "creepy" or "thirsty". A chick that's feeling you, it really don't matter what come out your mouth just make it sound good.

 

[CookisaCac]

Don't give a girl your number, take hers.

So you can hit her up and her not respond? I don't agree with that. Give her your number. If she wants to hit you up she'll do so.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

So you can hit her up and her not respond? I don't agree with that. Give her your number. If she wants to hit you up she'll do so.

No, 9 times out of 10 she won't hit you up and she might have been interested in you but your lack of initiative put her off. No girl is gonna chase you like that unless you have built up a high level of interest, a girl who is intrigued that would have given you her Humber will probably never call you.

It's also a weak move, look at you worried about her not picking up your call. If she doesn't pick up she doesn't pick up it don't mean anything.

 

[CookisaCac]

No, 9 times out of 10 she won't hit you up and she might have been interested in you but your lack of initiative put her off. No girl is gonna chase you like that unless you have built up a high level of interest, a girl who is intrigued that would have given you her Humber will probably never call you.

It's also a weak move, look at you worried about her not picking up your call. If she doesn't pick up she doesn't pick up it don't mean anything.

If she doesn't pick up or text back she wasn't interested

 

[Marzupial]

No, 9 times out of 10 she won't hit you up and she might have been interested in you but your lack of initiative put her off. No girl is gonna chase you like that unless you have built up a high level of interest, a girl who is intrigued that would have given you her Humber will probably never call you.

It's also a weak move, look at you worried about her not picking up your call. If she doesn't pick up she doesn't pick up it don't mean anything.

yeah i kinda disagree with this

in my opinion giving out the number makes things clearer if she calls you know 100% theres interest there, calling her is cool but you still dont know if theres interest or not

its just a amatter of do you have time to waste or not?

 

[Marzupial]

If she doesn't pick up or text back she wasn't interested

yep

1st time i did this i told the chick to call me at a certain hour she didnt call at the time i told but she called a day later inviting me to go see her