Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Two questions
If you always been interested in her why wait to shoot your shot?

You think it's wise getting involved with a co worker?

1) i never said i was interested in her. I just said i be talking to her a lil when i come in.

2) and shyt aint nobody gotta know nttn. We work different shifts and we are only seen at the same time between shifts and thats like only 2mins. Plus when i arrive there's nobody around but me and her

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

bytches turn into entirely different people after them first 3 months


I don’t even like this bytch as a human being no more

12 weeks bruh, whenever people meet you for the first time they are on their best behaviour conscious about things that may reflect bad in them but people can only keep that up for 12 weeks before the first signs of the traits they don't want you to see start creeping through

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Broke up with my (ex) girl because as time went on in the relationship, she became more busy, sleeping all the time etc. Just out right being lazy. So I chalked it up to the game that she was most likely playing me and isnt really into me anymore.

So I ended it and she did NOT take it well. Started saying I never gave her a chance to change, she has depression, any excuse in the book...but in reality I did give her a chance cause I warned her a month ago. I also told her id pay for therapy for her depression or anything she needed to help. She would never do it though. It's like she legit doesn't understand how she was in the wrong and why I wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Kinda worried about her but on the other end im glad im done with her. Like she really is an idiot. I want her to take an I.Q test.

Like I have said before claiming depression is the new trendy way to claim you going through shyt in life. fukk all the depression talk, people just unhappy for whatever reason and start talking about I'm going through depression.

 

[semicko82]

1) i never said i was interested in her. I just said i be talking to her a lil when i come in.

2) and shyt aint nobody gotta know nttn. We work different shifts and we are only seen at the same time between shifts and thats like only 2mins. Plus when i arrive there's nobody around but me and her

Why shoot your shot if you're not interested

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

You're projecting, breh. Why so negative towards her? It sounds like she just wanted to eat lunch with you.

You just lost her, breh

Your right and wrong, @jadillac is projecting, it sounds like she could have just wanted to go in lunch with him and when he couldn't come she didn't want to go out on her own, she probably just wanted his company

But your wrong in saying he has lost her, he definitely hasn't lost her. He didn't reply because he probably didn't feel like going and that's perfectly fine, I don't know why guys think they have to jump at every opportunity or its over that isn't true, the amount of girls I've curved and held off doing stuff with them just cause I wasn't quite feeling it and the vast majority of them just tried harder and harder. That non-chalant take it or leave attitude when it's genuine is one of the best tools a man can employ,

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Next time ask her if she's cool with paying since she asked.

And if she is wait till after she pays then pay her back. Tell her you were just seeing if she was really bout you.

Then you wont have to worry about her "wanting" something from you.

Awful advice.

@jadillac nikka oi you want to know if she wants to spend time with you or just wants you to spend money on her then simply suggest something that doesn't involve spending money simple, it isn't rocket science people. Asking her if she's cool with paying is awful advice. Ask her instead of going out does she want to just come over, chill and eat at home. Ask her if she wants to go to a really nice park you know of or walk by a river or lake etc, if she wants to spend time with you and it's not about money she will say yes to these suggestions.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I was browsing Tinder earlier, and I see this Asian ting I know on there. Whose off-limits to mess with, as I do work with her.

The thing is she currently has a BF. She must be looking to move on. Sucks for him. Met the guy, nice but very timid and apparently she's his second-ever GF. His previous one 'turned' asexual and he went along with it.

Fam she may not even be looking to move on particularly, people these days just always think the grass is greener. They will always be looking for something better because social media makes it so easy

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I'm sure everyone who has ever fukked a work colleague has had this sentiment, even myself

If you see the person everyday and continue to fukk like every week, someone will eventually catch feelings. It's never as simple as act like it never happened after that believe me.

As far as I've read your only in the beginning cycle so of course everything is fine. Let me know how that develops in a few weeks.

My nikka was fukking a co-worker of his, I warned him of the potential stickiness of the situation, so did another boy of ours who also worked at the same place as him. Bare in mind him and this chick were apparently on the same page that it wasn't anything serious, they just messing around with each other.

Anyway a few months down the line a new girl starts working there and my boy starts talking to her. Cue the work Christmas party, my boy talking to the new ting, the other girl who he was fukking before with the agreement it is nothing serious ending up getting drunk and start wilding out on a mad one at the work Christmas party, Infront of everyone crying and everything, no one at work even knew they were fukking apart from our other boy up until that moment. He then had to take her home cause she was crying her eyes out and all his work colleagues were like come man calm her down take her home etc. In the process she cockblocked him with the new chick. Just a cautionary tale for some nikkas.

Btw we clowned this nikka for MONTHS loool

 

[SATAN]

My nikka was fukking a co-worker of his, I warned him of the potential stickiness of the situation, so did another boy of ours who also worked at the same place as him. Bare in mind him and this chick were apparently on the same page that it wasn't anything serious, they just messing around with each other.

Anyway a few months down the line a new girl starts working there and my boy starts talking to her. Cue the work Christmas party, my boy talking to the new ting, the other girl who he was fukking before with the agreement it is nothing serious ending up getting drunk and start wilding out on a mad one at the work Christmas party, Infront of everyone crying and everything, no one at work even knew they were fukking apart from our other boy up until that moment. He then had to take her home cause she was crying her eyes out and all his work colleagues were like come man calm her down take her home etc. In the process she cockblocked him with the new chick. Just a cautionary tale for some nikkas.

Btw we clowned this nikka for MONTHS loool

That's his fault, the dumbfukk went to one of those work Christmas parties.

Co-workers + alcohol is a WOAT situation.

Never EVER go to a work Christmas party

 

[CookisaCac]

Awful advice.

@jadillac nikka oi you want to know if she wants to spend time with you or just wants you to spend money on her then simply suggest something that doesn't involve spending money simple, it isn't rocket science people. Asking her if she's cool with paying is awful advice. Ask her instead of going out does she want to just come over, chill and eat at home. Ask her if she wants to go to a really nice park you know of or walk by a river or lake etc, if she wants to spend time with you and it's not about money she will say yes to these suggestions.

How many times is a girl going to want to walk at the park with you before wanting to do something that requires spending money? And if you keep trying to Netflix and chill her she gonna think you just wanna smash.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

That's his fault, the dumbfukk went to one of those work Christmas parties.

Co-workers + alcohol is a WOAT situation.

Never EVER go to a work Christmas party

Yo he went cause he was plotting on the new girl lool thats why it was so funny and we was clowning him for months. The weeks leading up to it he was talking about that's when hes gonna put it on her, get drinks flowing etc and then at the end of the night take her home but the other girl fukked it all up looool

 

[Babymama Magnet]

When you need a good reason to leave your gf and one just presents itself straight at you

So my gf lowkey told on herself that she's been cheating when she was looking through her period cycle on her flo chart app and goes into the days she's had sex this month.

Looking at the chart with her i see she recorded we had sex last friday (which is represented as a heart on the calender)... What her dumbass also recorded on the calender was that she had sex on the Monday and Tuesday.

So i see this and i'm like "wait we didn't have sex on Monday and Tuesday" (i last saw her on Sunday)

The bytches response was "We must have if i recorded it"

Im like "Ok"

Nows she's gone all quiet and staying in her room while im chilling in her living room with her little brother (im gonna miss the little homie when i break it off with her).

 

[SATAN]

Your right and wrong, @jadillac is projecting, it sounds like she could have just wanted to go in lunch with him and when he couldn't come she didn't want to go out on her own, she probably just wanted his company

But your wrong in saying he has lost her, he definitely hasn't lost her. He didn't reply because he probably didn't feel like going and that's perfectly fine, I don't know why guys think they have to jump at every opportunity or its over that isn't true, the amount of girls I've curved and held off doing stuff with them just cause I wasn't quite feeling it and the vast majority of them just tried harder and harder. That non-chalant take it or leave attitude when it's genuine is one of the best tools a man can employ,

I never said he had to jump at every opportunity. But it does help to show her that you're at least somewhat interested lol

I can tell that the girl he's talking about is needy for attention, so she will just jump to the first person who gives her the attention she wants.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

How many times is a girl going to want to walk at the park with you before wanting to do something that requires spending money? And if you keep trying to Netflix and chill her she gonna think you just wanna smash.

Every single girl that is actually into you wont give a fukk if your spending money or not, as long as shes spending time with you. nikka if you think the first date has to be spending money or even that you have to spend money at all your a rookie my friend. If you've done your bit properly and she has high interest in you then you dont need to take her anywhere where your spending a penny.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

I never said he had to jump at every opportunity. But it does help to show her that you're at least somewhat interested lol

I can tell that the girl he's talking about is needy for attention, so she will just jump to the first person who gives her the attention she wants.

If she has high interest in the breh, which it sounds like she possibly could have based on the fact the she asked him out, then even if other nikkas are giving her attention shes still gonna want his attention, infact the attention of nikkas she isnt as interested in will just make her want his attention even more. Theres ways of showing her hes somewhat interested, im 100% shes is already aware he is somewhat interested otherwise she wouldn't have invited him out like that in the first place.

Girls needy for attention are the easiest girls to game, if you got game, your a good talker and your funny then give her a little bit of the attention she wants, letting her see all those qualities of yours and then abruptly starve her of your attention and let her get all the attention she can get from all the other nikkas she can find, if they dont make as good an impressions as you did then they only building you up in her mind helping you win. Its not just about the attention, its the quality of the attention too. Eventually she will start chasing you to get your attention back.