it is deep man. I feel that. the women that need to be upgraded, continue to use that example that was given from her upgrader, and accordingly, will leave him to look for the next upgrade. it becomes a taught cycle for her. thats why we say that women need to be trained properly, and through action.
its looking like, only if she has no other options, will she
possibly take the relationship more seriously. but the upgrade just upped her chance at another come up for her. so she will go and try to get that. see thinks that if she doesnt get the most mileage out that p*ssy, than she will never be "happy" with her life and had to settle. so stepping her up is not smart, ever.
because if you had to lower yourself and your standards in order to get her on your level and boost her, shes going to lose respect for you. she will see you as someone who lowered himself for her (who knows she aint shyt)