Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

How do u say no with out being disrespectful, this female I simped for in the past and put me in the friendzone. I have cut communication with her, but anytime we end up in the same club,she always approaches me and asks me to buy her drinks or when my boy hires V.I.P, she asks to come in there with her gals

How can I kindly decline without making me sound bitter or angry?

 

[Wild self]

How do u say no with out being disrespectful, this female I simped for in the past and put me in the friendzone. I have cut communication with her, but anytime we end up in the same club,she always approaches me and asks me to buy her drinks or when my boy hires V.I.P, she asks to come in there with her gals

How can I kindly decline without making me sound bitter or angry?

tell her to "I don't mind buying you a drink, but you gotta buy me a drink first"

If she gets mad, then you done yourself a great favor.

 

[Wild self]

man i remember when snoop dogg and p diddy were in a dress, cats were talking about they were just in a kilt... but now we're seeing the real agenda behind this. negroes are actually wearing dresses and cats will argue that there ain't a feminization agenda going on.

Kinda like how urban clothing retailers stopped selling baggy clothes back in 06 when it was still high demand for it, while replacing it with skinny jeans. There is an agenda to make men more feminized and look weak.

How many alpha males you see under 35 anymore in the media?

 

[sfgiants]

There is an agenda to make men more feminized and look weak.

 

[CASHAPP]

1) YOU need to be in the front and your woman behind you. Both physical and mentally.
One guy I can give props to is Ludacris. He has a fine woman, and if you notice, she's usually BEHIND him in these pictures.. You can tell he's the one in control in that relationship. He's also smart enough not to rush to put her on camera and observe that in just about every pic of them, she is indeed walking BEHIND him. The man needs to be in the FRONT. She quit her school to be with him, not the other way around. He allowed himself to be chased to an extent. Now do I have this misconception that she won't hit him with that whole child support/alimony hustle? Absolutely not. For now though, Luda is handling the situation as he should.

Stop 'upgrading' these women and stop dealing with attention whores and do NOT deal with a woman that does not allow you to lead, aka be in front. Here are some visual cues as to what I'm talking about:

You never hear about her and every time you see her, it's with him. You ever hear about Ladanian Thomlinson's wife? They have low-profile women and they aren't rushing to show them off on national television. At least on the surface they are playing the game right. If a woman isn't willing to let you be in the front, don't deal with her.

Now this is Joe Buddens and Tahiry

This fella is either on the side of her or behind her and is ALWAYS attention whoring, using him as a prop, showing off her booty... and throughout their whole relationship, Buddens empowered that behavior, putting her all on camera. You all know how this one turned out. Let me reiterate: Be in FRONT, be in control, avoid attention whores and do not deal with women that do not allow you to lead.

Another bumped post from the archives.....

Nothing to add. Kev is on point as usual.

But god damn Luda's woman............







carry on

 

[George Gooney]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar got any gems to know if a woman's lying about her sexual history? my cousin's girl has alot of male associates and friends always liking her facebook statuses and photos and all that. i'm pretty certain a good number of them hit it or tried but with no proof i can't really say anything...

 

[sixsixtwo]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar got any gems to know if a woman's lying about her sexual history? my cousin's girl has alot of male associates and friends always liking her facebook statuses and photos and all that. i'm pretty certain a good number of them hit it or tried but with no proof i can't really say anything...

Even though you didn't address this to me, check it out:

Unless you plan on marrying her, don't even worry about her notch count.. Women never tell the truth when it comes to sexual acts/# of partners, they always lie down on the # even in anonymous surveys.. Even broaching the subject will activate her ASD.. (Anti-slut defense.)

So unless you plan on walking the aisle with her, put it out your head.. Hit the puss until you/she loses interest & move on..

Always remember: it's not your p*ssy, just your turn..

 

[Scotch Hall]

And same thing with Kim Kardashian....

There is this chick in one of my classes on campus who i was talking to for a while earlier this year and I was getting really into her, then one day i forgot how it was brought up exactly.....but I remember somehow Kim Kardashian being brought up and she then starts to say "Oh I love her...."

So damn anticlimatic.

Ever since then I haven't been able to take her seriously especially since I was getting so into her at first.

You dodged a bullet, its almost required to do a background check on any girl we get involved with. Look up her twitter, or any account, they get really comfortable online.

 

[kevm3]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar got any gems to know if a woman's lying about her sexual history? my cousin's girl has alot of male associates and friends always liking her facebook statuses and photos and all that. i'm pretty certain a good number of them hit it or tried but with no proof i can't really say anything...

It's always a number higher than what she's telling you. You won't ever really know. What really matters is her attitude towards sex. How fast did you get it? If you got it first night or two, best believe a few dudes did.

 

[George Gooney]

Even though you didn't address this to me, check it out:

Unless you plan on marrying her, don't even worry about her notch count.. Women never tell the truth when it comes to sexual acts/# of partners, they always lie down on the # even in anonymous surveys.. Even broaching the subject will activate her ASD.. (Anti-slut defense.)

So unless you plan on walking the aisle with her, put it out your head.. Hit the puss until you/she loses interest & move on..

Always remember: it's not your p*ssy, just your turn..

those are wise words to live by breh... ima put my cousin on to this game... any more gems brehs.?

 

[Turbulent]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar got any gems to know if a woman's lying about her sexual history? my cousin's girl has alot of male associates and friends always liking her facebook statuses and photos and all that. i'm pretty certain a good number of them hit it or tried but with no proof i can't really say anything...

You'll never really know unless she bleeds the first time (and even now they have hymen reconstructive surgery)

Trust your gut and if you don't feel comfortable with what you feel, just let her go. questioning her won't give you anything cause she could lie.

but at the same time, you probably shouldn't worry about it too much. cause even if you learn she was only with 2 dudes before you, it'll still be too much and then you'll wonder what she did with them and it'll plague your mind. But at the same time i understand not wanting to wife the neighborhood smut...

 

[George Gooney]

It's always a number higher than what she's telling you. You won't ever really know. What really matters is her attitude towards sex. How fast did you get it? If you got it first night or two, best believe a few dudes did.

idk if he hit the first night but does that automatically disqualify her from serious relationship status?

 

[kevm3]

idk if he hit the first night but does that automatically disqualify her from serious relationship status?

it's a strong signal not to take her seriously. If all she had to know about him was that she liked how he looked to let him have it, how many other dudes passed that same criteria?

 

[Wild self]

Hypothesis: Women use their looks to evaluate a man's confidence, or lack of.

If she can de-stabilize a man with her looks alone, he's weak. Show her a man who can tell her to go to hell, especially if she's beautiful, and now she'll have her minimum proof he's "strong". Women's looks are just another test, or rather the first one that determines that fatal "you only need 2 seconds to make a lasting impression".

And when they pass you up guys, that is very telling - they are not really attracted to you. Do not take them back years later because what they claim to now feel for you will not be genuine. You are dull. You are not exciting. What business do you have making their lives more boring by being with them? Give them what they really want. Your non-presence.

Seriously. 1000% correct

 

[MikelArteta]

@kevm3 @His_Excellence_Reincar got any gems to know if a woman's lying about her sexual history? my cousin's girl has alot of male associates and friends always liking her facebook statuses and photos and all that. i'm pretty certain a good number of them hit it or tried but with no proof i can't really say anything...

It's always higher, only way you can somewhat tell does she have alot of guy friends?
How many relationships ? Say a chick is 27 and has had long term relationships less likely to have fwbs this lower partners

You can also pick up the vibe girls who give it up easily, girls who have slutty friends