Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Heading home from a date. I started talking to this girl the same day that we went out. Had drinks and everything was cool. She was into me and laughing at my jokes. Didn't let me kiss her though. I think it was a religious thing (profile said Christian).
 

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I need some advice fellas. I don't usually tell my business like that on the internet but maybe y'all could help me. I've been talking to a chick for a few months now and I guess all couples have their issues but the thing is yesterday (Saturday) we got into this long conversation all because I told her that her and her mom should try to strengthen their relationship. She says she felt growing up her mom abandoned her and now they reached a point where they are like sisters and work together to raise her siblings since she is the oldest daughter but as of recent her mom wants to fix things. I always try to convince her to give her mom a chance but today she went off asking me if I'm trying to change her or if I don't trust her "own" judgement about her "own" life. This is after we had a conversation Friday night about it where I tried to convince her to fix things with her mom and she felt I needed to fix the issues I have with my younger sister since I'm the older one which comes off a little hypocritical.

It's weird because she has a less then ideal relationship with her mom but is great with her siblings and I have a great relationship with my mom but a bad relationship with my sister.

With that said what do y'all think about this? Did I handle it wrong? Sometimes I think she is too stubborn and this relationship may not workout. I care about her but every week or other week it's something it seems.
 

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I need some advice fellas. I don't usually tell my business like that on the internet but maybe y'all could help me. I've been talking to a chick for a few months now and I guess all couples have their issues but the thing is yesterday (Saturday) we got into this long conversation all because I told her that her and her mom should try to strengthen their relationship. She says she felt growing up her mom abandoned her and now they reached a point where they are like sisters and work together to raise her siblings since she is the oldest daughter but as of recent her mom wants to fix things. I always try to convince her to give her mom a chance but today she went off asking me if I'm trying to change her or if I don't trust her "own" judgement about her "own" life. This is after we had a conversation Friday night about it where I tried to convince her to fix things with her mom and she felt I needed to fix the issues I have with my younger sister since I'm the older one which comes off a little hypocritical.

It's weird because she has a less then ideal relationship with her mom but is great with her siblings and I have a great relationship with my mom but a bad relationship with my sister.

With that said what do y'all think about this? Did I handle it wrong? Sometimes I think she is too stubborn and this relationship may not workout. I care about her but every week or other week it's something it seems.

U gave advice now just leave it alone unless she ask again
And it is hypocritical if u giving advice but cant take ur own advice goes both ways
Sometimes there are things u cant help with u just fall back and it let it run its course
Dont bring it up again unless she chooses too imo
 

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Matched with a girl on tinder who has the best t*ts I've ever seen so you know I'm thirsting, we move the chat over to whatsapp but problem is I'm still playing the nice guy simp shyt cause I'm too scared to reveal my true scumbag self :mjlit:now it feels like I'm stuck in limbo where I need to commit to this shtick :mjcry: that's why I like matching with the slightly uglier chicks, they're so grateful for the attention that it's an easy smash and you dont gotta be second guessing every damn move you make :shaq2:

Dont be fake with these females be u and if they dont like they werent worth ur time simple as that
fukk I look like trying to work hard to get at a female being something I ain't
 

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Just came from a date with the chick I met at the bar. A+ body. She went out with some guy to check out condos for sale. So I set clear rules that was the last time she pulled that shyt. She apologized and she said she didnt think anything of it. Mind you she spent 4 to 6 hours with the negga. So, to me she is alreafy a goner but I'm gonna keep doing what I do. If she thinks I believe her for one second too, shes a damn fool. She knew cuz she said she knew I didnt believe her. I tokd her straight up. "I can care less. Your body is yours. You dont need to lie to me. Wherlther you out with a guy you like or not thats on you. I'm not gonna be sitting here wondering if you being real or not."

That wont stop her from lying and doing that shyt anyway. Tonight, I got dome from her for the first time. Thats how its gonna be from now on. I'm gonna call and ask her what she up to. That's it.

I am way too petty and too skeptical to have a girl take me on a fool run.
 

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:whoa: Are you actually muslim tho breh? muslim girls very rarely even talk to non muslim brehs.

Its really an app for women who are looking to get married. But of course women can't fight that female nature when they're alone in a room with a man who gives them those tingles. :mjlit:
Minder :russ: I just hopped on
 

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I need some advice fellas. I don't usually tell my business like that on the internet but maybe y'all could help me. I've been talking to a chick for a few months now and I guess all couples have their issues but the thing is yesterday (Saturday) we got into this long conversation all because I told her that her and her mom should try to strengthen their relationship. She says she felt growing up her mom abandoned her and now they reached a point where they are like sisters and work together to raise her siblings since she is the oldest daughter but as of recent her mom wants to fix things. I always try to convince her to give her mom a chance but today she went off asking me if I'm trying to change her or if I don't trust her "own" judgement about her "own" life. This is after we had a conversation Friday night about it where I tried to convince her to fix things with her mom and she felt I needed to fix the issues I have with my younger sister since I'm the older one which comes off a little hypocritical.

It's weird because she has a less then ideal relationship with her mom but is great with her siblings and I have a great relationship with my mom but a bad relationship with my sister.

With that said what do y'all think about this? Did I handle it wrong? Sometimes I think she is too stubborn and this relationship may not workout. I care about her but every week or other week it's something it seems.

man you told her what it is and she tried to flip it on you. Women never want to change. Just blame shyt on you.
 

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You have to move quick with these females. And set the tone for your Interactions from the start. So you dont fall into the trap of being another simp messaging her.

Match, chat, ask when she's free to meet.And depending on her answer move to confirm a meet.

THIS.
 

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Last night I went out again and pulled another girl at the bar. Before that I was talking to another girl and her friend got mad that I paid no attention to her. She cut in between me and the girl said some bullshyt like “my friend had back surgery can you stop leaning on her” ( knowing damn well I was there first and her friend came up to the bar to get a drink) I told her why is she being aggressive, she need to chill out. She got even more mad so I ignore her an went back to talk to the girl I pulled. I turn around some dude and his short friend come up to me asking me “aye I hear you out here fighting chicks” I said to him is that “what that girl told you :mjlol:“ As we talking the girl that started this bs come up to me getting all emotional. Telling me I should apologize to her. I said to her “I’m not going to apologize to you. I don’t apologize to women. :ehh:“ (like I did something wrong in the first place) The dude that pulled up on me said “dude you gonna apologize to her and if you don’t there gonna be some issue :martin:“ I’m looking at dude posted up like “this clown and his friends gonna fight me over a chick that is sexually frustrated. Simping ain’t easy :pachaha:“ dude was getting emotional just like his girl so I said “I don’t need to explain shyt to you and your girl.” I turned right around and went back to talking to the girl. Dude was angry but didn’t do shyt. If he was about that life he would have punched me in the face and as I was talking to him I was looking around to see if anyone was gonna sucker punch me but nothing happen and the bouncer broke it up. I ain’t gonna argue with dudes. That what women do. Anyway, I pulled this girl by getting straight to the point, feeling her etc. she wasn’t good at giving head but everything else was alright. Also doggy style is a position I’m not good at. :beli:

I can't stand these fakkit simp clowns. Always some lame dude letting himself get gassed up and putting on the cape to defend the "honor" of some chick they don't even know just to show off and impress. That wolf ticket seller made himself look stupid because he didn't even follow through with his bullshyt threats.
 

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I can't stand these fakkit simp clowns. Always some lame dude letting himself get gassed up and putting on the cape to defend the "honor" of some chick they don't even know just to show off and impress. That wolf ticket seller made himself look stupid because he didn't even follow through with his bullshyt threats.

This. The girl I was talking to her friends peep game. Her friend said he wasn’t gonna do shyt. She said that If he was about it he would have stuck me in the face or do something. She knew he was soft. Dude was scared and his clown ass friends were scared too. I would have have thrown hands with him if he put his hands on me but I’m logical so I’m not gonna fight some simp just to get kicked out of a bar I go to all the time. I don’t look for fights but I been in many situations where simps try to fight me cause I told their queen (girlfriends) to fukk off cause I’m ain’t gonna submit to them. You know how rude chicks act in clubs/bars. :francis:
 

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:whoa: Are you actually muslim tho breh? muslim girls very rarely even talk to non muslim brehs.

Its really an app for women who are looking to get married. But of course women can't fight that female nature when they're alone in a room with a man who gives them those tingles. :mjlit:

False, they are girls just like any other brehs
 
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