Two questions
If you always been interested in her why wait to shoot your shot?
You think it's wise getting involved with a co worker?
bytches turn into entirely different people after them first 3 months
I don’t even like this bytch as a human being no more
Broke up with my (ex) girl because as time went on in the relationship, she became more busy, sleeping all the time etc. Just out right being lazy. So I chalked it up to the game that she was most likely playing me and isnt really into me anymore.
So I ended it and she did NOT take it well. Started saying I never gave her a chance to change, she has depression, any excuse in the book...but in reality I did give her a chance cause I warned her a month ago. I also told her id pay for therapy for her depression or anything she needed to help. She would never do it though. It's like she legit doesn't understand how she was in the wrong and why I wouldn't want to be with her anymore. Kinda worried about her but on the other end im glad im done with her. Like she really is an idiot. I want her to take an I.Q test.
Why shoot your shot if you're not interested1) i never said i was interested in her. I just said i be talking to her a lil when i come in.
2) and shyt aint nobody gotta know nttn. We work different shifts and we are only seen at the same time between shifts and thats like only 2mins. Plus when i arrive there's nobody around but me and her
You're projecting, breh. Why so negative towards her? It sounds like she just wanted to eat lunch with you.
You just lost her, breh
Next time ask her if she's cool with paying since she asked.
And if she is wait till after she pays then pay her back. Tell her you were just seeing if she was really bout you.
Then you wont have to worry about her "wanting" something from you.
I was browsing Tinder earlier, and I see this Asian ting I know on there. Whose off-limits to mess with, as I do work with her.
The thing is she currently has a BF. She must be looking to move on. Sucks for him. Met the guy, nice but very timid and apparently she's his second-ever GF. His previous one 'turned' asexual and he went along with it.
I'm sure everyone who has ever fukked a work colleague has had this sentiment, even myself
If you see the person everyday and continue to fukk like every week, someone will eventually catch feelings. It's never as simple as act like it never happened after that believe me.
As far as I've read your only in the beginning cycle so of course everything is fine. Let me know how that develops in a few weeks.
That's his fault, the dumbfukk went to one of those work Christmas parties.My nikka was fukking a co-worker of his, I warned him of the potential stickiness of the situation, so did another boy of ours who also worked at the same place as him. Bare in mind him and this chick were apparently on the same page that it wasn't anything serious, they just messing around with each other.
Anyway a few months down the line a new girl starts working there and my boy starts talking to her. Cue the work Christmas party, my boy talking to the new ting, the other girl who he was fukking before with the agreement it is nothing serious ending up getting drunk and start wilding out on a mad one at the work Christmas party, Infront of everyone crying and everything, no one at work even knew they were fukking apart from our other boy up until that moment. He then had to take her home cause she was crying her eyes out and all his work colleagues were like come man calm her down take her home etc. In the process she cockblocked him with the new chick. Just a cautionary tale for some nikkas.
Btw we clowned this nikka for MONTHS loool
How many times is a girl going to want to walk at the park with you before wanting to do something that requires spending money? And if you keep trying to Netflix and chill her she gonna think you just wanna smash.Awful advice.
@jadillac nikka oi you want to know if she wants to spend time with you or just wants you to spend money on her then simply suggest something that doesn't involve spending money simple, it isn't rocket science people. Asking her if she's cool with paying is awful advice. Ask her instead of going out does she want to just come over, chill and eat at home. Ask her if she wants to go to a really nice park you know of or walk by a river or lake etc, if she wants to spend time with you and it's not about money she will say yes to these suggestions.
That's his fault, the dumbfukk went to one of those work Christmas parties.
Co-workers + alcohol is a WOAT situation.
Never EVER go to a work Christmas party
I never said he had to jump at every opportunity. But it does help to show her that you're at least somewhat interested lolYour right and wrong, @jadillac is projecting, it sounds like she could have just wanted to go in lunch with him and when he couldn't come she didn't want to go out on her own, she probably just wanted his company
But your wrong in saying he has lost her, he definitely hasn't lost her. He didn't reply because he probably didn't feel like going and that's perfectly fine, I don't know why guys think they have to jump at every opportunity or its over that isn't true, the amount of girls I've curved and held off doing stuff with them just cause I wasn't quite feeling it and the vast majority of them just tried harder and harder. That non-chalant take it or leave attitude when it's genuine is one of the best tools a man can employ,
How many times is a girl going to want to walk at the park with you before wanting to do something that requires spending money? And if you keep trying to Netflix and chill her she gonna think you just wanna smash.