Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LeVraiPapi]

So this chick I was smashing was posting shyt about her ex every day. Not directly but shyt about how a man did not treat her right and about how she has moved on. One day I was at her spot and she went to the bathroom. Her ex texted her "hey I think we should go to that Thai restaurant. Wanna eat there before I fly out."

Since then, I wanted to dip on her but I kepr her around and watched her lie and tried to manipulate as she made plans with him. Yesterday we met up and she wanted to smash. Clothes off and I told her "put your clothes back on. I'm not feeling this and we need to reflect"

You could see her ego deflate and she felt like she was disposable. Then she was like "what did I do ? Why? Did I upset you?" I never answered and put my clothes back on.

Then she went off. Well you been seeing that girl fron the bar a lot lately I heard. Is it because of her ? I was shocked she knew cuz I never told her but I wanted her gone so I told her she been fukking her ex and that negga aint half the man I am so I need her to get the fukk on and go fukk him cuz hes the one she loves. She got so mad she threw a water bottle at me

She started crying about how they remained cool but she never let him hit. She offered to show me texts where dude complaining that he wants her back and she kept saying no. fukk that. If dude can take her on dates thats still his p*ssy. If he still talks to her on the phone he can still hit it. I actually want her to go back to him. I was hitting it while she was still with him so I know from jump she not the one.

Truth is I wanted to drop her and her ex gave me the perfect chance to drop her.

Now she sending me long ass messages about how I destroyed her and played her.
She sent one text that says "Mom wanna talk to you. When are you available ?"

I still ain't replying.


Issue is she knows where I work and she knows about the girl. I feel like she may have her number or her IG.

 

[SATAN]

So this chick I was smashing was posting shyt about her ex every day. Not directly but shyt about how a man did not treat her right and about how she has moved on. One day I was at her spot and she went to the bathroom. Her ex texted her "hey I think we should go to that Thai restaurant. Wanna eat there before I fly out."

Since then, I wanted to dip on her but I kepr her around and watched her lie and tried to manipulate as she made plans with him. Yesterday we met up and she wanted to smash. Clothes off and I told her "put your clothes back on. I'm not feeling this and we need to reflect"

You could see her ego deflate and she felt like she was disposable. Then she was like "what did I do ? Why? Did I upset you?" I never answered and put my clothes back on.

Then she went off. Well you been seeing that girl fron the bar a lot lately I heard. Is it because of her ? I was shocked she knew cuz I never told her but I wanted her gone so I told her she been fukking her ex and that negga aint half the man I am so I need her to get the fukk on and go fukk him cuz hes the one she loves. She got so mad she threw a water bottle at me

She started crying about how they remained cool but she never let him hit. She offered to show me texts where dude complaining that he wants her back and she kept saying no. fukk that. If dude can take her on dates thats still his p*ssy. If he still talks to her on the phone he can still hit it. I actually want her to go back to him. I was hitting it while she was still with him so I know from jump she not the one.

Truth is I wanted to drop her and her ex gave me the perfect chance to drop her.

Now she sending me long ass messages about how I destroyed her and played her.
She sent one text that says "Mom wanna talk to you. When are you available ?"

I still ain't replying.


Issue is she knows where I work and she knows about the girl. I feel like she may have her number or her IG.

So was this a chick that you were just smashing? Did you want a relationship? It looks like you caught feelings for her, which is why some jealousy came up about her ex that she was still fukking. That's the tough part about fukking a woman you're not in a relationship, it's inevitable that one or both of you will catch feelings.

I'd have said to keep fukking after you both get tested

 

[LeVraiPapi]

So was this a chick that you were just smashing? Did you want a relationship? It looks like you caught feelings for 8her, which is why some jealousy came up about her ex that she was still fukking. That's the tough part about fukking a woman you're not in a relationship, it's inevitable that one or both of you will catch feelings.

I'd have said to keep fukking after you both get tested

I was just smashing and she was cool with it.
I caught no feelings for her but I'm very much hard on girls fukking another negga if I fukk on the reg because I dont know who that other negga fukks. I never wanted a relationship with her either. I wanted to end it and her ex gave me the perfect excuse to dip so I took it. Now sje cant deal with it. I met her mom at a party and I did not even know her mom was coming. Lol. Its actually a relief to let that girl go. She is very hard headed and wanna pick fights over the simplest shyt. Very petty and posts stupud shyt like " why can't men mind their eyes ? My body is mine"

Breh, when these girls see you can provide that security, they will pull all stops to catch you. Lol

The chick from the bar is young but very ambitious and has her shyt together. She is more of a lady and wants to be a lady.

Plus I have another chick who has her own practice and very business oriented.

So my pool is okay even just on the surface.

 

[VertigoKnight]

She has a boyfriend and she's on Tinder. I doubt she cares about "off-limits"

I just fukked two co-worker chicks this week

Oh for sure I'd fukk her into oblivion. But I keep a very clear distance between women I make money with and work with.

I just don't need the headache if we fukk and things go sour.

 

[SATAN]

Oh for sure I'd fukk her into oblivion. But I keep a very clear distance between women I make money with and work with.

I just don't need the headache if we fukk and things go sour.

What can go sour? It's simple, just fukk her every once in a while. Once she eventually gets bored and moves on, keep it moving and act like it never happened.

If you don't catch feelings (easier said than done), everything will be fine.

If you'd rather not smash, I understand and respect that. But based on what she's already doing, she seems to not give a fukk

 

[DapMeUp!]

What can go sour? It's simple, just fukk her every once in a while. Once she eventually gets bored and moves on, keep it moving and act like it never happened.

If you don't catch feelings (easier said than done), everything will be fine.

If you'd rather not smash, I understand and respect that. But based on what she's already doing, she seems to not give a fukk

I'm sure everyone who has ever fukked a work colleague has had this sentiment, even myself

If you see the person everyday and continue to fukk like every week, someone will eventually catch feelings. It's never as simple as act like it never happened after that believe me.

As far as I've read your only in the beginning cycle so of course everything is fine. Let me know how that develops in a few weeks.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

What can go sour?

Famous last words.

 

[Silkk]

Famous last words.

Lol

 

[Abraxus]

How many times a week do yall go to the gym?

N how much time do u lift( hour?)

I usually went gym twice a week to hoop for a few hours but i woke up today to lift n i felt way better already

45 min to an hour

all this chick does is send me

hey good morning insert my name

i say hey good morning how are you

she says fine

i say cool

then she sends me a photo of her at work

and thats it

Had a few of them too. Never met em either. It was always an excuse and the last straw was the same girl sending me a pic of her in some club having drinks. DELETE

 

[Astroslik]

Anyone who has an Apple Watch be careful.

Got damn notification from some other girl popped up on the watch and she saw the whole damn text

 

[Silkk]

Anyone who has an Apple Watch be careful.

Got damn notification from some other girl popped up on the watch and she saw the whole damn text

What it said?

 

[VertigoKnight]

What can go sour? It's simple, just fukk her every once in a while. Once she eventually gets bored and moves on, keep it moving and act like it never happened.

If you don't catch feelings (easier said than done), everything will be fine.

If you'd rather not smash, I understand and respect that. But based on what she's already doing, she seems to not give a fukk

We all know how women can flip even if you've both agreed to a FWB situation.

Maybe because I work in a corporate environment, I'm very aware of not shytting where I eat. I've seen people at work mess around, shyt go south and usually one or the other has to leave the job, usually the guy. Because a chick is bad mouthing them.

That could never be me. I'm aware a lot of women at work and who I do creative projects with are interested and we flirt but could never be more than that. Nothing and I mean nothing is going to mess up my money and career.

I can get enough women who have nothing to do with my work and mess with them.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

So I came to relieve this chick at work that I be talking to a lil bit when I first get there.
Last night I came in stomach all fukked up cuz of drinkin and as I was walking to the desk she was on the phone and was like "hey honeybun".
I aint say nttn cuz I saw she was on the phone. She end up saying it again and im like ": oh i aint know you was talking to me. I ain't know I was honeybun" she told me she so glad im there so she can go cuz she tired. A few sentences exchanged here and there and that was it. It was on my head the whole shift cuz it came out the blue.

I just got off the phone with her (called the desk phone) . I asked was this Sabrina and she said yeah then I said this "honey bun". She giggled and I told her she forgot wednesday and thursday to sign by her name on the sign in sheet. blah blah blah and she tells me "thank you honey bun. See you later".

I only relieve her Wednesdays and Thursdays so I told myself ima shoot my shot on wednesday and see what she say . At first I was gon brush off that honeybun shyt as her just being friendly cuz women be saying names like that but then im like shyt might as well see if she bite

 

[Max.]

Meeting up with this chick from panama after 6pm...

 

[semicko82]

So I came to relieve this chick at work that I be talking to a lil bit when I first get there.
Last night I came in stomach all fukked up cuz of drinkin and as I was walking to the desk she was on the phone and was like "hey honeybun".
I aint say nttn cuz I saw she was on the phone. She end up saying it again and im like ": oh i aint know you was talking to me. I ain't know I was honeybun" she told me she so glad im there so she can go cuz she tired. A few sentences exchanged here and there and that was it. It was on my head the whole shift cuz it came out the blue.

I just got off the phone with her (called the desk phone) . I asked was this Sabrina and she said yeah then I said this "honey bun". She giggled and I told her she forgot wednesday and thursday to sign by her name on the sign in sheet. blah blah blah and she tells me "thank you honey bun. See you later".

I only relieve her Wednesdays and Thursdays so I told myself ima shoot my shot on wednesday and see what she say . At first I was gon brush off that honeybun shyt as her just being friendly cuz women be saying names like that but then im like shyt might as well see if she bite

Two questions
If you always been interested in her why wait to shoot your shot?

You think it's wise getting involved with a co worker?