Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do you guys think emasculated guys have anything to do with them having alot of daughters? And vice versa with masculine guys having sons. The increase of more women being born and the rise of emasculation is making me convinced.

It doesn't seem that you hear that much anymore about "new fathers" having multiple sons and if emasculated "coincidently" it seems to be more and more that every guy you hear about ends up having a daughter.

Yeah its obvious there is a 50/50 chance lol but I think there is something more.

Thats a good ?:ohhh:
 

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Yeah you hit the nail on the head. The worst thing you can do as a man is to expand a woman's options. When a woman believes she can obtain men of the same status or higher than you is when she will start peeling off. "Upgrading a female" will expand her options and give her more of an ability to deal with men, who are in her mind, on or better than your level. Unless she is just unbelievably moral, she will start having thoughts of peeling off.

Let's use Joe Buddens for an example. The guy is a somewhat famous rapper. He takes these chicks that nobody knows and then starts 'upgrading them.' They most likely act right and proper because he is in a status level above them. It's not until he puts them on web camera, gets their modelling career started, etc. This broad who went from local yokel, who got attention from local cats, is now getting global attention because Budden is expanding her options. With all of this newfound attention, she thinks she is just as fly, if not flyer than Budden and that he is now holding her back, even though he was the dude that made her. As we've discussed before, women always want a man that is above her. When you increase a woman's fame, dating options through your actions, you bring her closer to YOUR status, and thus, diminish yourself in her eyes. If you're going to upgrade a woman 1 level, she better have helped you upgrade yourself 2 levels.

A woman who believes she is punching above her league, aka she has a man she can't go out and get again in her mind, is the one that stays loyal. If she feels she can't pull a dude on your level again, why would she peel off? If you notice, the guys you never hear about having problems in their marriage like that don't have the super video model wives and they aren't trying to bring these women into the business either. They don't bring that woman into their 'career circle'.

The only way you upgrade a woman a level is if she upgrades you two levels and you really just want to reward her for staying down. Keep your woman in the background mane. The only time she should be rising is if you rise. You try putting a broad on your shoulders and have her standingtaller than you and she will stomp your head, jump on your noggin like Mario and land right into another man's ship.


and now ice t and coco. he brought her up. built her as his equal partner and to be at his side. showed her off. on world wide cameras said he loved her. now shes onto the next. probably wants her own show. with his money, his fame, now all hers. smh from video ho to reality tv ho.
 

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Just got back from my nephews birthday party and I felt weird while I was there. Every one of my friends that was there with the exception of 1 had a girl or kids and my mom was trying to hook me up with this girl who is a friend of the family. I don't get it either cause I've told her many times this girl isn't my type yet they constantly pester me to go out with her because she's had a crush on me since we were little. I don't feel compelled to get a girl or have kids right now but I did feel out of place at the party.


Also my brother in laws cousin is really looking good these days but she's so full of herself. If she was just a little more humble I'd talk to her beyond just hi and bye.
 

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Just got back from my nephews birthday party and I felt weird while I was there. Every one of my friends that was there with the exception of 1 had a girl or kids and my mom was trying to hook me up with this girl who is a friend of the family. I don't get it either cause I've told her many times this girl isn't my type yet they constantly pester me to go out with her because she's had a crush on me since we were little. I don't feel compelled to get a girl or have kids right now but I did feel out of place at the party.


Also my brother in laws cousin is really looking good these days but she's so full of herself. If she was just a little more humble I'd talk to her beyond just hi and bye.

man that's a shame when you see a fine girl that's feeling you, but there's that one thing off about her that ruins it... usually a personality related issue.
 

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man that's a shame when you see a fine girl that's feeling you, but there's that one thing off about her that ruins it... usually a personality related issue.



She's good looking and comes from a nice family maybe she'll change as she gets older (turning 24) but right now I couldn't see myself with her. The positive is that her older sister is the "wife" type and happily married
 

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talk about levels. the best thing a man can do for himself is acquire wealth. if u have money (i'm talking millions), u'll be on a status that cant be replaced.

any girl can threaten to leave your ass but she knows better. she'll be back very quickly. where's she gon find another dude with money? lol thats why i rarely feel sorry for women who get cheated on by their rich and famous husbands.
 

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@kevm3

what about beyonce and jay z

on paper they look fine. You never know what's goign on behind the scenes, but at least from the outside looking in, Beyonce is on a comparable level of wealth, so if they separate, she won't be breaking him in half financially.

He might shout her out, but he's not draped all over her. I'm sure they are both doing their thing on the side, but on paper, he's followed protocol and you haven't heard too many problems from the two.

To me, the most preferable ones is where you never hear of the wife, such as in the case of Denzel, Ladainian Thomlinson or some cats like that... where the wife isn't in the entertainment industry, you hardly ever see her except maybe to an award show and she just stays and handles business on the home front.
 
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talk about levels. the best thing a man can do for himself is acquire wealth. if u have money (i'm talking millions), u'll be on a status that cant be replaced.

any girl can threaten to leave your ass but she knows better. she'll be back very quickly. where's she gon find another dude with money? lol thats why i rarely feel sorry for women who get cheated on by their rich and famous husbands.

Kinda like that show Irv Gotti did. Irv was obviously a piece of shyt husband....his wife upstate, while he was in the city doing god knows what but, one episode he broke it down. "Where Deb gonna go after me? :yeshrug: She want a dude with M's (millions), and there's no dude thats rollin like that that's checkin for a single mother of 3, that's in her 30s :aicmon:



shyt was cold hearted but, I couldn't even feel for her. Deb put up with all of it, looking desperate as shyt on tv all because Irv was providing her a nice lifestyle :snoop: Like most women, instead of marrying a normal dude, making a modest living, she'd rather tame a rich playboy who clearly wasn't interested in slowing down :pachaha:
 

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Kinda like that show Irv Gotti did. Irv was obviously a piece of shyt husband....his wife upstate, while he was in the city doing god knows what but, one episode he broke it down. "Where Deb gonna go after me? :yeshrug: She want a dude with M's (millions), and there's no dude thats rollin like that that's checkin for a single mother of 3, that's in her 30s :aicmon:



shyt was cold hearted but, I couldn't even feel for her. Deb put up with all of it, looking desperate as shyt on tv all because Irv was providing her a nice lifestyle :snoop: Like most women, instead of marrying a normal dude, making a modest living, she'd rather tame a rich playboy who clearly wasn't interested in slowing down :pachaha:

:damn:
 

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Kinda like that show Irv Gotti did. Irv was obviously a piece of shyt husband....his wife upstate, while he was in the city doing god knows what but, one episode he broke it down. "Where Deb gonna go after me? :yeshrug: She want a dude with M's (millions), and there's no dude thats rollin like that that's checkin for a single mother of 3, that's in her 30s :aicmon:



shyt was cold hearted but, I couldn't even feel for her. Deb put up with all of it, looking desperate as shyt on tv all because Irv was providing her a nice lifestyle :snoop: Like most women, instead of marrying a normal dude, making a modest living, she'd rather tame a rich playboy who clearly wasn't interested in slowing down :pachaha:
it aint even about him slowing down. why slow down when u know if u weren't in the position u were in ur wife probably woulda been running circles on ur ass. irv probably never got much love from the ladies until he got rich. so he's smart enough to do what he wants to do and not worry about how his wife feels. as long as he's not rubbing it in her face and making it obvious.
 

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it aint even about him slowing down. why slow down when u know if u weren't in the position u were in ur wife probably woulda been running circles on ur ass. irv probably never got much love from the ladies until he got rich. so he's smart enough to do what he wants to do and not worry about how his wife feels. as long as he's not rubbing it in her face and making it obvious.

I aint mad at him :youngsabo:

I wouldn't have gotten married tho. If you got options on top of options and you know you gonna indulge in every single one, why have a wife? :skip:
 
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